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The Fruit of the Spirit

Jesus promised a gift to His followers that would stay with them always: the Holy Spirit! The Spirit brings life. The Spirit sets us free. The Spirit dwells in us. The Spirit empowers us.

So what does a life transformed by the Spirit look like? The apostle Paul painted the picture for us in his letter to the churches in Galatia: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

Join Pastor Chuck Swindoll in this exploration of each “fruit of the Spirit,” and walk in newness of life!


Every believer experiences a “raging battle” within—a constant struggle between the old nature and the new life in Christ. In this 9-part study of Galatians 5, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores how we can win this internal war by yielding to the Holy Spirit. This series provides a deep dive into the ninefold fruit of the Spirit, showing that a life empowered by God is characterized by a supernatural quality of character that the world cannot duplicate.

1. Winning the Raging Battle within Us (Galatians 5:16–21)

  • Overview: Addresses the “tug-of-war” between the flesh and the Spirit. Chuck explains that the key to victory is not trying harder in our own strength, but “walking by the Spirit” to overcome the desires of the flesh.
  • Key Fact: Victory is a moment-by-moment choice to yield our will to the Spirit’s control.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:16 – “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.”

2. What the World Needs Now (Galatians 5:22a)

  • Overview: Explores Love—the first and most foundational fruit. This is not a sentimental feeling, but a self-sacrificial commitment to the well-being of others, modeled by Christ.
  • Key Fact: Biblical love is the “glue” that makes all other spiritual fruit possible.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love…”

3. Joy! Joy! Joy! (Galatians 5:22b)

  • Overview: Focuses on Joy—a deep-seated sense of well-being that remains steady even when circumstances are difficult.
  • Key Fact: Joy is distinct from happiness; happiness depends on “happenings,” but joy depends on the unchanging character of God.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…joy…”

4. Don’t Miss the Entrance to Peace! (Galatians 5:22c)

  • Overview: Addresses Peace—the internal tranquility that comes from being reconciled with God and trusting in His sovereignty.
  • Key Fact: Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the presence of God in the midst of it.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…peace…”

5. Your Companion in God’s Waiting Room (Galatians 5:22d)

  • Overview: Explores Patience (Long-suffering)—the ability to endure difficult people and circumstances without losing one’s temper or hope.
  • Key Fact: Patience is the “waiting room” of faith; it is developed when we trust God’s timing over our own.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…patience…”

6. Courteous Twins in a Corrupt Culture (Galatians 5:22e)

  • Overview: A study of Kindness and Goodness. These “twins” involve a gentle disposition (kindness) expressed through helpful, moral actions (goodness).
  • Key Fact: In a culture of “outrage,” kindness and goodness are the most powerful ways for a believer to stand out.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…kindness, goodness…”

7. The Bond between Close Friends (Galatians 5:22f)

  • Overview: Focuses on Faithfulness—the quality of being reliable, trustworthy, and steady in one’s commitments to God and others.
  • Key Fact: Faithfulness is the “bond” that sustains long-term relationships and ministry impact.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…faithfulness…”

8. Extending Grace Ever So Gently (Galatians 5:23a)

  • Overview: Addresses Gentleness (Meekness). Contrary to cultural definitions, gentleness is not weakness; it is “power under control,” used to restore and comfort others.
  • Key Fact: Gentleness is the spirit in which we should approach those who have fallen or are struggling.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:23 – “gentleness…”

9. When Tapping the Brakes Is Crucial (Galatians 5:23b)

  • Overview: The series concludes with Self-Control—the internal strength provided by the Spirit to master our appetites, emotions, and tongue.
  • Key Fact: Self-control is the “brakes” of the Christian life, preventing our old nature from running off the road.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:23 – “…self-control; against such things there is no law.”

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Flying Closer to the Flame

Pastor Chuck Swindoll’s series Flying Closer to the Flame removes the fog of separation many Christians feel regarding the person of the Holy Spirit.

Like reading the dictionary’s definition of fire versus seeing its blaze and feeling its heat, these 14 messages soar you nearer to the Spirit . . . so you might experience Him as you cultivate a very personal and practical relationship with Him.

Discover how to fly closer to the Flame—our mysterious, divine Helper. He’s ready! Are you?

For many Christians, the Holy Spirit remains a mysterious or even intimidating figure. We may know the “dictionary definition” of the Spirit, but we lack the warmth and power of His actual presence. In this 14-part series, Chuck Swindoll removes the “fog of separation” and invites us to a closer walk with our divine Helper. By exploring the Spirit’s roles in transformation, healing, emotions, and inner promptings, we discover that He is not an abstract force, but a personal guide ready to ignite our spiritual lives.

Message 1: Let’s Get Reacquainted with the Spirit

Message Overview: This message serves as a foundational call to move beyond theological abstractions and truly get to know the Person of the Holy Spirit. It addresses the common fears or neglect associated with the Spirit’s ministry and invites believers into a deeper, more personal reliance on His presence.

Key Facts:

  • Nature of the Spirit: The Holy Spirit is a Person, not a vague force or “it.”
  • The Goal: To move from a “closed system” of living to one open to divine intervention.
  • The Promise: The Spirit is our Helper, Comforter, and Advocate.

Scripture References: John 14:16–17; 16:5–15

Message 2: The Main Agenda of God’s Spirit: Transformation

Message Overview: The primary work of the Holy Spirit is not merely to provide emotional “highs,” but to fundamentally transform the believer into the image of Christ. This message focuses on the internal change of character—the fruit of the Spirit—as the ultimate evidence of His work.

Key Facts:

  • Metamorphosis: Christian growth is a process of internal change, not just external conformity.
  • The Power Source: Transformation is impossible through human effort; it requires the Spirit’s power.
  • The Result: Developing the “mind of Christ” and the “fruit of the Spirit.”

Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 3:17–18; Galatians 5:22–23

Message 3: My Sin . . . and “The Things of the Spirit”

Message Overview: This message explores the conflict between the “flesh” (our sinful nature) and the “Spirit.” It provides practical insights into how sin grieves or quenches the Spirit’s influence and how confession restores the flow of His power in our lives.

Key Facts:

  • The Internal Struggle: Every believer experiences a tug-of-war between the old nature and the new.
  • Warning Signs: Bitterness, anger, and unconfessed sin hinder the Spirit’s work.
  • The Solution: Walking in the light and maintaining a “short account” with God through confession.

Scripture References: Ephesians 4:30; 1 Thessalonians 5:19; Romans 8:5–14

Message 4: Is the Spirit’s Filling That Big a Deal?

Message Overview: Chuck Swindoll clarifies the biblical command to “be filled with the Spirit.” He explains that filling is not a one-time event but a continuous surrender to the Spirit’s control, leading to a life of joy, gratitude, and mutual submission.

Key Facts:

  • Grammar Matters: The command in Ephesians 5:18 is passive (let yourself be filled) and continuous (keep being filled).
  • The Contrast: As wine controls the drunkard, the Spirit should control the believer.
  • Visible Signs: The filled life is characterized by “singing in the heart” and “giving thanks always.”

Scripture References: Ephesians 5:18–21

Message 5: The Spirit Who Surprises

Message Overview: Because the Spirit is God, He cannot be put in a box. This message explores the spontaneous and unpredictable ways the Spirit works to guide, comfort, and empower believers, often stepping outside our rigid expectations or routines.

Key Facts:

  • Sovereignty: The wind blows where it wishes, and so it is with the Spirit.
  • Spontaneity: God often works in “the interruptions” of our planned lives.
  • Openness: Maintaining a heart of “expectant availability” to God’s leadings.

Scripture References: John 3:8; Acts 8:26–40

Message 6: Draw Me Nearer . . . Nearer

Message Overview: This message focuses on the intimacy the Spirit provides. It is through the Spirit that we experience the “Abba, Father” relationship with God, moving from religious duty to the warmth of being God’s beloved children.

Key Facts:

  • Adoption: The Spirit bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God.
  • Intimacy: The Spirit enables us to pray with deep, personal affection for the Father.
  • Security: This intimacy provides a foundation of security even in times of suffering.

Scripture References: Romans 8:15–17; Galatians 4:6–7

Message 7: Those Unidentified Inner Promptings

Message Overview: How do we know if a thought or impulse is from God, ourselves, or elsewhere? This message provides biblical criteria for discerning the promptings of the Holy Spirit, emphasizing that the Spirit will never lead us contrary to the Word of God.

Key Facts:

  • The Test of Scripture: The Spirit and the Word always agree.
  • The Test of Peace: God’s leading often carries a sense of “settled peace” in the soul.
  • The Test of Counsel: Seeking confirmation through wise, godly advisors.

Scripture References: Acts 16:6–10; Colossians 3:15

Message 8: The Spirit and Our Emotions

Message Overview: God created us with emotions, and the Spirit uses them. However, we must not be led by emotions alone. This message discusses how to balance emotional expression with biblical truth, allowing the Spirit to sanctify our feelings.

Key Facts:

  • Emotional Integrity: Honest expression before God (as seen in the Psalms).
  • Control vs. Suppression: The Spirit provides self-control, which is different from emotional repression.
  • Stability: Truth must remain the anchor for our shifting feelings.

Scripture References: Psalm 42; 2 Timothy 1:7

Message 9: Thinking Theologically about Sickness and Healing

Message Overview: This message tackles the difficult questions regarding physical suffering. It establishes a theological framework for understanding why God allows sickness and how we should view His power to heal in a broken world.

Key Facts:

  • The Origin of Illness: Sickness is part of a fallen creation, though not always tied to personal sin.
  • God’s Purpose: God can use suffering to refine character and display His glory.
  • The Ultimate Healing: The promise of a resurrected body in the future.

Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 12:7–10; Romans 8:22–23

Message 10: A Biblical Case for Healing

Message Overview: Chuck Swindoll looks at the biblical mandates for seeking healing. He emphasizes the role of prayer, the elders of the church, and the “anointing with oil” as practical expressions of faith in God’s ability to restore health.

Key Facts:

  • The Role of the Church: The elders are called to pray over the sick.
  • The Prayer of Faith: Approaching God with confidence in His power while submitting to His will.
  • Anointing: Oil as a symbolic or medicinal act accompanying prayer.

Scripture References: James 5:13–16

Message 11: When the Spirit Brings a Slow Recovery

Message Overview: While we often desire instantaneous miracles, God frequently chooses “the long road” of recovery. This message encourages patience and endurance, showing how the Spirit sustains us through the grueling process of gradual healing.

Key Facts:

  • The Grace of Endurance: Integrity is often built more in the recovery than the cure.
  • Learning in the Wait: Discovering God’s sufficiency when progress is slow.
  • Support: The role of the Christian community in bearing one another’s burdens.

Scripture References: Psalm 27:13–14; Isaiah 40:29–31

Message 12: Power, Power . . . We’ve Got the Power!

Message Overview: This message focuses on the “dunamis” (power) of the Holy Spirit available to every believer for witnessing and service. It contrasts human weakness with divine strength, reminding us that we are “more than conquerors” through Him.

Key Facts:

  • The Purpose of Power: Not for personal show, but for being witnesses to the ends of the earth.
  • Strength in Weakness: God’s power is perfected when we admit our inability.
  • Boldness: The Spirit provides courage to share the Gospel in hostile environments.

Scripture References: Acts 1:8; 2 Corinthians 12:9

Message 13: Is That All There Is to the Spirit’s Ministry?

Message Overview: This message looks at the diverse and ongoing ministries of the Spirit, including His role in spiritual gifts, intercession for the believer, and the “sealing” that guarantees our eternal inheritance.

Key Facts:

  • Spiritual Gifts: Given for the common good and the building up of the body.
  • The Intercessor: The Spirit groans on our behalf when we don’t know how to pray.
  • The Seal: The Holy Spirit is the “down payment” of our future glory.

Scripture References: 1 Corinthians 12; Romans 8:26–27; Ephesians 1:13–14

Message 14: Let’s Just Praise the Lord

Message Overview: The final message in the series concludes with a focus on worship. When we are truly “flying closer to the flame” of the Spirit, the natural result is a life of praise, adoration, and exaltation of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Key Facts:

  • The Spirit’s Focus: The Holy Spirit always seeks to glorify Christ, not Himself.
  • A Lifestyle of Praise: Worship as a daily response, not just a Sunday event.
  • The Final Goal: A heart fully surrendered and overflowing with gratitude to God.

Scripture References: John 16:14; Psalm 150; Revelation 4–5

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Marriage: From Surviving to Thriving

Marriage is hard—there’s no doubt about that. So, is it possible for a marriage to move beyond mere survival into a thriving union? Absolutely!

God designed this ancient institution to bless His people, to reflect His character, and to work out His purposes—despite all the difficulties.

In this series on marriage, Pastor Chuck Swindoll reveals the biblical design, dynamic, and destination of healthy marriage, so you can move into a vibrant, deep, Christ-centered relationship with your spouse.

Marriage is undoubtedly a challenging journey, but it was never intended to be a mere dutiful contract to be endured. God designed this ancient institution to be a source of blessing, a reflection of His character, and a vital part of His redemptive purpose. In this series, Chuck Swindoll addresses the unprecedented challenges facing the modern family and provides practical, scriptural guidance to help couples move from “survival mode” to a thriving partnership. By examining the biblical design for the home, you can rediscover the excitement and depth that God intended for your marriage.

Message 1: This Is Not Your Grandfather’s Family

Message Overview: This message addresses the rapid cultural shifts that have transformed the modern landscape of family life. It acknowledges the unique pressures today’s couples face—ranging from digital distractions to changing social norms—and emphasizes the urgent need to return to a firm, biblical foundation that transcends generational trends.

Key Facts:

  • Cultural Context: The “traditional” family structure is under more pressure today than in previous generations.
  • The Foundation: When the foundations are destroyed, the righteous must look to God’s unchanging Word.
  • The Goal: Building a family that is counter-cultural in its commitment to Christ.

Scripture References: Psalm 11:3; 127:1–2

Message 2: Getting Back on Target

Message Overview: Using the metaphor of an archer, this message focuses on God’s original “bullseye” for marriage. It revisits the foundational blueprint found in Genesis, emphasizing the three pillars of a healthy union: leaving the priority of parents, cleaving to one’s spouse, and becoming “one flesh” in every sense of the word.

Key Facts:

  • The Blueprint: Marriage was God’s idea, and He has provided the specific instructions for its success.
  • Prioritization: A thriving marriage requires the couple to prioritize their relationship over all other human connections.
  • Unity: Oneness is a process of physical, emotional, and spiritual integration.

Scripture References: Genesis 2:18–25; Matthew 19:4–6

Message 3: Symphony of Survival in the Key of C

Message Overview: Successful marriages aren’t characterized by a lack of conflict, but by the ability to harmonize through it. This message explores the “Key of C”—essential qualities like Communication, Commitment, Compromise, and Christ-centeredness—that allow a couple to turn the noise of daily life into a beautiful symphony.

Key Facts:

  • Communication: Honest, grace-filled speech is the lifeblood of a healthy relationship.
  • Commitment: A “no-exit” mentality provides the security needed for vulnerability.
  • Compromise: Thriving requires the death of selfishness and the birth of mutual cooperation.

Scripture References: Ephesians 4:25–32; Colossians 4:6

Message 4: Practical Advice on Making a Marriage Stick

Message Overview: This message offers “nuts and bolts” advice for the daily grind of marriage. It focuses on the importance of shared values, the power of small acts of kindness, and the necessity of maintaining a sense of humor and perspective when things get difficult.

Key Facts:

  • Tenacity: “Sticking” together is a choice made daily, especially when the initial spark feels dim.
  • Shared Vision: Couples who move in the same direction spiritually are more likely to stay together.
  • Loyalty: Protecting the reputation of your spouse in public and private.

Scripture References: 1 Corinthians 13:4–8; Proverbs 24:3–4

Message 5: Essential Glue for Every Couple to Apply

Message Overview: What keeps a marriage together when life tries to pull it apart? This message identifies the “essential glue” of the Christian life: grace and forgiveness. It explains how to apply the gospel to our spouse’s failures, ensuring that bitterness never has a chance to take root.

Key Facts:

  • Forgiveness: The act of releasing a debt so that intimacy can be restored.
  • Grace: Giving your spouse what they need (kindness/patience) rather than what they deserve.
  • Maintenance: Love is not just a feeling; it is a “binding” force that must be intentionally applied.

Scripture References: Colossians 3:12–14; Ephesians 4:32

Message 6: What Families Need to Thrive

Message Overview: A thriving marriage provides the “soil” in which a healthy family grows. This message outlines the environment necessary for a family to flourish, including clear boundaries, consistent modeling of faith, and an atmosphere of unconditional love and acceptance.

Key Facts:

  • Modeling: Children learn more from what parents are than from what they say.
  • Atmosphere: A home should be a safe haven of encouragement, not a courtroom of judgment.
  • Intentionality: Thriving families don’t happen by accident; they are the result of deliberate choices.

Scripture References: Deuteronomy 6:4–9; Psalm 128

Message 7: Danger Signs of Marital Erosion

Message Overview: Marriages rarely collapse overnight; they usually erode slowly over time. This message identifies the “little foxes” that spoil the vine—silent resentment, lack of physical intimacy, and the “busyness” that leads to emotional distance—and how to stop the slide before it’s too late.

Key Facts:

  • Warning Signs: Identifying drift and apathy before they become divorce.
  • Vigilance: Protecting the marriage from external intrusions (work, hobbies, or even children) that take priority over the spouse.
  • Restoration: It is never too late to turn around if both parties are willing to humble themselves.

Scripture References: Song of Solomon 2:15; Ephesians 4:26–27

Message 8: Staying Young as Your Family Grows Older

Message Overview: In the final message of the series, Chuck Swindoll discusses how to keep the “romance” and “youthfulness” in a marriage through the various stages of life. From the empty nest to the golden years, it encourages couples to keep playing, keep learning, and keep adventuring together.

Key Facts:

  • Perspective: Seeing aging as an opportunity for deeper intimacy rather than a loss of vitality.
  • Playfulness: Cultivating joy and laughter as a defense against the seriousness of life’s burdens.
  • Lifelong Love: Committing to be “students” of one another for a lifetime.

Scripture References: Ecclesiastes 9:9; Proverbs 5:18–19

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Things to Stop and Start

Many of us spend our days saying, “I don’t have enough time!” Meanwhile, our cluttered closet stays cluttered, the thought of our estranged family member still stirs up resentment in our heart, and our time with God remains on the back burner.

Is it really true that we don’t have enough time? Or do we just need help prioritizing what truly matters?

Join Chuck Swindoll for this vital message series and learn:

  • Why to say no to procrastination, blaming, drifting, and other negative traits
  • How to say yes to following through, forgiving, digging into our faith, and more

Let’s start making the most of the time God has given us.


We often complain about not having enough time, yet we allow our lives to be cluttered with habits and attitudes that drain our spiritual energy. In this series, Chuck Swindoll challenges us to take an honest inventory of our lives. Following the biblical principle of “putting off” the old and “putting on” the new, we examine the practical shifts necessary for spiritual maturity. From stopping the blame game to starting a life of vulnerability, these messages offer a roadmap for making the most of the time God has given us.

Message 1: Stop Drifting Along and Start Digging In

Sermon Summary Getting older happens automatically, but growing up spiritually requires intentionality. Too many believers find themselves years into their faith but still shallow in their understanding of God’s Word. This message explores how to stop the passive drift of “easy” Christianity and start the disciplined work of digging deep into the scriptures.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Intentional Growth: Why spiritual maturity is never accidental.
  • The Danger of Shallow Faith: Moving beyond basic knowledge to a life-changing understanding of God.

Primary Scripture References

  • Hebrews 5:11–6:1: The call to move past the elementary teachings and go on to maturity.
  • 2 Peter 3:18: The command to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord.

Message 2: Stop Procrastinating and Start Following Through

Sermon Summary Procrastination is often a mask for fear or a lack of discipline. It leaves us with a life full of “half-finished” projects and unkept promises to God. Chuck provides biblical motivation for honoring our commitments and the spiritual benefits of consistent follow-through.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Cost of Delay: How putting things off hinders our witness and spiritual effectiveness.
  • Faithful Stewardship: Treating our time and tasks as a sacred trust from God.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Ecclesiastes 5:4–5: The importance of fulfilling the vows we make to God.

Message 3: Stop Shaming and Start Honoring

Sermon Summary Shame is a destructive tool that isolates and devalues people. In contrast, the biblical call is to honor one another. This message looks at how we can stop using shame as a weapon—whether against ourselves or others—and start reflecting the dignity that God places on every human being.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Grace Alternative: Moving from a culture of condemnation to one of restoration.
  • Building Up vs. Tearing Down: The power of our words to reflect God’s heart.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Romans 12:10: The command to “outdo one another in showing honor.”

Message 4: Stop Blaming and Start Forgiving

Sermon Summary Blame is the enemy of growth because it refuses to take responsibility. By shifting the focus to others’ faults, we remain stuck in bitterness. Chuck explores how to break the cycle of blame by embracing the radical, freeing power of forgiveness—both for ourselves and those who have wronged us.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Ownership: The necessity of taking responsibility for our own reactions and choices.
  • The Freedom of Forgiveness: Why letting go of the “debt” is the only path to healing.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Colossians 3:13: Bearing with one another and forgiving as the Lord forgave us.

Message 5: Stop Worrying and Start Trusting

Sermon Summary Worry is a heavy burden that God never intended us to carry. It assumes that God is not in control or not concerned. This message contrasts the paralysis of anxiety with the peace that comes from actively trusting in the character and promises of our Heavenly Father.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Anxiety vs. Assurance: Shifting focus from our problems to God’s power.
  • Daily Dependence: The practice of “casting cares” on the One who cares for us.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • 1 Peter 5:7: Casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you.

Message 6: Stop Resisting and Start Submitting

Sermon Summary Our natural inclination is to fight for our own way, often resisting God’s leading and authority. Chuck examines the beauty and strength found in submission—recognizing that when we stop resisting God’s plan, we find the very protection and guidance we’ve been seeking.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Strength of Surrender: Why submission is a sign of spiritual power, not weakness.
  • Trusting Authority: Finding peace in God’s sovereign direction for our lives.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • James 4:7: “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

Message 7: Stop Acting Perfect and Start Being Vulnerable

Sermon Summary Many Christians feel the pressure to “have it all together,” which leads to hypocrisy and isolation. This message encourages us to drop the mask of perfection. When we are honest about our struggles and weaknesses, we create space for God’s power to work and for genuine community to flourish.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Authenticity: The spiritual relief of being real about our needs.
  • Grace in Weakness: How vulnerability invites God’s strength into our lives.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • 2 Corinthians 12:9: God’s power is made perfect in our weakness.

Message 8: Stop Lying and Start Acknowledging

Sermon Summary Deception, even in “small” ways, erodes character and destroys trust. Chuck addresses the importance of total honesty, starting with acknowledging the truth about our own hearts before God. This message is a call to live a life of integrity where our outside matches our inside.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Integrity: The foundational role of truth in the life of a believer.
  • The Power of Confession: The healing that comes from bringing truth into the light.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Proverbs 28:13: “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.”

Message 9: Stop Criticizing Earth and Start Contemplating Heaven

Sermon Summary It is easy to become cynical and hyper-critical of the world around us. In this series finale, Chuck encourages us to lift our gaze. By focusing on the reality and beauty of our eternal home, we find the perspective and hope needed to live faithfully and joyfully in the present.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Eternal Perspective: How the hope of Heaven changes our priorities on Earth.
  • Joyful Endurance: Moving from a critical spirit to a heart filled with anticipation.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Colossians 3:1–2: Setting our minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.

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Growing Up in God’s Family

God’s Word describes the body of believers as “brothers and sisters” and “co-heirs” with Jesus, and when Jesus taught His disciples to pray, He began by saying, “Our Father.” Why?

We’re a family in Christ. And like any family, God’s family is filled with people in all stages of spiritual development: newborn believers, those still adolescent in their walk, and the spiritually mature.

Join Chuck Swindoll as he takes an in-depth look at the stages of growth that characterize the Christian walk.

Spiritual maturity is not an automatic result of time; it is a process of intentional growth. In this series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores the “ages and stages” of the Christian life. By comparing spiritual development to human physical growth—from infancy to adulthood—Chuck provides a roadmap for identifying immaturity and pursuing the “solid food” of a deep, seasoned relationship with Christ.

Message 1: Analysis of a Crop Failure

  • Overview: Why do some Christians stop growing? Using the Parable of the Soils, Chuck analyzes the internal and external “choke points” that prevent the Word of God from producing a harvest in a believer’s life.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual “crop failure” is rarely a seed problem; it is almost always a soil problem involving the distractions of the world or a lack of depth in the heart.
  • Scripture Reference: Matthew 13:1–23

Message 2: Growing Up in God’s Family

  • Overview: An introduction to the family dynamics of the Kingdom. Chuck establishes that every believer enters God’s family as a “newborn” and outlines the biblical expectation for consistent maturation.
  • Key Fact: Just as physical growth is the natural result of health, spiritual growth is the natural result of a healthy connection to the Head of the Church, Jesus Christ.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 2:12–14

Message 3: Ages and Stages of Growing Up

  • Overview: Chuck explores the distinct phases of spiritual life mentioned by the Apostle John: little children, young men, and fathers.
  • Key Fact: Each stage of spiritual growth has its own unique strengths (such as the energy of “young men”) and its own unique vulnerabilities.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 2:12–14

Message 4: Birth and Infancy: Survival Basics

  • Overview: Every believer starts at the same place: spiritual infancy. This message focuses on the “survival basics” of the new life in Christ, primarily the craving for the “pure milk of the word.”
  • Key Fact: Spiritual infants are characterized by a total dependence on others for “feeding” and a high need for protection and basic nurture.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 Peter 2:1–3

Message 5: Look . . . I’m Walking!

  • Overview: The transition from being a passive recipient of the Word to an active doer. Chuck discusses the first steps of spiritual obedience and the “wobbles” that often accompany early growth.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual “walking” begins when a believer moves from merely hearing the Truth to applying it in daily, practical decisions.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 5:11–14

Message 6: The Delights of Childhood

  • Overview: Childhood is a season of wonder and simple trust. Chuck encourages believers to maintain a “childlike” faith—characterized by curiosity and dependence—without becoming “childish.”
  • Key Fact: Jesus taught that the Kingdom of God belongs to those who approach Him with the humility and openness of a child.
  • Scripture Reference: Mark 10:13–16

Message 7: Adult Talk about “Childish Things”

  • Overview: There is a point where a believer must “put away childish things.” Chuck identifies the behaviors that are appropriate for a child but indicate a lack of growth in an adult believer.
  • Key Fact: “Childishness” in the church is often manifested through divisiveness, jealousy, and a focus on self-interest rather than the needs of the Body.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 Corinthians 13:11; 1 Corinthians 3:1–3

Message 8: Three Proofs of Growth

  • Overview: How do you measure spiritual maturity? Chuck provides three objective benchmarks: a growing knowledge of Christ, an increasing discernment of truth, and a deepening stability in character.
  • Key Fact: Maturity is not measured by how much you know, but by how much your knowledge has transformed your character.
  • Scripture Reference: 2 Peter 3:18; Ephesians 4:13–15

Message 9: Adolescents in Adult Bodies

  • Overview: A challenging message regarding spiritual “arrested development.” Chuck describes the frustration of being chronologically old in the faith but spiritually immature.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual adolescence is marked by a “know-it-all” attitude combined with a lack of consistent, sacrificial responsibility.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 5:12; 1 Corinthians 3:1–4

Message 10: When Peter Pan Comes to Church

  • Overview: Drawing on the literary figure who refused to grow up, Chuck addresses the “Peter Pan syndrome” in the church—believers who want the benefits of the family without the responsibilities of adulthood.
  • Key Fact: A healthy church requires “fathers and mothers” in the faith who are willing to mentor the next generation rather than remaining perpetual consumers.
  • Scripture Reference: Philippians 3:12–16

Message 11: What’s Right about Adolescence?

  • Overview: While adolescence can be a time of turmoil, it also brings passion and strength. Chuck explores how the zeal of “young men” in the faith is vital for spiritual warfare and church health.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual adolescents often possess the “word of God abiding in them” and the strength to overcome the evil one in ways that more passive believers do not.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 2:14

Message 12: Reasons We Resist Becoming Mature

  • Overview: Why do we stay small? Chuck identifies the common hurdles to growth: the comfort of the familiar, a fear of what God might ask of us, and a lack of spiritual discipline.
  • Key Fact: Resistance to growth is often a subtle form of self-protection that keeps us from the “abundant life” Christ promised.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 6:1–3; Galatians 5:1

Message 13: The Church: Who Needs It?

  • Overview: Growth doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Chuck makes a compelling case for the necessity of the local church as the “greenhouse” where spiritual maturity is cultivated through fellowship and accountability.
  • Key Fact: Isolation is the enemy of maturity; we are commanded to “provoke one another to love and good works” through regular gathering.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 10:24–25

Message 14: A Story for Adults to Remember

  • Overview: Using a narrative approach, Chuck shares a powerful “story of growth” that illustrates the shift from self-centeredness to God-centeredness.
  • Key Fact: Biblical stories and parables serve as “mirrors” that allow us to see our own spiritual standing more clearly than abstract lists.
  • Scripture Reference: Luke 15:11–32

Message 15: A Song for Adults to Sing

  • Overview: A message on the role of worship and gratitude in the life of a mature believer. Chuck explores how our “song” changes as we grow deeper in the Lord.
  • Key Fact: The mature believer’s worship is rooted in the “theology of the soul” rather than just the emotions of the moment.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 40:1–3; Colossians 3:16

Message 16: Growing Up in God’s Family

  • Overview: The series finale. Chuck synthesizes the lessons learned into a final call to pursue Christ with everything we have, moving toward the goal of “fullness in Christ.”
  • Key Fact: The ultimate goal of growing up in God’s family is to reflect the character of the Elder Brother, Jesus Christ, to a watching world.
  • Scripture Reference: Ephesians 4:11–16

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How Great Is Our God!

Everything—where we pin our hopes, how we raise our children, what we do in times of joy or sorrow, everything we aspire to, think, and believe—boils down to how we answer one question: Who is God?

In this series, Chuck Swindoll reminds us of the holiness and majesty of God the Father, the humility and self-sacrificing love of the Son, and the ministry and counsel only the Holy Spirit can provide. These messages provide an anchor of biblical hope in God for believers in times of both tumult and peace.

Every aspect of our lives—how we face trials, how we celebrate joys, and how we view our purpose—is determined by how we answer one central question: Who is God? In this 12-part theological survey, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores the majestic attributes of the Trinity. From the holiness and glory of God the Father to the sacrificial love of the Son and the active ministry of the Holy Spirit, these messages provide a firm biblical anchor. This series is designed to reacquaint believers with the magnitude of the God they serve, offering hope and stability in an ever-changing world.

Message 1: The Glory of God

  • Summary: This message explores the “shekinah” glory of God—the visible manifestation of His presence. It challenges the believer to move beyond a small, manageable view of God and instead stand in awe of His overwhelming majesty and weightiness.
  • Key Facts: God’s glory is the sum total of all His attributes; it is the “weight” of His character that demands our reverence.
  • Scripture: Psalm 19:1; Exodus 33:18–23; Isaiah 6:1–3.

Message 2: The Holiness of God

  • Summary: Holiness is the attribute that sets God apart from everything else. This overview discusses the absolute purity of God and why His moral perfection is the foundation for all other divine traits.
  • Key Facts: To be holy means to be “separate” or “cut off” from sin; God’s holiness provides the standard for human righteousness.
  • Scripture: Isaiah 6:1–8; 1 Peter 1:15–16; Habakkuk 1:13.

Message 3: The Love of God

  • Summary: Unlike human love, which is often conditional, God’s love is an extension of His essence. This message focuses on the “agape” love of God—a choice-driven, sacrificial affection that reached out to us while we were still sinners.
  • Key Facts: God does not just “have” love; He is love. His love is eternal, unchanging, and independent of the object being loved.
  • Scripture: 1 John 4:7–19; Romans 5:8; Ephesians 3:17–19.

Message 4: The Grace of God

  • Summary: Grace is often defined as “unmerited favor,” but this message dives deeper into how God’s grace provides what we cannot earn and do not deserve. It contrasts the Law with the freedom found in the gift of God.
  • Key Facts: Grace is the answer to human helplessness; it is the bridge between a holy God and a sinful humanity.
  • Scripture: Ephesians 2:1–10; Titus 2:11–14; Romans 3:24.

Message 5: The Cup That He Drank

  • Summary: Focusing on the agony of Gethsemane, this message examines the “cup” of divine wrath that Jesus agreed to drink. It highlights the immense cost of our redemption and the submission of the Son to the Father’s will.
  • Key Facts: The “cup” represents the concentrated judgment of God against sin; Jesus’ choice to drink it was the ultimate act of obedience.
  • Scripture: Matthew 26:36–46; Luke 22:39–46; Isaiah 51:17.

Message 6: The Servant who Came

  • Summary: This overview looks at the “Kenosis”—the self-emptying of Christ. Though He was God, He took on the form of a bondservant, modeling the humility that should characterize every follower of Christ.
  • Key Facts: True greatness in God’s kingdom is measured by service, not status; Jesus is the “Suffering Servant” prophesied in the Old Testament.
  • Scripture: Philippians 2:5–11; Isaiah 53:1–12; Mark 10:45.

Message 7: The Lamb That Was Slaughtered

  • Summary: Drawing from the Passover tradition, this message explains why Jesus is the “Lamb of God.” It details the necessity of a blood sacrifice for the atonement of sins and the finality of Christ’s work on the cross.
  • Key Facts: Sacrifice is the only way to satisfy divine justice; Jesus is the perfect, spotless fulfillment of the Old Testament sacrificial system.
  • Scripture: John 1:29; Revelation 5:6–14; 1 Peter 1:18–20.

Message 8: The Cross We Proclaim

  • Summary: The cross is the central symbol of the Christian faith. This message discusses why the “message of the cross” is foolishness to the world but the power of God to those who are being saved.
  • Key Facts: The cross is where God’s justice and God’s love met; it is the only basis for a believer’s boast.
  • Scripture: 1 Corinthians 1:18–25; Galatians 6:14; Colossians 2:13–15.

Message 9: Getting Reacquainted with the Spirit of Power

  • Summary: Many Christians live as though the Holy Spirit is a vague force rather than a Person. This message introduces the Spirit as our Comforter, Advocate, and the source of supernatural power for daily living.
  • Key Facts: The Holy Spirit is the third Person of the Trinity, equal in essence to the Father and the Son; He is the “Helper” promised by Jesus.
  • Scripture: John 14:16–17; John 16:7–15; Acts 1:8.

Message 10: What Does Being ”Filled with the Spirit” Mean?

  • Summary: This overview clarifies the difference between the “baptism” of the Spirit and the “filling” of the Spirit. It focuses on the command to be continually under the influence and control of the Holy Spirit.
  • Key Facts: Being filled with the Spirit is a command to be obeyed, not just a feeling to be sought; it results in the “fruit of the Spirit” in a believer’s life.
  • Scripture: Ephesians 5:18–21; Galatians 5:22–23; Colossians 3:16.

Message 11: Those Unidentified Inner Promptings

  • Summary: How do we distinguish the leading of the Holy Spirit from our own thoughts or emotions? This message provides biblical filters to identify the quiet, inner promptings of God in our decision-making process.
  • Key Facts: The Spirit will never lead in a direction contrary to the Word of God; inner peace and biblical alignment are key indicators of the Spirit’s leading.
  • Scripture: Romans 8:14–16; 1 Kings 19:11–13; Psalm 32:8.

Message 12: The Spirit’s Most Significant Mission

  • Summary: The series concludes by emphasizing that the Holy Spirit’s primary mission is to glorify Jesus Christ. He does this by convicting the world of sin and empowering the church to bear witness to the Gospel.
  • Key Facts: The Spirit does not draw attention to Himself but always points toward the Son; His mission is to make the presence of Jesus real to the believer.
  • Scripture: John 16:13–14; Acts 4:31; 2 Corinthians 3:17–18.

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Biblical Parenting

Parenting is a privilege . . . and yet, it sometimes feels like a struggle. Whether persevering through an infant's late-night cries or grappling with a teenager's bad attitude, all parents need help. This series will throw a lifeline to moms and dads as Chuck Swindoll teaches biblical and practical principles for godly parenting.

In this practical and heart-to-heart series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores the high calling of raising children. Moving beyond rigid rules, Chuck focuses on the “spirit” of the home, emphasizing the importance of understanding each child’s unique, God-given “bent,” breaking generational cycles of unhealthy behavior, and fostering an environment of grace and delight.

Message 1: Discovering Your Child and Yourself

  • Overview: Parenting begins with self-awareness. This message explores how a parent’s own temperament and history impact their children, and the importance of “studying” each child to understand their unique personality.
  • Key Fact: Effective parenting requires a “discovery” mindset—treating each child as a unique puzzle to be solved rather than a project to be managed.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 139:13–16

Message 2: The Bents in Your Baby

  • Overview: A deep dive into the most famous parenting verse in the Bible. Chuck explains that “the way he should go” refers to a child’s natural inclinations and God-given design.
  • Key Fact: Training a child according to their “bent” means aligning our discipline and encouragement with their natural strengths rather than trying to force them into a mold.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 22:6

Message 3: Straightening Granddad’s Bent

  • Overview: This message addresses the reality of generational patterns. Chuck discusses how to identify and “straighten” the negative habits or sins that have been passed down through family lines.
  • Key Fact: Breaking a family cycle requires an intentional, biblical intervention to prevent the “sins of the fathers” from affecting the next generation.
  • Scripture Reference: Exodus 34:6–7

Message 4: Unpacking Our ”Ancestral Baggage”

  • Overview: Every parent brings “luggage” from their own upbringing into their new home. Chuck provides a roadmap for unpacking and discarding the emotional and spiritual baggage that hinders healthy parenting.
  • Key Fact: The first step toward parenting freedom is identifying which of your reactions are rooted in your past rather than your child’s current behavior.
  • Scripture Reference: Ezekiel 18:14–17

Message 5: Shaping the Will with Wisdom

  • Overview: Chuck explores the delicate balance between discipline and spirit. This message focuses on how to shape a child’s will through consistent, wise discipline without crushing their spirit.
  • Key Fact: Biblical discipline is a proactive investment in a child’s future character, not a reactive vent for a parent’s frustration.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 19:18; Proverbs 13:24

Message 6: Delighting in Your Children

  • Overview: Parenting should not be a drudgery. Chuck encourages parents to recapture the joy of family life by learning to truly “delight” in the gift of their children.
  • Key Fact: A child’s sense of security is deeply tied to the visible delight and approval they see in their parents’ eyes.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 127:3–5

Message 7: Delightful Memories Your Children Won’t Forget

  • Overview: This message emphasizes the importance of legacy. Chuck discusses how to intentionally build “memorials of delight” through traditions, laughter, and shared experiences.
  • Key Fact: Traditions and positive memories serve as emotional “anchors” that keep children grounded in their faith and family identity as they grow.
  • Scripture Reference: Deuteronomy 6:6–9

Message 8: When the Fun Stops for Parents

  • Overview: An encouraging word for parents facing the “tough stuff”—seasons of rebellion, exhaustion, or disappointment where the joy of parenting seems to have vanished.
  • Key Fact: Perseverance in parenting is a spiritual discipline; God provides special grace for the seasons when parenting feels more like a battle than a blessing.
  • Scripture Reference: Galatians 6:9; Lamentations 3:22–23

Message 9: Resolving Those Parent-Child Conflicts

  • Overview: Conflict is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be destructive. Chuck outlines a biblical process for resolving tension and restoring harmony between parents and children.
  • Key Fact: Reconciliation is more important than “winning” an argument; humble parents who can admit they are wrong model the Gospel for their children.
  • Scripture Reference: Ephesians 6:1–4

Message 10: Accepting Reproof from Those Who Love Us

  • Overview: A message on the humility of a parent. Chuck discusses the value of being open to correction and feedback from spouses, mentors, and even our own children.
  • Key Fact: A teachable parent is much more likely to raise a teachable child; modeling humility is the most effective way to teach it.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 15:31–32

Message 11: Suggestions for Parenting Grown-Up Kids

  • Overview: As children reach adulthood, the parenting role must shift from “coach” to “consultant.” Chuck provides wisdom for navigating this complex and often difficult transition.
  • Key Fact: Influence with adult children is based on relationship and respect, not on the authority or control that characterized the childhood years.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 17:6

Message 12: What to Do When You’ve Blown It

  • Overview: The series concludes with a message of hope for parents who feel they have failed. Chuck explains that it is never too late to seek forgiveness and begin a process of restoration.
  • Key Fact: God is the God of the “second chance,” and His grace is sufficient to cover our parenting mistakes and heal family rifts.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 1:9; Joel 2:25–26

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Living the Life

John 10:9–10; Ephesians 4:25–32

When the calendar turns and we face a new year, many of us wonder what kinds of changes will take place in the coming year or how our lives will make a difference for others. Living the Life, this New Year’s message from Chuck Swindoll, presents a wonderful opportunity to reflect on the past and renew our commitment to Christ for the future. What changes will you make as the calendar turns this year?


As the calendar turns and we face the threshold of a new year, it is natural to wonder how we can make our lives truly count. In this New Year’s message, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores what it means to live the “abundant life” promised by Jesus. By contrasting the “thief” who comes to destroy with the “Shepherd” who comes to give life in its fullness, Chuck provides a practical framework for leaving behind old habits and embracing a renewed commitment to Christ and His body, the church.

1. The Contrast of Life (John 10:9–10)

  • Overview: Explores Jesus’ declaration as the “Door.” He contrasts the destructive intent of the enemy with His own mission to provide a life that is rich, meaningful, and overflowing.
  • Key Fact: The “abundant life” is not necessarily about financial prosperity; it is about a quality of life characterized by purpose, peace, and spiritual vitality.
  • Scripture: John 10:10 – “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”

2. The Practice of the Life (Ephesians 4:25–32)

  • Overview: Moves from the theology of life to the practical outworking of it in our relationships. Chuck addresses how “living the life” involves speaking truth, managing anger, and extending the same forgiveness we have received from God.
  • Key Fact: Living the life involves an intentional “putting off” of the old self and a “putting on” of the new self, modeled after Christ’s own character.
  • Scripture: Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.”

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God’s Masterwork, Volume Six

Do you need a biblical pick-me-up? The New Testament contains 13 letters written by the apostle Paul that explain theology, correct faults, encourage godly living, and outline the structure and function of the church. God’s Masterwork, Volume Six: Letters to God’s People—A Survey of Romans–Philemon describes how these topics apply to your life today.

In God’s Masterwork, Volume Six, Chuck Swindoll reminds listeners that even though the apostle wrote during the first century AD, Paul’s epistles comprise God’s inspired, inerrant Word, which applies to your life today. So, you can read these New Testament letters as if Paul addressed them to you!

Enjoy God’s Masterwork, Volume Six, and grow in your love and obedience to Christ.


In this sixth volume of the God’s Masterwork survey, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores the thirteen New Testament epistles written by the apostle Paul (Romans through Philemon). These letters form the theological core of the Christian faith, addressing everything from the mechanics of salvation and the mystery of the church to practical instructions for leadership, marriage, and handling conflict. By studying these “letters to God’s people,” we discover that the ancient wisdom provided to the early church is exactly what we need to thrive in the modern world.

1. Romans: Cornerstone of Christian Truth

  • Overview: A grand theological treatise that methodically explains the gospel, beginning with humanity’s need for a Savior and ending with the practical outworking of grace in daily life.
  • Key Fact: Romans has been the primary instrument God has used to shape the minds of history’s greatest theologians, from Augustine to Martin Luther.
  • Scripture: Romans 1:16 – “For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes.”

2. 1 Corinthians: Conflicts at Church

  • Overview: Paul addresses a “problem church” struggling with division, lawsuits, and moral compromise, providing the timeless corrective of love and spiritual discipline.
  • Key Fact: The famous “Love Chapter” (1 Corinthians 13) was originally written as a corrective for a church that was abusing spiritual gifts and neglecting character.
  • Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:13 – “But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.”

3. 2 Corinthians: A Man and His Ministry

  • Overview: The most personal of Paul’s letters, where he defends his apostolic authority and explains the beauty of God’s power being displayed through human weakness.
  • Key Fact: This book teaches that our “jars of clay” (weakness) are intentional so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be seen as from God and not us.
  • Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.”

4. Galatians: Letter of Liberation

  • Overview: A fierce defense of the gospel of grace against legalism. Paul argues that we are justified by faith alone and called to live in spiritual freedom.
  • Key Fact: Galatians is often called the “Magna Carta of Christian Liberty” because it liberates the believer from the burden of trying to earn God’s favor through the Law.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:1 – “It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery.”

5. Ephesians: True Portrait of the Church

  • Overview: Focuses on the “mystery” of the church—the body of Christ. It details our high position in the heavenly places and our calling to walk in a manner worthy of that position.
  • Key Fact: The first three chapters focus on our wealth in Christ (position), while the last three focus on our walk for Christ (practice).
  • Scripture: Ephesians 2:8–9 – “For by grace you have been saved through faith… it is the gift of God; not as a result of works.”

6. Philippians: Joy in Abundance

  • Overview: Written from a prison cell, this “letter of joy” emphasizes that true contentment is found in Christ, regardless of external circumstances.
  • Key Fact: The word “joy” or “rejoice” appears sixteen times in just four short chapters.
  • Scripture: Philippians 4:4 – “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice!”

7. Colossians: Christ, Our All in All

  • Overview: A powerful declaration of the supremacy and preeminence of Jesus Christ, written to combat early forms of Gnosticism and legalism.
  • Key Fact: Paul argues that because “in Christ all the fullness of Deity dwells,” we are made complete in Him and need no other secret knowledge or ritual.
  • Scripture: Colossians 1:18 – “He is also head of the body, the church… so that He Himself will come to have first place in everything.”

8. 1 Thessalonians: A Heart-to-Heart Talk

  • Overview: A warm, encouraging letter to a young church, focusing on their growth in faith and the comforting hope of Christ’s return (the Rapture).
  • Key Fact: Every single chapter in 1 Thessalonians ends with a reference to the second coming of Jesus Christ.
  • Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 4:16 – “For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout… and the dead in Christ will rise first.”

9. 2 Thessalonians: Christ’s Coming . . . My Response

  • Overview: Written to correct a misunderstanding that the “Day of the Lord” had already come, Paul urges the believers to stay busy and remain steadfast.
  • Key Fact: This letter clarifies that while we wait for Christ, we must avoid being “undisciplined” or idle, but should work and serve faithfully.
  • Scripture: 2 Thessalonians 2:15 – “So then, brethren, stand firm and hold to the traditions which you were taught.”

10. 1 Timothy: Wise Counsel for Shepherds

  • Overview: The first of the “Pastoral Epistles,” giving Timothy instructions on church leadership, sound doctrine, and the qualifications for overseers and deacons.
  • Key Fact: Paul wrote this letter to ensure that Timothy knew “how one ought to conduct himself in the household of God.”
  • Scripture: 1 Timothy 4:12 – “Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather… show yourself an example.”

11. 2 Timothy: Paul’s Swan Song

  • Overview: Paul’s final letter, written from a cold Roman dungeon shortly before his execution. He urges Timothy to “preach the word” and stay faithful until the end.
  • Key Fact: This book contains Paul’s “final words,” where he famously declares, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith.”
  • Scripture: 2 Timothy 3:16 – “All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness.”

12. Titus: Talk for Pastors

  • Overview: Written to Titus on the island of Crete, this letter focuses on the importance of “good deeds” as the natural fruit of sound doctrine.
  • Key Fact: Paul emphasizes that the church’s leadership must be strong to silence “rebellious men” and “empty talkers.”
  • Scripture: Titus 2:11–12 – “For the grace of God has appeared… instructing us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires.”

13. Philemon: An Appeal for Grace and Forgiveness

  • Overview: A personal postcard to a slave-owner named Philemon, asking him to receive back his runaway slave, Onesimus, no longer as a slave but as a beloved brother.
  • Key Fact: This short letter is a masterpiece of Christian diplomacy and a beautiful illustration of the power of reconciliation.
  • Scripture: Philemon 1:17 – “If then you regard me as a partner, accept him as you would me.”

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Strike the Original Match

Of all the hot-button issues of our day, marriage sits near the top of the list. With a gaggle of voices clamoring for an audience, the masses have grown increasingly confused about the most fundamental understanding of marriage. As Christians place a high value on God’s Word, we look to it for clarity on the most significant questions. How does God define marriage? What direction does the Bible offer on making marriage last? What is the nature of commitment, and what does it look like in this day and age? This series from Chuck Swindoll will bring clarity and offer direction as you navigate the views and vices that threaten this most sacred union.


In an era of confusion regarding the definition and purpose of marriage, this series returns to the biblical blueprints. Pastor Chuck Swindoll addresses the threats to the sacred union and provides direction on how to maintain a vibrant, lifelong commitment. By “striking the original match,” couples can reignite the passion and purpose God intended for marriage from the beginning.

Message 1: Let’s Consult the Architect

  • Overview: Before we can fix a marriage, we must understand its design. This message takes us back to the original “Architect” of marriage to see His definition and purpose for the union between a man and a woman.
  • Key Fact: Marriage is a divine institution, not a social contract; therefore, its rules and definitions are set by God rather than cultural trends.
  • Scripture: Genesis 2:18–25 – “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh.”

Message 2: The Project: Let’s Consider the Cost

  • Overview: Building a lasting marriage requires a realistic assessment of the investment involved. Chuck discusses the emotional, spiritual, and physical “costs” of maintaining a healthy, growing relationship.
  • Key Fact: A successful marriage is a lifelong “project” that demands consistent effort, sacrifice, and the counting of the cost before and during the journey.
  • Scripture: Luke 14:28–30 – “For which one of you, when he wants to build a tower, does not first sit down and calculate the cost…?”

Message 3: Let’s Repair the Foundation

  • Overview: When a marriage begins to lean or crack, the issue is often at the foundation. This message focuses on identifying and repairing spiritual and relational cracks before they lead to structural failure.
  • Key Fact: Repairing a marriage starts with a return to the foundational principles of honesty, mutual respect, and a shared spiritual life.
  • Scripture: Psalm 11:3 – “If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?”

Message 4: In Defense of Monogamy

  • Overview: In a culture that often devalues exclusivity, Chuck offers a biblical defense of monogamy. This message explores why total faithfulness is essential for the depth and security of the marital bond.
  • Key Fact: Biblical monogamy is the only context in which the “one flesh” union can truly flourish and provide lasting emotional security.
  • Scripture: Proverbs 5:15–23 – “Drink water from your own cistern and fresh water from your own well.”

Message 5: Bricks that Build a Marriage

  • Overview: This message identifies the specific “bricks” of character and habit that build a strong home, such as unselfishness, patience, and a sense of humor.
  • Key Fact: A strong marriage is built one small act of service and one kind word at a time, rather than through occasional grand gestures.
  • Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 – “Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant…”

Message 6: Watch Out for Cheap Substitutes!

  • Overview: Couples often look to career, children, or hobbies to provide the fulfillment that only a healthy marriage and relationship with God can give. Chuck warns against these “cheap substitutes.”
  • Key Fact: Substituting secondary activities for primary intimacy leads to a hollow marriage that lacks the resilience to face trials.
  • Scripture: Jeremiah 2:13 – “For My people have committed two evils: They have forsaken Me… to hew for themselves cisterns, broken cisterns that can hold no water.”

Message 7: Who Says the Honeymoon Must End?

  • Overview: Romance and passion are not just for the early days. This message encourages couples to intentionally keep the “spark” alive throughout every season of life.
  • Key Fact: Sustaining romance in marriage is an act of the will and a matter of priority, not just a spontaneous feeling.
  • Scripture: Song of Solomon 4:1–10 – “How beautiful you are, my darling, how beautiful you are!”

Message 8: Termites in Your Troth

  • Overview: Termites are small, hidden pests that cause massive damage. Chuck identifies the “hidden” sins and habits—like resentment or neglect—that eat away at the strength of a marriage.
  • Key Fact: The greatest threats to a marriage are often not the “big” crises, but the small, unaddressed issues that accumulate over time.
  • Scripture: Song of Solomon 2:15 – “Catch the foxes for us, the little foxes that are ruining the vineyards…”

Message 9: How to Have a Good Fight

  • Overview: Conflict is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be destructive. This message provides biblical “rules of engagement” for resolving disagreements with grace and respect.
  • Key Fact: The goal of marital conflict should be resolution and growth, not winning an argument or hurting the other person.
  • Scripture: Ephesians 4:26–27 – “Be angry, and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger.”

Message 10: Til Debt Do Us Part

  • Overview: Financial pressure is a leading cause of marital stress. Chuck offers practical biblical wisdom for managing money and avoiding the trap of debt that threatens family peace.
  • Key Fact: Financial unity requires shared goals, honest communication, and a commitment to living within God’s provided means.
  • Scripture: Proverbs 22:7 – “The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower becomes the lender’s slave.”

Message 11: Commitment Is the Key (Part One)

  • Overview: In the first part of this look at commitment, Chuck explores why a solid “covenant” is the essential ingredient that holds a marriage together when feelings fade.
  • Key Fact: Biblical commitment is a promise kept regardless of the circumstances, modeled after God’s covenant with His people.
  • Scripture: Malachi 2:14–16 – “She is your companion and your wife by covenant.”

Message 12: Commitment Is the Key (Part Two)

  • Overview: This message continues the study of commitment, focusing on the practical “how-to” of staying faithful and devoted through the long haul of a lifelong union.
  • Key Fact: Staying committed requires a daily decision to choose your spouse and protect your relationship from outside interference.
  • Scripture: Matthew 19:6 – “What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.”

Message 13: Don’t Just Get Older, Get Better!

  • Overview: Addressing the later years of marriage, Chuck encourages couples to view aging as an opportunity to deepen their love and refine their character together.
  • Key Fact: A “seasoned” marriage can be the most beautiful phase of the relationship as couples reap the harvest of years of faithfulness.
  • Scripture: Psalm 92:14 – “They will still yield fruit in old age; they shall be full of sap and very green.”

Message 14: What to Do with an Empty Nest

  • Overview: The series concludes with advice for the transition after children leave the home. Chuck discusses how to rediscover your spouse and find new purpose in this significant life stage.
  • Key Fact: The empty nest is not an end, but a new beginning—a chance to focus on the “original match” that started the family.
  • Scripture: Ecclesiastes 9:9 – “Enjoy life with the woman whom you love all the days of your fleeting life…”

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