Can You Name Five?
By Pastor Chuck Swindoll
Time once was when our homes and offices buzzed with loud laughter. As family members and coworkers, we interacted with each other in houses and hallways . . .
- By the water cooler
- In the kitchen
- At the fireplace
- Sitting on front porches
- In a plaza
Ideas were shared, and gestures were freely expressed. Feelings of affirmation were punctuated through smiles and handshakes. Hugs, frequent touches, and arms around each other’s shoulders were commonplace.
No longer.
Today, walk into most office areas and you’d think you are entering the local public library! Instead of noses in books, each person is glued to his or her own personal computer or staring at a handheld phone and writing with thumbs . . . and never looking up.
In days gone by, we’d jog with a good friend several days a week and stay caught up. We’d visit with a neighbor while working in the yard.
We’d get acquainted with the stranger in the next seat on the plane. Not now. The ever-present headset connected to one’s own personal device communicates in clear terms,
Don’t talk to or interrupt me—I have 3,500 songs I’ve downloaded that I need to listen to!
Eye contact is a thing of the past.
Yesterday, we knew numerous people—deeply. Today, we’re hard-pressed to know what anyone is struggling with or who might be facing a life-and-death issue.
Most of us could not call the first names of someone else’s kids. Yesterday, we would chatter with close friends. Today, we “online chat” with them. Isn’t it strange?
We’re more in touch with some acquaintance on Facebook or a high-school grad from yesteryear living across the country than the person occupying the next office or that lady who lives two doors down.
The Lone Ranger, once a fantasy hero, is now our model—mask and all. (With emphasis on the word, Lone.)
Our computer files are filled with multiple columns of names—called our “contact list.”
But truth be told, some of us would be embarrassed to admit that if we really needed a “close companion” (I mean, someone who would come and be with us without ever asking why), we would find it difficult to name even five people in that category.
Can you name five?
Don’t you occasionally wonder who the eight will be who will carry your coffin? And one final question: will their grief over your loss cause them to sit through the entire memorial service without once checking their mobile phone?
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About the author
Pastor Chuck Swindoll
Pastor Charles R. Swindoll has devoted his life to the accurate, practical teaching and application of God’s Word. He is the founding pastor of Stonebriar Community Church in Frisco, Texas, but Chuck’s listening audience extends far beyond a local church body. As a leading program in Christian broadcasting since 1979, Insight for Living airs around the world. Chuck’s leadership as president and now chancellor emeritus at Dallas Theological Seminary has helped prepare and equip a new generation of men and women for ministry.
