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Clinging to Hope

All of us are in desperate need of strength to endure and hope to carry on. Life is difficult and demanding. It’s often filled with pain, heartaches, setbacks, and detours.

In Clinging to Hope, Pastor Chuck Swindoll reassures us that we can endure disappointments and even those unexpected calamities. How? By taking our stand on the strong foundation of God’s Word.

When trials and tribulations rumble in like a fleet of bulldozers to demolish our lives, we can emerge from the rubble with a strong resolve to recover and rebuild. Not just to survive, but to thrive!

For a limited time, download the first chapter of Clinging to Hope for free.

Life is often filled with pain, heartaches, and unexpected detours. In this 12-part series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll provides the biblical tools needed to endure and even thrive in the midst of adversity. By anchoring ourselves to the strong foundation of God’s Word, we can face “bulldozing” trials with a resolve to recover and rebuild. This series explores how suffering, when handled well, becomes the very thing that fosters spiritual maturity and deepens our reliance on God’s grace.

Message 1: When Troubles Come and Stay

Message Overview: Some trials are not temporary visitors but long-term residents. This message addresses the unique challenge of “staying” troubles—chronic illnesses, difficult relationships, or ongoing financial strain—and how to maintain a perspective of hope when relief seems far away.

Key Facts:

  • Nature of Trials: Troubles are often uninvited, unexpected, and can be prolonged.
  • The Response: Shifting from asking “Why?” to asking “How can I honor God in this?”
  • Divine Presence: God is as present in the long-term struggle as He is in the sudden miracle.

Scripture References: Psalm 34:17–19; 1 Peter 4:12–13

Message 2: When Suffering Leaves Its Mark

Message Overview: Suffering often leaves “scars”—emotional, physical, or spiritual. This message explores how to process the permanent changes that adversity brings, finding beauty and purpose in the marks of our struggles rather than hiding them in shame.

Key Facts:

  • The Reality of Scars: Life’s battles often leave lasting impacts that change our trajectory.
  • Redemption: God uses our “woundedness” to make us more compassionate and effective ministers to others.
  • Focus: Looking at Christ’s scars as the ultimate proof that God understands our pain.

Scripture References: Galatians 6:17; John 20:24–29

Message 3: When God Heals Body and Soul

Message Overview: This message looks at the multifaceted nature of healing. While we often pray for physical restoration, the Spirit frequently works on the “deeper healing” of the soul, addressing bitterness, guilt, and spiritual brokenness.

Key Facts:

  • Holistic Healing: God is interested in the whole person—mind, body, and spirit.
  • Sovereignty in Healing: Recognizing that God heals in His own way and timing, sometimes physically and sometimes through the gift of sufficient grace.
  • Spiritual Health: A healthy soul can endure a failing body.

Scripture References: Psalm 103:1–5; 3 John 1:2

Message 4: When Unexpected Tests Rattle Our World

Message Overview: Life can change in an instant. This message focuses on the “pop quizzes” of life—sudden crises that test the foundation of our faith—and how to lean on the unchanging nature of God when everything else is shaking.

Key Facts:

  • The Element of Surprise: Tests often come when we feel most secure.
  • The Foundation: A life built on the Word of God is the only one that remains standing after the storm.
  • Stability: Finding our “center of gravity” in the promises of Scripture.

Scripture References: Matthew 7:24–27; James 1:2–4

Message 5: When Calamity Crashes In

Message Overview: Calamity is more than just a trial; it is a overwhelming disaster. This message provides a biblical roadmap for surviving the initial “crash” of tragedy, focusing on immediate reliance on God’s mercy and the support of the Christian community.

Key Facts:

  • Immediate Response: In moments of calamity, we must “run to the Tower” (God’s Name).
  • The Role of Lament: It is biblical and healthy to cry out to God in honest grief.
  • God as Refuge: He is a very present help in times of trouble.

Scripture References: Psalm 46:1–3; Proverbs 18:10

Message 6: When God Gives Grace to Endure

Message Overview: Endurance is not just “gritting your teeth”; it is a supernatural gift. This message explores how God provides the specific strength needed to stay under the weight of a heavy trial without breaking.

Key Facts:

  • Definition of Endurance: Remaining under pressure with a God-honoring attitude.
  • Source of Strength: Grace is not just for salvation; it is for daily sustaining.
  • The Result: Endurance produces character, and character produces hope.

Scripture References: Romans 5:3–5; 2 Corinthians 12:9

Message 7: When the Giants of Life Attack

Message Overview: Using the metaphor of Goliath, this message addresses the intimidating obstacles that seem impossible to overcome. It encourages believers to face their “giants” not with human bravado, but with the confidence that the battle belongs to the Lord.

Key Facts:

  • Intimidation Tactics: Giants seek to paralyze us with fear and doubt.
  • Divine Perspective: Compared to our problems, the giants are huge; compared to God, they are small.
  • The Weaponry: Faith, prayer, and the Word are more effective than any worldly armor.

Scripture References: 1 Samuel 17:45–47; Ephesians 6:10–18

Message 8: When Thorns Rip Our Pride

Message Overview: Sometimes God allows “thorns”—painful, nagging limitations—to keep us humble and dependent. This message teaches how to accept these irritants as tools of divine refinement rather than just nuisances to be removed.

Key Facts:

  • Purpose of the Thorn: To prevent spiritual pride and foster total dependence on God.
  • The Answer to Prayer: Sometimes God says “no” to the removal of the thorn but “yes” to more grace.
  • Power in Weakness: When we are weak, then we are truly strong in Christ.

Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 12:7–10

Message 9: When God’s Discipline Strikes

Message Overview: Discipline is a proof of God’s love, not His rejection. This message distinguishes between punishment and training, showing how a believer can respond to God’s correcting hand with a heart of hope and repentance.

Key Facts:

  • The Motive: God disciplines those He loves as a father does his child.
  • The Goal: To share in His holiness and produce a harvest of righteousness.
  • The Response: Do not despise the discipline or lose heart when rebuked.

Scripture References: Hebrews 12:5–11; Psalm 119:67, 71

Message 10: When Doors Slam Shut

Message Overview: Closed doors can be as frustrating as they are confusing. This message explores how to handle rejection and redirected plans, trusting that God’s “no” is often a redirection to a better “yes” in the future.

Key Facts:

  • Sovereign Redirection: God closes doors to protect us or to lead us to a better path.
  • The Danger of Forcing Doors: Attempting to manipulate circumstances leads to frustration and failure.
  • Trusting the Key-Holder: Jesus holds the keys; what He shuts, no one can open.

Scripture References: Revelation 3:7–8; Acts 16:6–10

Message 11: When Solitude Drives Us Deeper

Message Overview: Adversity often brings seasons of isolation. This message looks at the value of “wilderness experiences,” showing how solitude can become a sanctuary where we hear God’s voice more clearly than in the noise of prosperity.

Key Facts:

  • The Desert School: Many of God’s greatest servants were prepared in solitude (Moses, Elijah, Paul).
  • Depth over Surface: Solitude strips away distractions and forces us to deal with our inner selves.
  • The Intimacy: Finding that God is “enough” when everything else is stripped away.

Scripture References: Matthew 4:1–11; Galatians 1:15–18

Message 12: When Adversity Leads to Humility

Message Overview: The final message in the series focuses on the ultimate fruit of a hopeful heart: humility. True hope doesn’t demand its own way; it humbles itself under the mighty hand of God, trusting that He will exalt us in due time.

Key Facts:

  • The Posture: Humility is the proper response to God’s sovereignty in suffering.
  • The Promise: God gives grace to the humble but opposes the proud.
  • Final Hope: Casting all our anxieties on Him because He cares for us.

Scripture References: 1 Peter 5:6–7; James 4:6, 10

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Flying Closer to the Flame

Pastor Chuck Swindoll’s series Flying Closer to the Flame removes the fog of separation many Christians feel regarding the person of the Holy Spirit.

Like reading the dictionary’s definition of fire versus seeing its blaze and feeling its heat, these 14 messages soar you nearer to the Spirit . . . so you might experience Him as you cultivate a very personal and practical relationship with Him.

Discover how to fly closer to the Flame—our mysterious, divine Helper. He’s ready! Are you?

For many Christians, the Holy Spirit remains a mysterious or even intimidating figure. We may know the “dictionary definition” of the Spirit, but we lack the warmth and power of His actual presence. In this 14-part series, Chuck Swindoll removes the “fog of separation” and invites us to a closer walk with our divine Helper. By exploring the Spirit’s roles in transformation, healing, emotions, and inner promptings, we discover that He is not an abstract force, but a personal guide ready to ignite our spiritual lives.

Message 1: Let’s Get Reacquainted with the Spirit

Message Overview: This message serves as a foundational call to move beyond theological abstractions and truly get to know the Person of the Holy Spirit. It addresses the common fears or neglect associated with the Spirit’s ministry and invites believers into a deeper, more personal reliance on His presence.

Key Facts:

  • Nature of the Spirit: The Holy Spirit is a Person, not a vague force or “it.”
  • The Goal: To move from a “closed system” of living to one open to divine intervention.
  • The Promise: The Spirit is our Helper, Comforter, and Advocate.

Scripture References: John 14:16–17; 16:5–15

Message 2: The Main Agenda of God’s Spirit: Transformation

Message Overview: The primary work of the Holy Spirit is not merely to provide emotional “highs,” but to fundamentally transform the believer into the image of Christ. This message focuses on the internal change of character—the fruit of the Spirit—as the ultimate evidence of His work.

Key Facts:

  • Metamorphosis: Christian growth is a process of internal change, not just external conformity.
  • The Power Source: Transformation is impossible through human effort; it requires the Spirit’s power.
  • The Result: Developing the “mind of Christ” and the “fruit of the Spirit.”

Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 3:17–18; Galatians 5:22–23

Message 3: My Sin . . . and “The Things of the Spirit”

Message Overview: This message explores the conflict between the “flesh” (our sinful nature) and the “Spirit.” It provides practical insights into how sin grieves or quenches the Spirit’s influence and how confession restores the flow of His power in our lives.

Key Facts:

  • The Internal Struggle: Every believer experiences a tug-of-war between the old nature and the new.
  • Warning Signs: Bitterness, anger, and unconfessed sin hinder the Spirit’s work.
  • The Solution: Walking in the light and maintaining a “short account” with God through confession.

Scripture References: Ephesians 4:30; 1 Thessalonians 5:19; Romans 8:5–14

Message 4: Is the Spirit’s Filling That Big a Deal?

Message Overview: Chuck Swindoll clarifies the biblical command to “be filled with the Spirit.” He explains that filling is not a one-time event but a continuous surrender to the Spirit’s control, leading to a life of joy, gratitude, and mutual submission.

Key Facts:

  • Grammar Matters: The command in Ephesians 5:18 is passive (let yourself be filled) and continuous (keep being filled).
  • The Contrast: As wine controls the drunkard, the Spirit should control the believer.
  • Visible Signs: The filled life is characterized by “singing in the heart” and “giving thanks always.”

Scripture References: Ephesians 5:18–21

Message 5: The Spirit Who Surprises

Message Overview: Because the Spirit is God, He cannot be put in a box. This message explores the spontaneous and unpredictable ways the Spirit works to guide, comfort, and empower believers, often stepping outside our rigid expectations or routines.

Key Facts:

  • Sovereignty: The wind blows where it wishes, and so it is with the Spirit.
  • Spontaneity: God often works in “the interruptions” of our planned lives.
  • Openness: Maintaining a heart of “expectant availability” to God’s leadings.

Scripture References: John 3:8; Acts 8:26–40

Message 6: Draw Me Nearer . . . Nearer

Message Overview: This message focuses on the intimacy the Spirit provides. It is through the Spirit that we experience the “Abba, Father” relationship with God, moving from religious duty to the warmth of being God’s beloved children.

Key Facts:

  • Adoption: The Spirit bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God.
  • Intimacy: The Spirit enables us to pray with deep, personal affection for the Father.
  • Security: This intimacy provides a foundation of security even in times of suffering.

Scripture References: Romans 8:15–17; Galatians 4:6–7

Message 7: Those Unidentified Inner Promptings

Message Overview: How do we know if a thought or impulse is from God, ourselves, or elsewhere? This message provides biblical criteria for discerning the promptings of the Holy Spirit, emphasizing that the Spirit will never lead us contrary to the Word of God.

Key Facts:

  • The Test of Scripture: The Spirit and the Word always agree.
  • The Test of Peace: God’s leading often carries a sense of “settled peace” in the soul.
  • The Test of Counsel: Seeking confirmation through wise, godly advisors.

Scripture References: Acts 16:6–10; Colossians 3:15

Message 8: The Spirit and Our Emotions

Message Overview: God created us with emotions, and the Spirit uses them. However, we must not be led by emotions alone. This message discusses how to balance emotional expression with biblical truth, allowing the Spirit to sanctify our feelings.

Key Facts:

  • Emotional Integrity: Honest expression before God (as seen in the Psalms).
  • Control vs. Suppression: The Spirit provides self-control, which is different from emotional repression.
  • Stability: Truth must remain the anchor for our shifting feelings.

Scripture References: Psalm 42; 2 Timothy 1:7

Message 9: Thinking Theologically about Sickness and Healing

Message Overview: This message tackles the difficult questions regarding physical suffering. It establishes a theological framework for understanding why God allows sickness and how we should view His power to heal in a broken world.

Key Facts:

  • The Origin of Illness: Sickness is part of a fallen creation, though not always tied to personal sin.
  • God’s Purpose: God can use suffering to refine character and display His glory.
  • The Ultimate Healing: The promise of a resurrected body in the future.

Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 12:7–10; Romans 8:22–23

Message 10: A Biblical Case for Healing

Message Overview: Chuck Swindoll looks at the biblical mandates for seeking healing. He emphasizes the role of prayer, the elders of the church, and the “anointing with oil” as practical expressions of faith in God’s ability to restore health.

Key Facts:

  • The Role of the Church: The elders are called to pray over the sick.
  • The Prayer of Faith: Approaching God with confidence in His power while submitting to His will.
  • Anointing: Oil as a symbolic or medicinal act accompanying prayer.

Scripture References: James 5:13–16

Message 11: When the Spirit Brings a Slow Recovery

Message Overview: While we often desire instantaneous miracles, God frequently chooses “the long road” of recovery. This message encourages patience and endurance, showing how the Spirit sustains us through the grueling process of gradual healing.

Key Facts:

  • The Grace of Endurance: Integrity is often built more in the recovery than the cure.
  • Learning in the Wait: Discovering God’s sufficiency when progress is slow.
  • Support: The role of the Christian community in bearing one another’s burdens.

Scripture References: Psalm 27:13–14; Isaiah 40:29–31

Message 12: Power, Power . . . We’ve Got the Power!

Message Overview: This message focuses on the “dunamis” (power) of the Holy Spirit available to every believer for witnessing and service. It contrasts human weakness with divine strength, reminding us that we are “more than conquerors” through Him.

Key Facts:

  • The Purpose of Power: Not for personal show, but for being witnesses to the ends of the earth.
  • Strength in Weakness: God’s power is perfected when we admit our inability.
  • Boldness: The Spirit provides courage to share the Gospel in hostile environments.

Scripture References: Acts 1:8; 2 Corinthians 12:9

Message 13: Is That All There Is to the Spirit’s Ministry?

Message Overview: This message looks at the diverse and ongoing ministries of the Spirit, including His role in spiritual gifts, intercession for the believer, and the “sealing” that guarantees our eternal inheritance.

Key Facts:

  • Spiritual Gifts: Given for the common good and the building up of the body.
  • The Intercessor: The Spirit groans on our behalf when we don’t know how to pray.
  • The Seal: The Holy Spirit is the “down payment” of our future glory.

Scripture References: 1 Corinthians 12; Romans 8:26–27; Ephesians 1:13–14

Message 14: Let’s Just Praise the Lord

Message Overview: The final message in the series concludes with a focus on worship. When we are truly “flying closer to the flame” of the Spirit, the natural result is a life of praise, adoration, and exaltation of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Key Facts:

  • The Spirit’s Focus: The Holy Spirit always seeks to glorify Christ, not Himself.
  • A Lifestyle of Praise: Worship as a daily response, not just a Sunday event.
  • The Final Goal: A heart fully surrendered and overflowing with gratitude to God.

Scripture References: John 16:14; Psalm 150; Revelation 4–5

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Holiday Messages 2020

Such intriguing scenes fill the biblical pages recounting the Christmas miracle! That’s why we have a season every year to celebrate the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ. In this year’s holiday series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll takes us on a journey to visit some of those scenes—from peeking behind the curtain into the divine council of eternity past to traveling 90 miles with Mary and Joseph to listening in on God’s voice in the cry of a baby. We’ll linger at each one and simply let in all the wonder.

Chuck Swindoll’s 2020 holiday messages are not available for sale but you may listen to them through streaming in our Broadcast Library or on the Insight app.


The biblical account of the Christmas miracle is filled with intriguing scenes that invite us to slow down and wonder. In this series, Chuck Swindoll takes us on a journey through these moments—from the divine council in eternity past to the long road to Bethlehem. We witness the troubled romance of Mary and Joseph, listen for God’s voice in the cry of a newborn baby, and reflect on what is worth forgetting and remembering as we face a new year. These messages are designed to help us linger in the wonder of the Savior’s arrival and the plan of salvation.

Let’s Start Before the Beginning

Sermon Summary Christmas did not begin with an angel in Nazareth; it began in the heart of God before the world was created. This message peeks behind the curtain into the “divine council” of eternity past, where the Triune God planned creation and the salvation of humanity. We learn that the Son’s mission to become human was an intentional, preordained act of love, ensuring that our redemption was settled before time even began.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Eternal Plan: Understanding that Christ’s birth was part of a sovereign, ancient design.
  • Pre-existence of Christ: Recognizing Jesus’ role in the Godhead before the Incarnation.
  • Sovereign Love: How God’s plan for salvation preceded human history.

Let’s Witness a Troubled Romance in Nazareth

Sermon Summary Behind the serene images of our Nativity sets lies a story of real-life tension and “troubled romance.” This message explores the emotional and social upheaval Mary and Joseph faced. We see a young couple navigating the scandal of an unexplained pregnancy with quiet integrity and remarkable faith. Their story reminds us that God often works through difficult and confusing circumstances to accomplish His greatest miracles.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Faith in Scandal: The courage required to trust God when reputations are at stake.
  • Mary and Joseph’s Integrity: How obedience overshadowed their personal fears.
  • The Ordinary and the Extraordinary: God using common people for His divine purposes.

Let’s Hear God’s Voice in a Baby’s Cry

Sermon Summary In the most humble and unlikely of places—a manger—God spoke. This message invites us to listen for the voice of the Almighty in the cry of the infant Jesus. Chuck discusses the profound paradox of the “Word made flesh,” arriving as a vulnerable baby to reconcile the world to Himself. We learn that God’s greatest message was not delivered in thunder, but in the soft, human sounds of a newborn.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Incarnation: Reflecting on the “Word made flesh” dwelling among us.
  • The Paradox of Power: How God used vulnerability to conquer sin.
  • Divine Communication: Recognizing Jesus as the ultimate expression of God’s love.

Christ Is Born to Save

Sermon Summary The purpose of the manger was always the cross. This message focuses on the core mission of Christmas: salvation. Chuck explores the angelic announcement to the shepherds, emphasizing that the “Good News of great joy” is centered on the birth of a Savior. We see that Christ was born specifically to address the deepest human need—the forgiveness of sins and restoration to the Father.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Mission of the Manger: Connecting the birth of Christ to His sacrificial death.
  • Good News for All: Why the message of salvation is universal in its reach.
  • Personal Savior: Understanding what it means to accept the gift of Christ.

Here’s Something Worth Forgetting

Sermon Summary As we stand at the threshold of a new year, it is vital to identify what we should leave behind. This message addresses the weight of past failures, grudges, and regrets that hinder our spiritual progress. Chuck encourages us to exercise the “grace of forgetting,” letting go of the things that God has already forgiven so we can press forward with a light heart and a renewed focus on the future.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Releasing the Past: The spiritual benefit of letting go of regrets and grievances.
  • Forgiving as God Forgives: Applying the “grace of forgetting” to ourselves and others.
  • New Year Focus: Preparing for the future by unburdening ourselves of the past.

Here’s Something Worth Remembering

Sermon Summary While some things should be forgotten, others are too precious to lose. The series concludes with a focus on the essential truths we must carry into the new year. Chuck discusses the importance of remembering God’s faithfulness, His promises, and His constant presence. By anchoring our memories in the character of God, we find the stability and courage needed to face whatever the upcoming year may bring.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Stones of Remembrance: Practical ways to keep God’s faithfulness at the forefront of our minds.
  • Anchoring in Truth: Using biblical memories to stabilize our current emotions.
  • Spiritual Continuity: Why remembering the past is key to navigating the future.

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James: Hands-On Christianity

“Practice what you preach!” 

Nobody trusts a phony or a hypocrite. As representatives of Christ, we sully His name when we live hypocritically. We’re called to a higher standard. 

Hypocrisy existed even in the early days of Christianity. In this series Chuck Swindoll encourages you to pursue authentic faith in God, provides you a clear and biblical how-to for authentic living as he exposits the book of James, and explains how to live without hypocrisy in your speech, actions, and relationships. 

This series will assist you to live what you believe. 

“Practice what you preach!” is the underlying theme of the book of James. While other New Testament books focus on deep theology, James addresses the “hands-on” reality of daily Christian living. In this 16-part series, Chuck Swindoll provides a clear, biblical roadmap for authentic faith. We learn how to handle persistent troubles, control our tongues, overcome prejudice, and respond to unfair treatment. James challenges us to move past a merely intellectual belief to a life where our actions, speech, and relationships consistently reflect the character of Christ.

Message 1: A Case for Practical Christianity

Overview: Pastor Chuck Swindoll introduces the Book of James, emphasizing its reputation as the most “hands-on” book of the New Testament. This message sets the stage for a study on how faith must transition from a theoretical concept to a practical lifestyle. James challenges believers to move beyond intellectual assent and demonstrate their devotion through tangible actions.

  • Key Fact: James was likely the half-brother of Jesus and wrote this letter to Jewish Christians scattered by persecution to encourage “faith in overalls.”
  • Scripture Reference: James 1:1

Message 2: When Troubles Won’t Go Away

Overview: Life is often defined by trials that seem relentless. Chuck explores James’ radical command to “count it all joy” when facing diverse testings. This message explains that trials are not meant to destroy us, but to produce “staying power” and spiritual maturity by refining our character through the heat of adversity.

  • Key Fact: God uses trials to develop hupomone (steadfastness)—the ability to remain under pressure without breaking.
  • Scripture Reference: James 1:2–12

Message 3: Plain Talk about Temptation

Overview: This sermon distinguishes between the “tests” that come from God and the “temptations” that arise from our own desires. Chuck provides a clear look at the anatomy of temptation, explaining how an internal itch can lead to external sin and, ultimately, spiritual death if not addressed at the root.

  • Key Fact: God never tempts us to evil; temptation is a predictable process of being “lured and enticed” by our own inner cravings.
  • Scripture Reference: James 1:13–18

Message 4: The Great Divorce

Overview: Chuck addresses the dangerous disconnect between being a “hearer” of the Word and a “doer.” This message illustrates how many Christians “divorce” their Sunday learning from their Monday living. True spiritual health is found in looking into the “mirror” of Scripture and immediately making the necessary adjustments to one’s life.

  • Key Fact: Religion that God accepts as “pure and faultless” involves looking after those in distress and keeping oneself unstained by the world.
  • Scripture Reference: James 1:19–27

Message 5: Prejudice Is a Sin

Overview: James pulls no punches regarding favoritism within the church. Chuck examines how human nature tends to cater to the wealthy and influential while overlooking the poor. This message calls the church to reflect God’s impartial heart, reminding us that showing partiality is a direct violation of the “Royal Law” of love.

  • Key Fact: To show favoritism is to judge by external appearance, which is a direct contradiction to the Gospel that offers grace to all.
  • Scripture Reference: James 2:1–13

Message 6: You Can’t Have One without the Other

Overview: In one of the most debated passages in the New Testament, Chuck clarifies the relationship between faith and works. He explains that while we are saved by faith alone, the faith that saves is never alone. Genuine, living faith naturally produces “good works” as an evidence of a transformed heart.

  • Key Fact: Faith without works is “dead,” just as a body without a spirit is a corpse; works are the vital signs of a living relationship with Christ.
  • Scripture Reference: James 2:14–26

Message 7: Bridling the Beast in Your Body

Overview: This message focuses on the small but mighty power of the tongue. Chuck uses James’ vivid metaphors—bits, rudders, and fires—to show how our speech can direct our lives and destroy our relationships. He offers practical wisdom on how to bring our words under the control of the Holy Spirit.

  • Key Fact: The tongue is the most difficult member of the human body to tame; it is a “restless evil” that requires constant divine supervision.
  • Scripture Reference: James 3:1–12

Message 8: The Wise, the Unwise, and the Otherwise (Part 1)

Overview: Chuck explores the contrast between “earthly wisdom” and the “wisdom from above.” This first part identifies the symptoms of worldly wisdom: bitter jealousy, selfish ambition, and disorder. True wisdom is not measured by IQ, but by the peace and humility it produces in one’s life.

  • Key Fact: Earthly wisdom is characterized by a “me-first” attitude that leads to confusion and every evil practice.
  • Scripture Reference: James 3:13–16

Message 9: The Wise, the Unwise, and the Otherwise (Part 2)

Overview: Continuing the study of wisdom, Chuck details the characteristics of heavenly wisdom: purity, peace, gentleness, and mercy. This message provides a checklist for believers to evaluate whether their decisions and attitudes are truly being guided by the Spirit of God.

  • Key Fact: Godly wisdom is “easy to be entreated,” meaning it is approachable, reasonable, and willing to listen.
  • Scripture Reference: James 3:17–18

Message 10: How Fights Are Started and Stopped

Overview: James addresses the “wars and fightings” that occur among believers. Chuck traces the source of conflict back to “unmet inner cravings” and selfish desires. The solution is found in a fourfold process: submit to God, resist the devil, draw near to God, and humble yourself.

  • Key Fact: Conflict with others is almost always a symptom of an internal conflict with God and our own misplaced desires.
  • Scripture Reference: James 4:1–10

Message 11: The Peril of Playing God

Overview: This sermon warns against the arrogance of judging others and making plans without God. Chuck discusses the sin of “slander” and the presumption of assuming we control our own future. We are reminded that our lives are a “vapor” and every plan should be submitted to “If the Lord wills.”

  • Key Fact: Judging a brother or sister is an act of putting oneself above the Law of God; it is a form of spiritual pride.
  • Scripture Reference: James 4:11–17

Message 12: Warnings to the Wealthy

Overview: Chuck tackles James’ stern warning to those who hoard wealth and exploit workers. This message isn’t an indictment of having money, but of the misuse of money and the reliance on riches rather than God. It serves as a sober reminder of the transitory nature of material possessions.

  • Key Fact: God hears the “cries” of those who are treated unfairly by the powerful; justice is delayed but never denied.
  • Scripture Reference: James 5:1–6

Message 13: Doing Right When You’ve Been Done Wrong

Overview: When facing injustice, the natural reaction is retaliation. Chuck provides James’ antidote: patient endurance. Using the examples of the farmer and the prophets, this message encourages believers to “strengthen their hearts” because the Lord’s return is near.

  • Key Fact: Patience is not passive waiting; it is a “steadfast endurance” that refuses to give in to bitterness while waiting for God to act.
  • Scripture Reference: James 5:7–12

Message 14: Suffering, Sickness, Sin—and Healing

Overview: This message delves into one of the most complex passages in James regarding prayer for the sick. Chuck carefully explains the roles of the elders, the “prayer of faith,” and the importance of confession. He provides a balanced, biblical view of how God works through physical and spiritual healing.

  • Key Fact: The “anointing with oil” in James 5 likely refers to both a symbolic act of consecration and a practical application of medicinal care.
  • Scripture Reference: James 5:13–16a

Message 15: The Power of Effective Kneeling

Overview: Using the prophet Elijah as a model, Chuck illustrates the power of “fervent prayer.” This message encourages believers that prayer is not for “super-saints,” but for ordinary people with “a nature like ours” who serve an extraordinary God.

  • Key Fact: The “effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man” accomplishes much because it aligns the believer’s heart with God’s power.
  • Scripture Reference: James 5:16b–18

Message 16: How to Handle Straying Saints

Overview: In the series conclusion, Chuck addresses the responsibility of the church to go after those who wander from the truth. This final message emphasizes that “practical Christianity” ends where it began: with a focus on restoration, mercy, and the covering of sins through the Gospel.

  • Key Fact: Restoring a wandering believer is a high calling that “covers a multitude of sins” and saves a soul from the consequences of death.
  • Scripture Reference: James 5:19–20

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Rules for Running a Rewarding Race

Are you the worrying type—fearful of the possibilities tomorrow may hold but also grieving mistakes of the past? As we stand at the beginning of a new year, we must admit that we can’t predict the future and we can’t change the past. Trying to do either is a waste of time and energy.

Join Chuck Swindoll for his New Year message and learn from Philippians 3 and Hebrews 12 how to keep your eyes focused on Jesus and run your race of faith this year.


Many people spend their lives either paralyzed by the fear of an unpredictable future or weighed down by the grief of past mistakes. In this focused New Year’s message, Pastor Chuck Swindoll uses the imagery of an athletic race to provide a strategy for spiritual endurance. By applying the “rules” found in the writings of Paul and the author of Hebrews, Chuck teaches us how to strip away the distractions of “yesterday” and “tomorrow” so we can run with purpose and focus in the “today” that God has provided.

1. Rules for Running a Rewarding Race (Hebrews 12:1–2; Philippians 3:12–14)

  • Overview: Addresses the spiritual exhaustion that comes from carrying unnecessary baggage. Chuck identifies the two primary weights: an unchangeable past and an unpredictable future. He encourages believers to “lay aside every encumbrance” and focus exclusively on the “Author and Perfecter” of our faith.
  • Key Fact: A rewarding race is not won by the fastest runner, but by the one who stays in their lane and keeps their eyes fixed on Jesus.
  • Scripture: Hebrews 12:1 – “…let us also lay aside every encumbrance and the sin which so easily entangles us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.”

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New Years 2013 Message

As we stand at the threshold of a new year, I want to ask you: Are you truly living, or are you just passing the time? Many of us approach a new calendar with a list of resolutions, hoping to change our habits, but Jesus came to offer us something much deeper than a habit change. He came so that we might have life, and have it abundantly.

In this message, ‘Living the Life,’ we look at what that abundance really means. It isn’t about the size of your bank account or the absence of trials. In fact, some of the most ‘abundant’ lives I’ve ever seen were lived in the middle of deep suffering. Abundant living is the life of Jesus Christ being lived out through you. It’s the shift from a ‘scarcity mindset’—where we fight for what we want—to an ‘abundance mindset,’ where we rest in what He has already provided. My friend, don’t settle for a dull, boring, or futile existence this year. Let’s look at how to step out of our small shells and into the expansive, joyful life that only the Savior can provide.


As the calendar turns, many of us feel the pressure to reinvent ourselves through resolutions that rarely last. In this special New Year’s message, Chuck Swindoll offers a different approach. Rather than focusing on temporary changes, we are challenged to “get a life”—specifically, the life God intended for us to live. This series serves as a spiritual reset, encouraging us to trade the frantic pursuit of the “next big thing” for a steady, meaningful walk with the Lord.

Message 1: Another Year . . . Get a Life!

Sermon Summary The arrival of a new year often brings a mix of nostalgia for the past and anxiety for the future. Chuck addresses the tendency to drift through life without a clear sense of purpose or divine direction. By examining what it truly means to have “life” in the biblical sense, this message provides a roadmap for living with intentionality, joy, and spiritual vitality. We learn that a life well-lived isn’t about the quantity of our activities, but the quality of our connection to the Author of Life.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Spiritual Intentionality: Moving from a passive existence to a proactive pursuit of God’s will.
  • The Gift of Time: Recognizing each new year as a stewardship opportunity granted by God.
  • Vitality in Christ: Understanding that true life is found in a relationship with Jesus, not in external achievements or resolutions.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • John 10:10: The promise that Christ came so that we might have life and have it abundantly.

Common Questions about Starting a New Year (FAQ)

Why do New Year’s resolutions often fail? Most resolutions fail because they focus on outward behavior modification rather than inward heart transformation. True change begins when we align our desires with God’s Word and rely on the power of the Holy Spirit rather than just our own willpower.

How can I find my purpose for the coming year? Finding your purpose begins with seeking God’s kingdom first. Instead of asking what you want to achieve, ask how God wants to use your specific gifts and circumstances to honor Him and serve others in the year ahead.

Is it biblical to plan for the future? Yes, stewardship involves wise planning. However, the Bible reminds us to hold our plans loosely, always submitting them to the sovereignty of God and acknowledging that He directs our steps (Proverbs 16:9).

How do I overcome the regrets of the previous year? The Gospel provides the ultimate solution for regret: grace and forgiveness. By confessing past failures and embracing God’s mercy, you can move into the new year with a clean slate, leaving the “trash” of the past at the foot of the Cross.

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God’s Masterwork, Volume Seven

When was the last time you read any of the General Epistles? Hebrews, with its references to Old Testament sacrifices and Jewish feasts, might seem outdated. Jude’s record of a cosmic battle over the body of Moses might fit best in a sci-fi movie. And Revelation, with its strange apocalyptic imagery, might stir contention and confusion within the church.

But did you know that these ancient letters contain many spiritual riches? In God’s Masterwork, Volume Seven: The Final Word—A Survey of Hebrews–Revelation, you will discover:

  • How Jesus Christ fulfilled the Mosaic Law
  • Why true faith must produce fruit
  • How you can find hope in the midst of trials

The God’s Masterwork, Volume Seven audio series will help you dig into these nine treasures from the first century! You’ll gain theological depth and grow in your practical devotion to Christ.

Message 1: Hebrews: Jesus Christ, Our Superior Savior

Sermon Overview The book of Hebrews was written to first-century Jewish Christians—often “street people”—who were enduring severe persecution, losing their homes, and facing the temptation to abandon their faith. Charles R. Swindoll explains that while the authorship of Hebrews remains a mystery not worth obsessing over, its message is unmistakably clear: Jesus Christ is superior to all Old Testament figures and sufficient for all of life’s trials. He is the ultimate “bridge over troubled waters.” Rather than promising immediate physical relief, the letter provides robust theology, proving Christ’s superiority over the prophets, angels, Moses, and the Levitical priests. This profound book encourages weary believers to hold fast to their confession, endure God’s discipline as a sign of His love, and draw near with confidence to the throne of grace.

Key Facts

  • The Unknown Author: Despite endless scholarly debate, the human author of Hebrews is unknown, but the divine inspiration and message are absolutely certain,.
  • Christ’s Supremacy: The first ten chapters meticulously demonstrate that Christ is superior in His person and His priesthood, building an unfailing bridge between earth and heaven–.
  • A Sympathetic High Priest: Believers can draw near to the throne of grace with confidence because Jesus is not a distant deity, but a High Priest who deeply sympathizes with human weakness and suffering–.
  • The Purpose of Discipline: God does not abandon His children in trials; He actively disciplines, chastens, and works through painful circumstances to produce obedience and spiritual maturity–.

Scripture References

  • Hebrews 1:1–3
  • Hebrews 2:1, 8–9
  • Hebrews 3:12–13
  • Hebrews 4:14–16
  • Hebrews 10:32–35
  • Hebrews 12:4–7
  • Hebrews 13:1–5, 18–22

Message 2: James: A Plea for Authenticity

Sermon Overview While most of the Bible addresses either the “way to God” or the “walk with God,” James relentlessly focuses on the latter. Written by the half-brother of Jesus—who remained a skeptic until after the resurrection—this letter is the earliest New Testament document. Addressed to Jewish believers scattered abroad by persecution, James writes with the penetrating eye of a former skeptic. He demands to know: If your faith is genuine, why is your walk not authentic? Swindoll unpacks how James systematically proves that real faith produces visible results. When faith is stretched, it produces endurance; when pressed, it produces impartial love; when expressed, it demonstrates control over the tongue; and when distressed, it produces patient prayer. Ultimately, James calls believers to be doers of the Word, functioning as the stinging salt and bright light of the world.

Key Facts

  • The Skeptical Brother: James grew up in the shadow of his perfect older brother, Jesus, and did not believe He was the Messiah until after the resurrection–.
  • Faith and Works: James does not teach works-based salvation; rather, he argues that authentic, saving faith will inevitably be demonstrated by righteous works–.
  • The Danger of the Tongue: Teachers face a stricter judgment because their gift is exercised through the tongue—a tiny “rudder” or “spark” that, if uncontrolled, can set a whole forest ablaze and destroy a church–.
  • Avoiding Partiality: Authentic Christian love is devoid of prejudice and favoritism, treating the poor man in dirty clothes with the same dignity as the rich man in fine apparel–.

Scripture References

  • James 1:1–6, 22
  • James 2:1–13, 14–26
  • James 3:1–5, 14
  • James 4:1–4, 11
  • James 5:7, 13–16
  • Matthew 5:13–16
  • Matthew 13:53–58
  • John 7:1–5

Message 3: First Peter: Hope for the Hurting

Sermon Overview First Peter is a deeply personal letter of courage and compassion written to “scattered aliens”—Christians who were being severely persecuted and slandered throughout the Roman Empire, particularly under the reign of Nero. Written by the Apostle Peter, a man who intimately knew the pain of personal failure and the grace of restoration, this book offers profound hope for the hurting. Swindoll outlines four major lessons from the letter: trials may vary but believers are highly valuable; trials are often unreasonable but never without divine reason; trials are inevitable and shouldn’t surprise us; and trials are temporal, not eternal. The message challenges believers to stop resenting their pain, humbly submit to God’s hand, and use the “road less traveled” to grow deep in character and glorify Christ.

Key Facts

  • The Pain of Slander: Early Christians were falsely accused of cannibalism (communion), tampering with family relationships, and even starting the great fire of Rome in AD 64–.
  • The Fiery Ordeal: Peter commands believers not to be surprised by fiery trials, recognizing that suffering is a universal and inevitable part of the Christian pilgrimage–.
  • A Strange Life: To survive intense testing, believers are commanded to live a “strange” life: abstaining from fleshly lusts, submitting to unreasonable authority, and maintaining humility–.
  • God Himself Will Restore: Peter promises that after believers have suffered for a little while, God Himself—not a delegated angel—will perfect, confirm, strengthen, and establish them.

Scripture References

  • 1 Peter 1:1, 6–8
  • 1 Peter 2:11–13, 18–23
  • 1 Peter 3:1–7, 15–17
  • 1 Peter 4:9–13
  • 1 Peter 5:8–10

Message 4: Second Peter: Beware, Be Ready

Sermon Overview Unlike the clear, comforting themes of his first letter, Peter’s second letter is a complex, provocative warning designed to stir up the minds of complacent believers. Swindoll describes the theme of Second Peter as an “arrow” made of warnings, reminders, and promises, which, when applied with diligence, gives the believer unwavering hope. The letter aggressively confronts the moral corruption of the world and the doctrinal compromises of greedy, deceptive false teachers. Peter also addresses prophetic concerns, refuting mockers who claim God has never intervened in human history by pointing to the historical reality of the global flood. Swindoll encourages believers to utilize the “HOPE” method to survive their generation: Heed what you already know, Open your eyes and ears, Pursue a godly lifestyle, and Expect Christ’s return.

Key Facts

  • Fully Equipped: By His divine power, God has already granted believers absolutely everything they need pertaining to life and godliness; they simply need to apply diligence,–.
  • The Inspiration of Scripture: The Bible is a “more sure word of prophecy.” The human authors did not write by an act of human will, but were “moved” (a nautical term for a ship driven by the wind) by the Holy Spirit–.
  • Identifying False Teachers: False prophets are driven by greed, care more about popularity than truth, live seductive personal lives, and subtly lead people away from God–.
  • God’s Unique Timetable: God is not bound by a 24-hour clock. He delays His return out of profound patience, not wishing for any to perish, but His final judgment will eventually come as swiftly and silently as a thief in the night–.

Scripture References

  • 2 Peter 1:1–10, 12–13, 19–21
  • 2 Peter 2:1–3, 9–13
  • 2 Peter 3:1–5, 8–12, 17

Message 5: First John: God’s Life on Display

Sermon Overview Written toward the end of the first century, the First Epistle of John addresses a church that had grown complacent, traditional, and nominal, making it ripe for the invasions of Gnosticism and Antinomianism (lawlessness). While the Gospel of John was written to help people enter the family of God, First John was written to show what the life of God looks like on display. Swindoll acknowledges the difficult, profound nature of this letter but highlights its four primary purposes: to complete the believer’s joy, to prevent habitual sin, to counteract the deception of heresy, and to provide absolute assurance of eternal life. Through the themes of light, love, and life, John proves that a believer in fellowship with God will be a joyful light in a dark world, a clean rebuke in a sinful society, a discerning refuge against deception, and a confident, stabilizing force in an uncertain age.

Key Facts

  • The Strenuous Life: John does not preach a doctrine of “noble ease”; he strictly commands believers not to love the world system or be ensnared by the lust of the flesh, eyes, and boastful pride of life–.
  • Our Righteous Advocate: When believers sin, they have an “Advocate” (Paraclete—a defense attorney called alongside) in Jesus Christ, who stands before the Father as the complete satisfaction (propitiation) for their sins–.
  • The Spirit of Antichrist: Deceivers and antichrists are those who vehemently deny the foundational truths of Jesus Christ, particularly His incarnation (coming in the flesh) and deity–.
  • Absolute Assurance: Eternal life is not based on fickle feelings but on the possession of the Son. “He who has the Son has the life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have the life”–.

Scripture References

  • 1 John 1:1–10
  • 1 John 2:1–3, 12–18, 28
  • 1 John 3:6, 14, 22–24
  • 1 John 4:1–6, 17
  • 1 John 5:4–13, 16–18

Message 6: Second John: A Letter to a Lady

Sermon Overview Love is like a beautiful, life-giving river, but when it swells beyond its proper banks, it becomes a destructive killer. In the brief postcard of Second John, the “Elder” writes to “the chosen lady” to emphasize that Christian love must always flow strictly within the rock-like banks of truth and discernment. During the first century, itinerant teachers relied on the hospitality of local believers. This gracious lady was opening her home indiscriminately, inadvertently harboring false teachers who denied the incarnation and deity of Christ. Swindoll unpacks John’s strong command: believers must not extend official hospitality or issue affirming greetings to dedicated missionaries of error. True love does not mean blind acceptance; the one who loves you the most is the one who tells you the truth.

Key Facts

  • The Danger of Unbound Love: An undiscerning, indiscriminate expression of love that compromises biblical truth causes deep spiritual damage and gives false teaching a platform,.
  • A Balance of Grace and Truth: The Christian fellowship must be marked equally by love and truth; pursuing either extreme at the expense of the other ruins both.
  • Arch-Deceivers: The false teachers John addresses were not simply confused believers holding differing opinions; they were “antichrists” engaged in the systematic, hostile dissemination of lies against the person of Christ,–.
  • No Official Welcome: Believers are commanded not to receive false teachers into their homes or give them a greeting, as doing so officially validates their message and makes the host a participant in their evil deeds,.

Scripture References

  • 2 John 1–13

Message 7: Third John: Three Men in a Church

Sermon Overview While Second John warns that love must be restricted by truth, Third John emphasizes that truth must be delivered with love, compassion, and grace. Swindoll explores the dynamics of a first-century local church by examining three distinct men mentioned in this tiny letter. First is Gaius, a beloved, faithful, and hospitable layman who is commended for generously supporting traveling ministers. Second is Diotrephes, an arrogant, dictatorial “church boss” who loved to be first, maliciously gossiped against apostolic authority, and excommunicated anyone who challenged him. Finally, there is Demetrius, a man affirmed by everyone because his life perfectly mirrored the truth of Scripture. This message serves as a stark reminder that while variety in ministry is beautiful, dictatorial disunity must never be tolerated.

Key Facts

  • Fellow Workers With the Truth: Believers who generously and financially support true, itinerant ministers of the gospel become active partners and “fellow workers” in the dissemination of the truth–.
  • The Church Boss Complex: Diotrephes represents the dangerous “savage” layman who seeks preeminence, plots for control, talks baseless nonsense (gossip), and forces his own unbiblical authority over the congregation–.
  • Confronting Arrogance: Apostolic leadership requires the courage to deal openly with bullies like Diotrephes; a church cannot be run by human pride, because Jesus Christ alone is Lord of the church,.
  • The Ultimate Standard: A godly leader, like Demetrius, maintains an excellent testimony in the community, inside the church, and most importantly, against the objective standard of the Word of God.

Scripture References

  • 3 John 1–14
  • 1 Corinthians 12:18–20

Message 8: Jude: Manual for Survival

Sermon Overview Jude originally sat down to write a calm, joyful letter about the common salvation he shared with his readers. However, the Holy Spirit urgently compelled him to change his subject and issue a “fiery cross” to arouse the church. Apostates and false teachers had “crept in unnoticed”—like a water moccasin slipping into a fresh reservoir—turning the grace of God into a license for gross immorality and denying the lordship of Christ. Swindoll outlines Jude’s powerful arguments for why believers must intensely “contend for the faith,” pointing to the spiritual emptiness, blasphemous tongues, and certain doom of these false teachers. To survive such deceptive times, Jude commands believers to remember the apostolic warnings, keep themselves in the love of God, have pity on those who doubt, and urgently snatch the lost from the fire.

Key Facts

  • A Completed Body of Truth: “The faith” refers to the fixed, non-negotiable body of revealed biblical truth that was delivered “once for all” to the saints; it is not open to continued, modern alteration.
  • Insidious Deception: False teachers rarely announce their heresy; they creep in with gracious, logical, and flattering words, appealing to the undiscerning before injecting their spiritual venom–,.
  • Clouds Without Water: Jude eloquently describes the spiritual emptiness of false teachers: they are hidden reefs, waterless clouds driven by winds, dead autumn trees, and wandering stars reserved for eternal darkness.
  • Hating the Garment: Believers are commanded to vigorously evangelize (“save others, snatching them out of the fire”) while maintaining a careful balance: loving the sinner but harboring a deep hatred for the sin that pollutes them.

Scripture References

  • Jude 1–4
  • Jude 5–16
  • Jude 17–25

Message 9: Revelation: God’s Final Words

Sermon Overview Often viewed as a bewildering, enigmatic riddle full of bizarre symbolism, the book of Revelation is actually meant to be exactly what its Greek title (Apocalypsis) suggests: an unveiling. Written by the Apostle John while exiled on the harsh island of Patmos, this majestic, dramatic book was designed to assure believers that God is in complete, sovereign control of all future events. Adopting a futurist perspective, Swindoll walks through the divinely inspired outline found in Revelation 1:19—the things seen (chapter 1), the things which are (the seven churches in chapters 2–3), and the things to come (chapters 4–22). From the catastrophic seal, trumpet, and bowl judgments, to the sinister reign of the Antichrist (666), the book steadily builds to the ultimate, glorious climax: the return of Jesus Christ as King of Kings, the final defeat of Satan, and the establishment of a new heaven and earth.

Key Facts

  • A Promised Blessing: Revelation is one of the only books in the Bible that explicitly promises a blessing to those who read, hear, and heed the words of its prophecy–.
  • The Seven Churches: Chapters 2 and 3 address seven literal first-century churches in Asia Minor (such as the dead church in Sardis and the lukewarm church in Laodicea), warning all congregations against spiritual self-deception–.
  • Unleashed Judgments: The future tribulation involves three distinct series of seven judgments (seals, trumpets, and bowls) representing the fierce, righteous wrath of God poured out upon an unrepentant earth–.
  • The King of Kings: At the climax of history, Jesus Christ returns not as a suffering servant, but as a conquering warrior on a white horse, reigning supreme over all who falsely claim the title of lord or king–.
  • The Reality of Hell: The Great White Throne Judgment establishes the sobering reality that those whose names are not found in the Book of Life will face eternal punishment in the lake of fire–.

Scripture References

  • Revelation 1:1–9, 19
  • Revelation 2–3
  • Revelation 4–5
  • Revelation 6–8
  • Revelation 13:1, 14–18
  • Revelation 16:1
  • Revelation 19:11–20
  • Revelation 20:7–15
  • Revelation 21–22
  • Daniel 4:35

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Parenting: From Surviving to Thriving

Diapers and dolls . . . pimples and puberty . . . homework and housework . . . toddlers and teenagers . . . HELP! How can parents survive?

Author, teacher, parent (and grandparent!), Chuck Swindoll, guides you through the stormy waters of the parenting years by examining practical, proven principles from the Word of God—forged in the crucible of Chuck’s personal experience. You can do more than simply survive as parents—you can thrive!


Parenting is often described as the hardest job you’ll ever love. In this series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll moves past the “survival mode” of just getting through the day and offers a biblical vision for helping children thrive. By focusing on the unique “bent” of each child and the essential role of parental character, these messages provide practical wisdom for building a home defined by grace rather than constant friction.

Message 1: The Best-Kept Secret of Wise Parenting

Overview: Pastor Chuck Swindoll reveals that the foundation of successful parenting is not a set of techniques, but the character and spiritual health of the parent. This message explores the “secret” that children are more likely to follow our footsteps than our words. It emphasizes that a parent’s primary responsibility is their own walk with God, which creates a natural environment for children to thrive.

  • Key Fact: The most effective tool in parenting is personal authenticity; children are experts at detecting the gap between what a parent says and what a parent does.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 127; 128

Message 2: Understanding How Your Child Was Made

Overview: Every child is born with a unique “bent”—a set of natural inclinations, strengths, and weaknesses. This message focuses on the biblical mandate to “train up a child in the way he should go,” which Chuck explains means training a child according to their individual design rather than forcing them into a pre-determined mold.

  • Key Fact: Parenting is not a “cookie-cutter” process; wise parents act as students of their children to discover how God has uniquely wired them.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 22:6

Message 3: Establishing a Life of Self-Control

Overview: In a world of instant gratification, teaching a child self-control is essential for their future success and spiritual maturity. Chuck discusses the difference between punishment and discipline, explaining that the ultimate goal of parental discipline is to move a child from external control to internal self-government.

  • Key Fact: Discipline should always be administered in love with the goal of restoration, never in a fit of parental rage.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 13:24; 22:15; 23:13–14

Message 4: Cultivating a Life of Self-Worth

Overview: A child’s sense of value is largely shaped by the “mirror” provided by their parents. This message examines how to build a healthy, biblical sense of self-worth in children—not based on pride, but on their identity as a person created in the image of God and deeply loved by their family.

  • Key Fact: Comparison is the enemy of self-worth; parents must celebrate a child’s unique identity to protect them from the trap of seeking worldly validation.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 139:13–16

Message 5: Secret Struggles . . . Family Troubles

Overview: No family is immune to conflict or hidden dysfunction. Chuck addresses the “secret” struggles that can tear families apart, such as hypocrisy, favoritism, and unresolved anger. This message provides a biblical framework for bringing these issues into the light to find healing and grace.

  • Key Fact: What remains hidden in a family’s history often manifests as behavioral or emotional trouble in the next generation.
  • Scripture Reference: Genesis 27:1–41 (The story of Isaac, Rebekah, Jacob, and Esau)

Message 6: From Resentment to Rebellion

Overview: This sermon explores the dangerous progression from suppressed resentment to outward rebellion. Chuck identifies the “parental provocations” that often lead children to anger and provides practical advice on how to de-escalate tension and rebuild trust before a child reaches the point of total defiance.

  • Key Fact: Rebellion is often the “fruit” of a deeper “root” of resentment caused by unfair treatment or a lack of emotional connection.
  • Scripture Reference: Ephesians 6:4; Colossians 3:21

Message 7: Affirming and Encouraging Words to Parents

Overview: Parenting is one of the most exhausting roles in life. Chuck takes a moment to offer a “cup of cold water” to weary parents. This message focuses on the power of encouragement, reminding parents of the eternal significance of their work and the promise of God’s grace when they feel inadequate.

  • Key Fact: Encouragement is the “oxygen” of the soul; parents need it just as much as children do.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 Thessalonians 5:11; Hebrews 10:24–25

Message 8: Confronting the “Older Brother Attitudes”

Overview: Using the Parable of the Prodigal Son, Chuck examines the subtle but destructive nature of legalism and self-righteousness within the home. This message warns parents against fostering an environment of “older brother” perfectionism that leaves no room for grace or the celebration of repentance.

  • Key Fact: A home without grace creates “rule-followers” who are spiritually cold and judgmental toward others.
  • Scripture Reference: Luke 15:11–32

Message 9: Increasing the Priority of Your Family

Overview: In a fast-paced society, the family is often sacrificed on the altar of career or social status. Chuck challenges parents to re-evaluate their calendars and priorities. This message offers a roadmap for putting the family back at the center of the home and making intentional memories.

  • Key Fact: You cannot “microwavve” a relationship; deep family bonds require the slow-cooker method of consistent, quality time.
  • Scripture Reference: Deuteronomy 6:4–9

Message 10: Restoring Relationships After You’ve Blown It

Overview: Perfection is not the goal of parenting; faithfulness and humility are. Chuck addresses the reality that all parents make mistakes. This message explains the biblical process of confession and seeking forgiveness from our children to restore broken bridges.

  • Key Fact: Admitting you are wrong to your child does not undermine your authority; it increases your respect and models biblical humility.
  • Scripture Reference: James 5:16; Matthew 5:23–24

Message 11: When God’s Gift Comes Specially Wrapped

Overview: This sensitive and powerful message addresses the unique journey of parenting children with special needs or “different” challenges. Chuck offers biblical comfort and perspective, viewing these children not as “mistakes,” but as specially wrapped gifts from God that require a special kind of grace.

  • Key Fact: God often uses the challenges of “special” parenting to refine the parents’ faith and display His glory in unique ways.
  • Scripture Reference: John 9:1–7; 2 Corinthians 12:9–10

Message 12: Final Words to Families Then and Now

Overview: Chuck concludes the series by summarizing the core pillars of a thriving family: love, laughter, and a legacy of faith. He offers a final charge to parents to stay the course, reminding them that their investment in their children is the only thing they can truly leave behind for eternity.

  • Key Fact: A thriving family is built on the “three L’s”—Love, Laughter, and Liberty in Christ.
  • Scripture Reference: Joshua 24:14–15; 2 Timothy 1:5

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What If . . . ?

What if . . . ? What a haunting, yet profound question. We’ve all found ourselves in situations where we have felt helpless to determine our next step if the unknown were to happen. Either due to lack of knowledge or lack of ability, we wonder what we should do.

And yet, that very act of wondering, of asking questions like, “What If You Suddenly Lose Everything?” or “What If You Need a Second Chance?” stands as a perfect opportunity to gain biblical wisdom about difficult subjects.

As you make your way through this series about the difficult questions and decisions we face, remember that it’s in wrestling with the questions that we come closest to the Lord.

Life is full of unexpected “what ifs”—moments that leave us feeling helpless, confused, or blindsided. In this 12-part series (plus a concluding conversation), Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores biblical answers to some of life’s most difficult scenarios. By diving into the lives of biblical figures and the wisdom of the Epistles, this series provides a practical roadmap for navigating the unknown with faith and resilience.

Message 1: What If God Chooses You to Do Something Great?

Sermon Overview God frequently chooses the least likely candidates to accomplish His greatest purposes. In this message, Charles R. Swindoll explores the calling of Moses at the burning bush. At 80 years old, carrying the baggage of a criminal past and decades of obscurity as a shepherd, Moses felt completely disqualified. When God called him to lead the Exodus, Moses offered multiple excuses—fearing he lacked the ability, the answers, and the influence to succeed. Yet, God countered every excuse with His own divine sufficiency, proving that He doesn’t call people based on their natural abilities, but rather equips them with His power. This message challenges believers to stop retreating in insecurity, stop resisting God’s call, and step out in faith when He asks them to do the unexpected.

Key Facts

  • Running Ahead vs. Retreating: Many believers make the mistake of running ahead in their own strength (as Moses did when he murdered the Egyptian in his 40s), which often leads to failure, insecurity, and retreating from God’s plan.
  • The “I AM” Answer: When Moses worried that he wouldn’t have all the answers for the people, God told him simply to say, “I AM has sent me to you,” proving that God’s presence is the only answer we truly need.
  • God Uses Our Weaknesses: When Moses cited his speech impediment as a disqualification, God reminded him that He is the Creator of the human mouth and provides all the ability that is needed.
  • Never Say Never: Believers must never conclude that God is done doing great things, nor should they ever believe He is finished using them, regardless of their age or past failures.

Scripture References

  • Exodus 3:1–10
  • Exodus 4:1–13

Message 2: What If You Suddenly Lose Everything?

Sermon Overview Tragedy frequently strikes without warning, collapsing our sense of security. Turning to the ancient book of Job, Swindoll provides a profound, biblical perspective on enduring sudden, catastrophic loss. Job, a man of complete integrity, lost his immense wealth, his servants, and all ten of his children in a single day. Yet, he did not respond with denial or bitterness; instead, he tore his robe in grief and fell to the ground to worship God. This message dismantles the shallow theology that expects constant earthly comfort, emphasizing instead that God is sovereign, life is not just about our personal happiness, and true faith is anchored in the unseen, eternal reality.

Key Facts

  • The Heavenly Contest: Job’s suffering was not a punishment for secret sin. The reader is given a “sneak preview” of the heavenly court, revealing that Job was selected as the principal player in a cosmic test of faith to prove that he loved God, not just God’s blessings.
  • Grieving with Faith: Job’s initial response to his devastating loss was worship. He acknowledged that he came into the world with nothing and would leave with nothing, saying, “The Lord gave me what I had, and the Lord has taken it away”.
  • Sovereignty Over Suffering: God is not cruel; He is sovereign. Believers must learn to accept both the good and the bad from God’s hand without accusing Him of wrongdoing.
  • The Master’s Tools: Swindoll uses the analogy of a hammer, file, and furnace. While these tools cause the metal pain, the metal must remember that it is in the hands of a loving, sovereign Workman shaping it for a purpose.

Scripture References

  • Job 1:1–22
  • Job 2:1–10
  • James 4:13–16

Message 3: What If You Are Being Stalked?

Sermon Overview Stalking, harassment, and intense personal attacks are terrifying realities in a fallen world. Swindoll looks at the life of the prophet Elijah, who, fresh off a massive spiritual victory at Mount Carmel, fled in panic after receiving a death threat from Queen Jezebel. Despite his incredible faith just days prior, Elijah succumbed to fear, isolated himself in the wilderness, and prayed to die. God responded not with shame or a harsh lecture, but by graciously providing sleep and nourishment, followed by a gentle whisper to correct Elijah’s perspective. The message offers practical guidance for handling physical threats and reminds believers that Satan is the ultimate stalker, constantly prowling to devour us.

Key Facts

  • The Deceitful Heart: Because the human heart is incurably diseased and deceitful, people are capable of stalking and terrorizing others to gain power and control.
  • The “Elijah Complex”: In his depression and exhaustion, Elijah miscalculated his situation, believing he was the only faithful person left. God gently corrected him by revealing there were 7,000 others who had not bowed to idols.
  • Physical Needs Matter: When Elijah was emotionally spent and suicidal, the angel of the Lord’s first instruction was simply to “get up and eat.” Sometimes a good night’s sleep and proper nourishment are the most spiritual things a person can do.
  • Our Ultimate Enemy: We are all constantly being stalked. First Peter 5:8 warns that the devil prowls around like a lion, looking for vulnerable believers to swallow up and devour.

Scripture References

  • 1 Kings 18:17-40
  • 1 Kings 19:1–18
  • Jeremiah 17:9–10
  • Hebrews 4:12–13
  • 1 Peter 5:8

Message 4: What If a Longtime Friend Deceives You?

Sermon Overview Betrayal by a trusted friend or ministry partner leaves a deep, painful wound. Swindoll examines the tragic story of Gehazi, the servant of the prophet Elisha. After Elisha miraculously cleansed Naaman of leprosy, he firmly refused Naaman’s offer of massive wealth, wanting God to receive all the glory. However, Gehazi, acting as a deceitful “under-rower,” rationalized a way to enrich himself. He secretly chased Naaman down, lied to secure the silver and clothing, and then lied directly to Elisha to cover his tracks. This sobering message serves as a strong warning against the rationalization of sin, reminding all who serve the Lord that true ministry requires uncompromising integrity and pure motives.

Key Facts

  • Servants and Stewards: Believers are described in 1 Corinthians 4 as “under-rowers” and “stewards” (housekeepers). Our primary responsibility is simply to be faithful, not to steer the ship or seek the spotlight.
  • The Trap of Rationalization: Gehazi devised self-satisfying but incorrect reasons for his behavior, convincing himself it was foolish to let Naaman leave with his money, even invoking the Lord’s name to justify his greed.
  • The Cost of Deception: Gehazi’s betrayal was met with swift and severe discipline. Because he prioritized wealth over the integrity of God’s message, he and his descendants were struck with Naaman’s leprosy forever.
  • Two Crucial Questions: To guard against deception and rationalization, every believer must regularly ask themselves: “Am I doing the right thing?” and “What is my motive?”.

Scripture References

  • 2 Kings 5:15–27
  • 1 Corinthians 4:1–2

Message 5: What If You Should Confront Someone in Sin?

Sermon Overview Confronting a brother or sister in sin is a daunting, unenviable task, but it is an essential act of biblical love. Swindoll explores one of the most famous confrontations in Scripture: the prophet Nathan confronting King David. After committing adultery with Bathsheba and orchestrating the murder of her husband Uriah, David lived in a state of hypocritical denial. Nathan bravely stepped into the throne room, using a carefully crafted story about a stolen lamb to pierce the king’s hardened conscience. The message outlines practical guidelines for confronting others, emphasizing that true confrontation is never about shaming or controlling, but about rescuing a believer from the destructive consequences of hidden sin.

Key Facts

  • Confrontation is Love in Action: Leaving someone to drown in their sin is not love. We confront because we care about the individual’s welfare and want to restore them to fellowship, doing so with a spirit of gentleness (Galatians 6:1).
  • Invincible Messengers: When believers are led by God to speak the truth in love, they act as His messengers. Nathan did not cower before David’s royal authority; he spoke boldly because he represented the King of Kings.
  • The Power of a Story: Nathan’s parable functioned first as a picture to give David objective sight, then became a mirror showing David his own sin, and finally opened as a window of hope when Nathan announced God’s forgiveness.
  • Guidelines for Confrontation: When confronting sin, believers should let God lead, choose the timing carefully, speak only the truth (avoiding hearsay), use wise words, always offer hope, and ultimately leave the results with God.

Scripture References

  • 2 Samuel 11
  • 2 Samuel 12:1–14
  • Proverbs 27:6
  • Galatians 6:1

Message 6: What If Someone Kicks You When You’re Down?

Sermon Overview Experiencing an attack when you are already suffering a season of personal failure is one of life’s most bitter pills to swallow. Swindoll looks at the life of King David, who, while fleeing barefoot from his son Absalom’s rebellion, was violently accosted by a man named Shimei. Shimei threw stones, tossed dust, and screamed false accusations at the broken king. Instead of allowing his general, Abishai, to retaliate and silence the abuser, David humbly accepted the insults. He refused to defend himself, choosing instead to trust that God was sovereignly aware of the situation. The message teaches believers how to silence the carnal urge for revenge, endure unfair criticism, and find healing at the mercy seat of God.

Key Facts

  • Success and Humility: Success can either make you proud or keep you humble. Despite being a legendary warrior and king, David demonstrated profound humility by refusing to leverage his power to destroy his critic.
  • Carnal Counsel: When you are attacked, friends like Abishai will often emerge, offering carnal, vengeance-driven advice. Believers must be careful not to heed counsel that escalates the conflict.
  • God is in Control: David did not view Shimei’s attack as an accident; he recognized that God had permitted it. Even in the midst of unfair treatment, we must not misinterpret God’s silence as His absence.
  • Refusing to be Paralyzed: Though weary and harassed, David and his men continued walking down the road toward their destination. We must not allow the attacks of others to paralyze us or force us to abandon our responsibilities.

Scripture References

  • 2 Samuel 16:5–14
  • Romans 12:19–21

Message 7: What If You Need a Second Chance?

Sermon Overview Because human beings are deeply flawed, the Christian life is largely a journey of needing and granting second chances. This message explores the intense, historic disagreement between the Apostle Paul and Barnabas over their young assistant, John Mark. John Mark had deserted the team during their first missionary journey, returning home when the work became difficult. When preparing for a second journey, Barnabas—the “son of encouragement”—wanted to give John Mark another chance, while Paul strongly refused to rely on a deserter. The disagreement became so sharp that the two great leaders separated. Swindoll uses this narrative to teach practical guidelines on how to navigate relational breakdowns, seek wise compromise, and understand when a second chance is—and isn’t—appropriate.

Key Facts

  • Two Valid Viewpoints: In their argument, Paul operated objectively on principles (needing a reliable partner for dangerous work), while Barnabas operated subjectively on compassion (desiring to restore a failed relative).
  • The Reality of Conflict: Even deeply godly, spirit-filled leaders can experience “paroxysms” (sudden outbursts of emotion and severe disagreements).
  • Sometimes Consequences are Best: Giving a quick second chance isn’t always the most loving action. Sometimes facing the hard consequences of a failure (like being fired for theft) is necessary for true character growth.
  • Agree to Disagree: When a conflict cannot be resolved, believers should agree to disagree without becoming disagreeable or holding lifelong grudges, remembering that God can still bless both separate paths.

Scripture References

  • Acts 13:1–5, 13
  • Acts 15:36–41

Message 8: What If You Struggle with a Permanent Disability?

Sermon Overview Every person grapples with some form of disability, limitation, or chronic pain that breaks their pride and renders them dependent. Swindoll examines the Apostle Paul’s intimate confession regarding his “thorn in the flesh.” Despite receiving unsurpassed revelations in the third heaven, Paul was given a painful, physical affliction to keep him from becoming arrogant. Paul begged God three times to remove it, but God answered “No,” teaching Paul that divine power is perfected in human weakness. This message challenges believers to view their permanent disabilities not as enemies, but as God-ordained tools that level self-sufficiency, cultivate humility, and provide a unique platform for His grace to shine.

Key Facts

  • The Danger of Self-Sufficiency: Highly intelligent, uniquely gifted, and deeply religious people are especially prone to pride. God frequently uses crushing pain and physical limitations to replace their arrogance with dependency.
  • The Stake in the Flesh: The Greek word Paul used for “thorn” (skolops) actually means a sharp, pointed stake. It represents an excruciating, physical malady that felt like a constant beating from a demonic messenger.
  • Paradoxical Power: God frequently answers our pleas for healing with a “No,” because His grace is sufficient. The Christian life operates on a paradox: when we are weak, then we are strong.
  • A Change in Perspective: Believers can handle disabilities by looking up (accepting God’s sovereign plan without blame), looking within (viewing the disability as a friend that produces joy), and looking beyond (focusing on the eternal hope and fragrance of heaven).

Scripture References

  • 2 Corinthians 12:1–10

Message 9: What If a Person Is an Unrepentant Troublemaker?

Sermon Overview While the church is called to be a place of grace, it must also be protected from those who actively seek to divide and destroy it. Drawing from Paul’s instructions in Romans 16 and Titus 3, Swindoll addresses the painful reality of chronic, unrepentant troublemakers—individuals who “stir the pot,” teach contrary doctrines, and manipulate the flock. Because leaders are big targets, they must be “as wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove,” willing to stand firm against spiritual wolves. This message provides a clear, biblical protocol for confronting divisive people: warn them twice, and if they refuse to repent, the church must separate from them to preserve the health and unity of the body.

Key Facts

  • The Threat of Deception: Divisive individuals rarely appear as obvious threats; they use “smooth talk and glowing words” to deceive innocent, unsuspecting believers.
  • The Role of Elders: Setting a church in order requires appointing qualified elders who are faithful, blameless, and committed to sound doctrine, ensuring the flock is protected from toxic leadership.
  • The Protocol for Discipline: According to Titus 3:10, if a person is causing divisions, the biblical response is to issue a first and second warning. If they remain obstinate, the church is to “have nothing more to do with them”.
  • The Maxim of Unity: A healthy church maintains balance by adhering to the ancient principle: “In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity (love)”.

Scripture References

  • Romans 16:17–18
  • Titus 1:5-9
  • Titus 3:8–11

Message 10: What If You Talk Too Much?

Sermon Overview The human tongue is a small but incredibly volatile organ, capable of delivering immense good or unleashing incalculable harm. Using the stark imagery of James 3, Swindoll examines the devastating impact of an untamed tongue. Because Jesus taught that words flow directly from the “treasury of the heart,” a toxic tongue is merely the bucket splashing out the polluted water of an evil well. James compares the tongue to a small bit that steers a horse, a small rudder that turns a ship, and a tiny spark that sets a massive forest ablaze. The message warns that no human can tame the tongue on their own; true restraint and consistent, uplifting speech only come by yielding control to the Holy Spirit.

Key Facts

  • A Stricter Judgment: Those who speak publicly and teach the Word of God face a stricter judgment, as they are responsible for accuracy, their influence over many lives, and modeling what they teach.
  • Small but Powerful: The tongue is small but exercises disproportionate control over our lives. An uncontrolled tongue can destroy relationships, divide churches, and leave lasting “verbal shrapnel” in the minds of others.
  • Untamable by Human Effort: While humanity has tamed wild beasts, birds, and reptiles, the tongue is a “restless evil, full of deadly poison” that can only be controlled by the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit.
  • The Four Gates of Speech: Before speaking, believers should filter their words by asking: Is it true? Is it confidential? Is it necessary? Is it kind?.

Scripture References

  • Matthew 15:10–20
  • Luke 6:45
  • James 3:1–12

Message 11: What If Your Boss Is Unfair and Disrespectful?

Sermon Overview Many Christians spend the vast majority of their waking hours at secular jobs without ever developing a biblical theology of work. Swindoll begins in the book of Genesis to establish that work itself was ordained by God before the fall and possesses intrinsic dignity; it is the ground—the workplace environment—that was cursed with thorns and tension. Turning to the New Testament, Swindoll addresses how believers should conduct themselves under the authority of secular employers. Christians are commanded to work willingly and enthusiastically as representatives of Christ, even when their bosses are unreasonable or cruel. This message challenges believers to stop dividing their lives into “secular” and “sacred” categories, and to start viewing their daily employment as a platform for the Gospel.

Key Facts

  • Work is Inherently Good: God evaluated His own work of creation as “very good” and gave Adam the job of tending the garden before sin entered the world. God never cursed work itself.
  • Working for the Lord: Believers are instructed to work at whatever they do as though they are working directly for the Lord Jesus rather than for people, which revolutionizes their attitude and effort.
  • Respecting Authority: Even under corrupt leaders (like the Emperor Nero in Peter’s day), Christians are called to respect the position of authority and patiently endure unfair treatment as a testimony of their faith.
  • When to Resist: A Christian must only resist an employer when commanded to do something inherently evil, when their conscience is directly violated, or when innocent people will be harmed by the action.

Scripture References

  • Genesis 1:27–31
  • Genesis 2:1–3, 15
  • Genesis 3:1–19
  • Colossians 3:17, 22–24
  • Ephesians 6:5–8
  • 1 Peter 2:13–21

Message 12: What If You Were to Die Tonight?

Sermon Overview In one of the most sobering messages of the series, Swindoll tackles the inescapable reality of death and eternal destiny. Using Jesus’ teaching on the Rich Man and Lazarus, he unpacks exactly what happens the moment a person dies. Death permanently separates the soul/spirit from the physical body, sealing a person’s decision to either accept or reject Christ. While the believing beggar, Lazarus, was comforted in paradise, the unrepentant Rich Man found himself in a state of conscious, inescapable torment. The message dismantles common cynical rationalizations about the afterlife, asserting that the written Word of God is the most compelling evidence available to mankind, and issues a passionate plea to trust in Christ before time runs out.

Key Facts

  • The Destination of the Soul: At death, the physical body goes to the grave, while the soul/spirit immediately enters either the presence of God (paradise/heaven) or a place of conscious torment (Hades/hell).
  • Consciousness in Eternity: The unrepentant Rich Man did not cease to exist; he retained his sight, feeling, hearing, speech, taste, and—most painfully—his memory of the life he squandered.
  • The Great Chasm: There is a fixed, impassable chasm in eternity. There is no purgatory, no reincarnation, and no post-mortem opportunity to change one’s eternal destiny; the decision must be made in this life.
  • The Power of Scripture: When the Rich Man begged for a miraculous sign to warn his brothers, Abraham replied that if they wouldn’t listen to the Scriptures (“Moses and the prophets”), they wouldn’t be persuaded even if someone rose from the dead.

Scripture References

  • Luke 16:19–31
  • Hebrews 9:27
  • Romans 5:12

Message 13: Conversations with Chuck: A Candid Discussion on Special Needs and Suffering (Bonus)

Sermon Overview In this special conversational message, Charles R. Swindoll sits down with his daughter, Colleen Swindoll Thompson (Director of Special Needs Ministry), and Pastor Steve Fisher. Together, they share candidly about the intense crushing weight and eventual hope found in navigating severe personal trials. Steve discusses the heart-wrenching journey of losing his severely disabled daughter, Payton, while Colleen shares her ongoing experiences raising a son with autism. Moving past theological platitudes, this interview explores the raw realities of grief, the vital importance of the “ministry of presence,” and the profound peace that comes when we finally surrender our expectations and accept God’s sovereign plan.

Key Facts

  • The Ministry of Presence: When ministering to those in deep despair, attempting to “fix” them, offering formulaic answers, or using shame-based statements is unhelpful. The greatest comfort is often just sitting silently with them in their pain.
  • The Purpose of Crushing: God frequently uses the crushing weight of tragedy to tear away our masks, break down our self-sufficiency, and replace our personal expectations with a deeper reliance on His sovereignty.
  • Acceptance with Hope: True acceptance of a difficult reality (such as a permanent disability) does not mean resigning to a grim, bitter life. Rather, it is finding peace and joy in a new “recomposition” of life under God’s guidance.
  • The Next Right Thing: When overwhelmed by grief, anxiety, or the “dwarfs of despair,” the most profound act of faith is often to stop looking at the massive, overwhelming picture and simply ask, “What is the next right thing?”—even if it is just getting out of bed.

Scripture References

  • John 5:6
  • Psalm 139

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