Dealing with Rejection
By Pastor Chuck Swindoll
If you enjoy watching and playing the game of football (I certainly do), you have observed a curious activity called a “spike.” It’s rather unusual. A team fights its way toward the goal line yard by yard.
Minutes seem like hours as the offensive team plods along and presses on. Suddenly, it happens.
A play works beautifully, and streaking to the long-awaited touchdown is a muscular running back or some fleet-footed wide receiver.
Six points! But as soon as he crosses the line, this athlete takes the ball and slams the little thing to the ground. With all his might! The guy doesn’t so much as say, “Thanks, ball.”
I’ve thought, What if that ball had feeling? What if it could talk? Can you imagine how it would react after being spiked? It had done its job well. Stayed inflated. Didn’t jump out of the player’s arms—no fumble.
And after all that, all the thanks it gets is a vicious spike. Talk about rejection!
So it is with pastors. We do what is right . . . and we get tossed aside. Sometimes, “spiked” viciously. It hurts.
I urge you to listen up! Every once in a while, we are going to be rejected. Now, this doesn’t mean God has abandoned us or that we are out of His will. It just means people are people.
It’s all part of the humbling process God uses in shaping our lives “to bear the family likeness of His Son” (Romans 8:29 PHILLIPS).
“Struck down”—as Paul puts it in 2 Corinthians 4:9—is the idea of being thrown down, shoved aside, or cast off. This explains why J. B. Phillips paraphrases it, “we may be knocked down.”
Amazing thing! Even though we may faithfully and consistently do our job, help and serve and give to others, we can expect, on occasion, to be thrown aside and rejected . . . knocked down. Let’s not be caught off guard.
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About the author
Pastor Chuck Swindoll
Pastor Charles R. Swindoll has devoted his life to the accurate, practical teaching and application of God’s Word. He is the founding pastor of Stonebriar Community Church in Frisco, Texas, but Chuck’s listening audience extends far beyond a local church body. As a leading program in Christian broadcasting since 1979, Insight for Living airs around the world. Chuck’s leadership as president and now chancellor emeritus at Dallas Theological Seminary has helped prepare and equip a new generation of men and women for ministry.
