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Mar 31 2025

Strengthening Your Grip: How to Be Grounded in a Chaotic World

Have you ever wondered what is essential for glorifying God in an aimless and confused world?

If so, don’t miss Pastor Chuck Swindoll in this practical series on a variety of topics like money, evangelism, parenting, purity, and more!

Strengthen your grip on walking with God in all areas of your life and experience the blessing that follows!

In an aimless and confused world, it is easy for believers to lose their footing. In this 16-part classic series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll offers a practical “grip” on the essentials of the Christian life. By exploring a wide range of topics—from money and leisure to aging and integrity—Chuck provides changeless truths from God’s Word that offer courage and direction. This series is a call to move past a “slippery” faith and to plant your feet firmly on the biblical values that glorifying God in every area of life.

Message 1: Strengthening Your Grip on Priorities

Sermon Overview It is incredibly easy for a local church to lose its reason for existence in the rat race of buildings, programs, staffing, and numbers. Charles R. Swindoll warns that when a congregation forgets its priorities, it suffers from blurred vision, compromised values, and a slick, corporate mentality. Turning to the Apostle Paul’s model in 1 Thessalonians 2, Swindoll identifies four absolute, non-negotiable priorities for a healthy ministry. A church must remain strictly biblical by clinging to the Word of God, it must be authentic and free from manipulative greed, it must display gracious compassion, and it must remain culturally relevant without compromising truth.

Key Facts

  • The Biblical Foundation: The absolute priority of any ministry must be a faithful commitment to the Word of God; without it, strong personalities will easily lead the church astray.
  • Authenticity Over Flattery: A healthy ministry refuses to use flattering speech or guilt to manipulate people; it does not put on a mask to cover up financial greed.
  • Gracious Compassion: Believers must treat one another with the gentle affection of a nursing mother and the protective care of a father, recognizing that many people enter the church deeply bruised by life.
  • Flexible Relevance: While the core message of the Bible never changes, a church’s methods must remain flexible and up-to-date to effectively answer today’s issues.

Scripture References

  • 1 Thessalonians 2:1–14

Message 2: Strengthening Your Grip on Involvement

Sermon Overview In a society that encourages isolation, the church must actively resist the urge to remain disconnected. Believers often act like porcupines in the cold—needing warmth from each other, but needling one another when they get too close. Swindoll explains that true fellowship (koinonia) is not a forced, regimented program; it is the spontaneous sharing of life, burdens, and joys. Looking at Romans 12 and 1 Corinthians 12, this message highlights that involvement in the body of Christ is commanded by God and necessary for the health of the church. To effectively engage with others, believers must cultivate spontaneity, a willingness to be vulnerable (like Mary breaking her alabaster vase), and authentic accountability to prevent tragic isolation.

Key Facts

  • The Porcupine Dance: Christians often engage in a “slow religious dance,” desiring close fellowship but backing away due to the sharp “quills” of relational conflict.
  • Four Vital Relationships: A healthy Christian is intensely involved vertically with God, and horizontally with their physical family, the family of God, and the unsaved world.
  • Commanded Acceptance: Involvement is not optional; Romans 15:7 commands believers to “accept one another,” which implies a welcoming embrace similar to inviting someone into your home, just as Christ accepted us.
  • The Necessity of Accountability: A lack of accountability in the body of Christ can lead to tragic outcomes, such as people hiding severe depression or secret struggles while attending church unnoticed.

Scripture References

  • 1 Corinthians 12:20–27
  • Acts 2:41–45
  • Acts 4:32
  • Romans 12:1–2, 9–13
  • Romans 15:7
  • Mark 14:3

Message 3: Strengthening Your Grip on Purity

Sermon Overview While Christianity is theoretically the supreme champion of purity, practical purity is never automatic. Exploring the cultural backdrop of the first century, Swindoll reveals that the Apostle Paul’s world was just as saturated with sexual immorality, rampant divorce, and blatant perversion as our modern era. In 1 Thessalonians 4, God issues a clear, hard-line command for believers to completely abstain from sexual immorality and to learn how to possess their own bodies in honor. Swindoll emphasizes that avoiding compromise requires fierce self-control, and he courageously addresses the necessity of biblical church discipline to restore those who stubbornly refuse to repent.

Key Facts

  • A Militant Advocate: Christianity must be a militant defender of purity; believers are commanded to excel in holiness so they stand out distinctly from a decadent culture.
  • Total Abstinence: God’s will is sanctification (being set apart), which strictly requires total abstinence from porneia (all types of sexual sin).
  • Sins Against the Body: According to 1 Corinthians 6, sexual immorality is unique because it is a sin committed directly against one’s own body, carrying distinct and devastating consequences.
  • The Loving Act of Discipline: When a believer lives in unrepentant impurity, the church is biblically commanded (Matthew 18) to lovingly confront them, with the ultimate goal of restoring them to the family of God.

Scripture References

  • 1 Thessalonians 4:1–8
  • 1 Corinthians 10:13
  • 1 Corinthians 6:15–20
  • Titus 2:11–14
  • Matthew 18:15–17

Message 4: Strengthening Your Grip on Money

Sermon Overview Hundreds of times a day, modern advertising violently chips away at the Christian’s reservoir of contentment, screaming the subliminal message that we desperately need more. In 1 Timothy 6, the Apostle Paul directly confronts our relationship with finances, dismantling the myth that money equals happiness. Swindoll outlines God’s specific counsel for three groups: those who are not rich (who must learn contentment), those who want to get rich (who are warned about the deadly traps of greed), and those who are rich (who are commanded to be humble and generous). True wealth is found exclusively in a consistent walk with God paired with a satisfied, peaceful spirit.

Key Facts

  • The Ultimate Formula: Paul provides a clear mathematical equation for life: Godliness + Contentment = Great Gain.
  • The Trap of Greed: The Bible never says money itself is the root of all evil; rather, the fondness or love of money is a root of all sorts of evil, causing people to wander from the faith.
  • An Eternal Perspective: Because we brought nothing into this world and can take nothing out, believers must mentally set their sights on eternity and learn the delight of the word “enough”.
  • Commands for the Wealthy: Those whom God has blessed with abundance are sternly warned against conceit and are commanded to be extraordinarily generous, ready to share with those in need.

Scripture References

  • 1 Timothy 6:3–19
  • Proverbs 28:20, 22
  • Luke 12:15–21

Message 5: Strengthening Your Grip on Integrity

Sermon Overview Integrity is best examined under the harsh lights of life’s two greatest tests: adversity and prosperity. Like a surgeon performing an exploratory operation on himself, Swindoll asks believers to take the scalpel of the Word and cut deeply into their own motives. Using Proverbs 24, he shows how the test of adversity quickly reveals whether our spiritual strength is authentic or merely “God talk”. Surprisingly, however, the far more dangerous test is prosperity. Exploring the Psalms, Swindoll warns against the pride that accompanies success and points to young David as the ultimate model of integrity—a man who possessed the humility of a servant, the heart of a shepherd, and hands willing to get involved.

Key Facts

  • The Test of Adversity: When the rug is pulled out from under us, adversity reveals our true spiritual condition; if we faint in the day of distress, our strength is small.
  • The Crucible of Praise: Prosperity and human praise act as a furnace to test a person’s character; many can handle adversity, but very few maintain their integrity under the weight of immense success.
  • Guarding Against Conceit: God explicitly warns those who are experiencing prosperity not to “toot their own horn” or speak with insolent pride, because God alone is the judge who exalts and demotes.
  • A Servant’s Heart: True integrity means refusing to compromise for the sake of group pressure; it acts honestly in private, keeps its promises, and maintains the humble spirit of a servant.

Scripture References

  • Proverbs 24:10
  • Job 4:3–5
  • Psalm 75:5–7
  • Proverbs 27:2, 21
  • Psalm 78:70–72

Message 6: Strengthening Your Grip on Discipleship

Sermon Overview The modern church often acts like a stadium full of spectators rather than an army of disciplined followers. Examining the Great Commission in Matthew 28, Swindoll highlights that the primary mandate for the church is not merely to get converts, but to make disciples. Jesus modeled this by investing His life not in the religious elite, but in a ragged aggregation of ordinary men, spending intense, personal time with them before sending them out to serve. Moving to the strict demands of Luke 14, this message challenges believers to stop skipping through Christianity like a rock across a pond and to pay the high price of discipleship: placing loyalty to Christ above all family ties, personal goals, and material possessions.

Key Facts

  • The Primary Verb: In the Great Commission, “going,” “baptizing,” and “teaching” are all supplementary to the singular, major action command: “make disciples”.
  • Association Before Service: Jesus called the Twelve first “that they might be with Him,” proving that profound, personal time with Christ must always precede public service and preaching.
  • The Competition of Loyalty: Jesus’ command to “hate” family members is language of accommodation, emphasizing that in the inevitable competition of loyalties, Christ must always rank absolutely first.
  • Carrying the Cross: To carry one’s cross means a believer completely dies to their own personal career goals and desires, handing the title deed of their life and possessions entirely over to the Master.

Scripture References

  • Matthew 28:16–20
  • Mark 3:13–14
  • Acts 4:4–13
  • Luke 14:25–33

Message 7: Strengthening Your Grip on Aging

Sermon Overview Growing old requires zero effort; all we have to do is keep breathing. However, finishing life with a positive, enthusiastic attitude requires tremendous discipline. Swindoll warns against the four demoralizing enemies of aging: a sense of uselessness, the burden of past guilt, the isolation of self-pity, and paralyzing fear. To combat this, he points to the exhilarating life of Caleb in Joshua 14. Even at the age of 85, Caleb refused to retire or coast into obscurity; instead, he boldly asked Joshua to give him the giant-infested hill country. Believers are challenged to view the passing of time as a thrilling challenge rather than a threat, intentionally deciding to follow the Lord fully to their very last breath.

Key Facts

  • The Prayer for Wisdom: Moses, writing at an advanced age, prayed in Psalm 90 that God would teach him to number his days—viewing each passing day as a gift to be lived enthusiastically for God.
  • Defeating Bitterness: Although Caleb brought back a faithful spy report, God chose Joshua to succeed Moses; rather than growing bitter or chafing under God’s sovereign choice, Caleb modeled 45 years of perfect cooperation.
  • Strength for the Mountain: At age 85, Caleb possessed the same spiritual and physical vitality he had at 40, actively choosing the hardest, giant-filled mountains over a comfortable retirement.
  • Attitude is a Choice: We cannot change the passing of time, the inevitables of life, or the pain of loss, but we have absolute control over whether our attitude becomes cynical and passive or courageous and engaged.

Scripture References

  • Psalm 90:1–12
  • Joshua 14:6–14
  • Numbers 13:30; 14:5–9

Message 8: Strengthening Your Grip on Prayer

Sermon Overview For many Christians, the subject of prayer does not bring comfort; it brings a heavy burden of guilt and inadequacy. Swindoll dismantles the overly formal, guilt-ridden, “religious” approach to prayer that has plagued believers since the time of the Pharisees. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus sharply rebuked hypocritical, showy prayers and meaningless, hypnotic repetitions, urging believers to simply go into their private rooms and talk to God like a child to a father. Looking at Philippians 4, the message reveals that true, authentic prayer acts as the ultimate antidote to human worry. When we dump our raw anxieties onto God, He promises to replace them with an incomprehensible peace.

Key Facts

  • The Trap of Formalism: By the first century, prayer had degenerated into a strict, formal, repetitive ritual used by religious leaders to pridefully display their piety on street corners.
  • Rejecting Hypocrisy and Repetition: Jesus explicitly commanded His followers to abandon masks, public grandstanding, and empty cliches, emphasizing that God is not impressed by long, eloquent verbiage.
  • The Antidote to Anxiety: The biblical command to “stop worrying” is impossible without the second half of the equation: substituting that worry with thankful, petitionary prayer that transfers the burden to God.
  • A Divine Transfer: Prayer does not inform an ignorant God; it provides the therapeutic release of transferring our heaviest emotional and circumstantial loads from our shoulders to His.

Scripture References

  • Matthew 6:5–15
  • Philippians 4:1–9

Message 9: Strengthening Your Grip on Leisure

Sermon Overview The modern generation is trapped in a neurotic compulsion to overwork, viewing leisure as a lazy waste of time. However, Swindoll argues that taking time to rest is not an unspiritual luxury; it is a divine command. According to Ephesians 5, believers are commanded to “mimic” or imitate God, and the opening chapters of Genesis reveal a God who deliberately set aside time to create, communicate, rest, and relate. Without deliberately turning off the noise and building quiet “parentheses” into our days, we lose our ability to know God and connect deeply with our families. This message urges workaholics to deliberately stop worrying about non-essentials and to consciously grant themselves permission to enjoy the weekend God invented.

Key Facts

  • Mimicking the Creator: Ephesians 5 commands believers to imitate God; since God intentionally paused His work to rest on the seventh day (despite never experiencing fatigue), believers must also prioritize rest.
  • Permission to Stop: The word “leisure” comes from a Latin root meaning “to be permitted”; meaningful rest will never happen until driven individuals deliberately give themselves permission to stop producing.
  • The Danger of Overwork: When work becomes a person’s all-consuming interest—even if the work is good and necessary—it degenerates into modern idolatry.
  • Serving Two Masters: Jesus warned in Matthew 6 that it is impossible to simultaneously serve God and money (the driving force behind overwork); believers must consciously stop worrying about the non-essentials and impossibles of tomorrow.

Scripture References

  • Ephesians 5:1, 15–16
  • Genesis 1:1, 22, 31
  • Genesis 2:1–2, 8, 18
  • Matthew 6:24–34

Message 10: Strengthening Your Grip on Missions

Sermon Overview It is incredibly easy for Christians to become so comfortable in their affluent, secure environments that they grow completely blind to the spiritual needs of the rest of the world. Swindoll shares his own life-altering encounter with missions as a reluctant Marine, paralleling it with the dramatic calling of the prophet Isaiah. In Isaiah 6, the untimely death of King Uzziah served as the jarring circumstance God used to grab the young prophet’s attention. When Isaiah saw the absolute holiness of God, he was crushed by his own impurity, cleansed by grace, and challenged to step out of his comfort zone. This message challenges believers to stop putting limits on their availability and to passionately respond to God’s global call with: “Here am I, send me”.

Key Facts

  • The Role of Circumstances: God frequently uses painful disruptions—such as the death of a dream, the loss of a job, or the passing of a close friend like Uzziah—to shatter our complacency and make us aware of His presence.
  • Seeing Our Need: A true encounter with the majestic, infinite holiness of God immediately exposes human sinfulness, prompting the humble response, “Woe is me”.
  • The Touch of Grace: Rather than discarding the flawed prophet, God dispatched a seraph to touch Isaiah’s lips with a burning coal, proving that God’s grace can cleanse and utilize any broken vessel.
  • Obedience Over Success: God did not promise Isaiah a highly successful, glamorous ministry; He promised him a difficult assignment preaching to hardened hearts, proving that the true measure of missions is strict obedience, not visible results.

Scripture References

  • Isaiah 6:1–12

Message 11: Strengthening Your Grip on Godliness

Sermon Overview Curiosity, when unchecked by biblical restraints, will send a believer’s life on a collision course with disaster. In this raw, sobering message, Swindoll explores the terrifying reality that spiritual overexposure often breeds a callous, cynical heart. Using 1 Corinthians 10, he points out that the Israelites in the wilderness experienced unprecedented spiritual privileges—supernatural food, miraculous deliverance, and divine guidance—yet God destroyed them in the desert. Swindoll outlines the subtle, concentric circles of spiritual erosion: it begins with a secret mental craving, morphs into private idolatry, leads to overt immorality, breeds presumption, and finally results in a grumbling cynicism against God. Believers are warned to employ fierce self-control and confess their hidden sins before God crushes their rebellion.

Key Facts

  • The Danger of Overexposure: Possessing massive amounts of theological knowledge and serving in Christian leadership does not guarantee a godly lifestyle; in fact, familiarity with the holy often breeds a dangerous hypocrisy.
  • The Process of Erosion: Moral falls never happen suddenly. They begin with tiny, unchecked curiosities and “cravings” for evil things that slowly erode a person’s spiritual sensitivity.
  • The Illusion of Immunity: Believers who arrogantly think “that will never happen to me” are the most vulnerable to falling; everyone must actively apply self-control and “buffet” their flesh to avoid disqualification.
  • God’s Way of Escape: While temptation is common to all mankind, God is faithful to provide a route of escape, but the believer must choose to take it through immediate confession and repentance.

Scripture References

  • 1 Corinthians 10:1–13
  • 1 Corinthians 9:24–27

Message 12: Strengthening Your Grip on Attitudes

Sermon Overview Life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you react to it. Using the powerful illustration of a violinist finishing a concerto on a single string, Swindoll argues that while we cannot control the snapping strings of tragedy, loss, and unfairness, we have absolute control over the one string that remains: our attitude. Turning to Philippians, the message contrasts the destructive attitudes of uselessness, blame, and self-pity with God’s command to aggressively choose joy. Just as Paul and Silas chose to sing hymns after being unjustly beaten and thrown into a Philippian dungeon, believers must deliberately guard their minds, refusing to grumble and choosing instead to dwell on whatever is true, honorable, pure, and lovely.

Key Facts

  • A Daily Choice: No one is a helpless victim of their disposition; every individual must make a conscious, daily choice whether to be crushed by their circumstances or to live victoriously above them.
  • The Mind of Christ: To survive unfairness without bitterness, believers are commanded to adopt the self-sacrificing, humble attitude that Jesus Christ displayed when He voluntarily left heaven for earth.
  • The Poison of Grumbling: When we allow circumstances to dictate our emotions, it inevitably leads to “grumbling and disputing,” which destroys our peace and repels those around us.
  • Guarding the Vault: The mind operates like a safety deposit box; you can only draw out what you deposit. If a believer dwells on the pure, lovely, and honorable things of God, that is the attitude they will extract during a crisis.

Scripture References

  • Philippians 2:1–5, 14
  • Philippians 4:4–8
  • Acts 16:22–34
  • Proverbs 4:20–23

Message 13: Strengthening Your Grip on Evangelism

Sermon Overview Many Christians cringe at the thought of evangelism, paralyzed by feelings of ignorance, fear of rejection, or memories of obnoxious, “truck-dumping” tactics. However, the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch in Acts 8 provides a masterful, intimidation-free blueprint for sharing the Gospel. Swindoll identifies six practical guidelines from Philip’s encounter: maintaining a sensitivity to God’s leading, being available to change plans, taking the initiative with a non-threatening question, acting with gracious tactfulness, focusing precisely on the person of Jesus Christ, and boldly calling for a decision. This message relieves the guilt associated with witnessing and equips believers to be winsome, authentic links in the chain of someone’s salvation.

Key Facts

  • The Ultimate Empathy: The most vital principle in evangelism is to put yourself in the other person’s shoes, abandoning “God talk” and understanding their natural defensiveness.
  • The Power of a Question: Philip did not start by preaching; he took the initiative by simply running alongside the chariot and asking a thought-provoking question: “Do you understand what you are reading?”.
  • Staying on Target: Unbelievers will often attempt to derail the conversation with controversial religious debates; a wise witness maintains preciseness by continually steering the dialogue back to the Savior.
  • The Necessity of Words: Being a “silent witness” who only models good behavior is insufficient; faith comes by hearing, meaning believers must eventually open their mouths and explain the Gospel.

Scripture References

  • Acts 8:25–39
  • Isaiah 53

Message 14: Strengthening Your Grip on Authority

Sermon Overview The modern era is defined by a fierce, defiant resistance to authority, effectively turning the phrase “question authority” into a national motto. This rebellious spirit, birthed in homes where parents relinquish control, is entirely contrary to the heart of God. Exploring the tragic downfall of King Saul in 1 Samuel 15, Swindoll paints a vivid picture of a rebel heart. Commanded by God to utterly destroy the Amalekites, Saul compromised, saving the king and the best livestock for himself. When confronted by Samuel, Saul modeled the classic defenses of a rebel: he rationalized his actions, became intensely defensive, and passed the blame. This stark message warns that God views a stubborn, insubordinate heart with the same revulsion as the practice of witchcraft.

Key Facts

  • A Culture of Defiance: Modern society increasingly advocates for the absolute rights of children, actively undermining adult leadership and cultivating a generation that boldly defies authority.
  • The Danger of Partial Obedience: Saul believed he had carried out God’s command, but his partial obedience to fulfill his own desires was entirely viewed by God as total rebellion.
  • The Anatomy of a Rebel: A rebellious heart inherently defies authority to get its own way, rationalizes sin under the guise of noble motives (“sacrificing to the Lord”), acts defensively when confronted, and resists all personal accountability.
  • Witchcraft and Idolatry: God does not view rebellion as a cute display of independence; Samuel declared that rebellion is as utterly sinful as witchcraft, and stubbornness is as vile as idolatry.

Scripture References

  • 1 Samuel 15:1–26
  • Genesis 4:6–9

Message 15: Strengthening Your Grip on Your Family

Sermon Overview The traditional family is currently occupying the most dangerous firing line in modern society, plagued by astronomical divorce rates, domestic violence, and parental neglect. To counteract this disintegration, Swindoll turns to the magnificent, chronological mural of family life painted in Psalms 127 and 128. These ancient hymns trace the family from its inception, where the Lord must be the foundational builder, through the expansion years where children arrive as unique gifts from God. The psalms then transition to the adolescent training years and finally the empty nest, demonstrating that a home centered entirely on the fear of the Lord will reap a harvest of peace, stability, and societal blessing.

Key Facts

  • A Vain Pursuit: Without the Lord Jesus Christ serving as the central architect and guard of a home, all the frantic labor, long hours, and material wealth acquired to sustain it will ultimately end in emptiness.
  • God’s Assigned Property: Children are not biological accidents or burdens; they are described in Hebrew as God’s personal property permanently assigned to parents as a reward and a gift.
  • Arrows for the Target: Raising children is much like archery; it requires immense time, attention, and cultivation to prepare these “arrows” to be successfully launched into the world to hit their target.
  • The Need for Leadership: The family desperately requires the active, decisive, and loving leadership of a father; the plague of the passive, “absentee” father leaves children highly vulnerable to instability and rebellion.

Scripture References

  • Psalm 127:1–5
  • Psalm 128:1–6

Message 16: Strengthening Your Grip on Your Family

Sermon Overview The modern family is under heavy fire, plagued by alarming rates of divorce, domestic violence, and child abuse. In this message, Swindoll uses Psalms 127 and 128 as a “chronological mural” of the family, guiding believers through the stages of a home’s inception, expansion, child-rearing, and the empty nest. He warns that unless Jehovah is at the center of the home’s foundation, all the frantic labor to provide for it is ultimately in vain. Furthermore, he challenges parents to view their children not as burdens, but as God’s assigned property, cultivated fruit, and arrows meant for a target. The message concludes with a passionate plea for fathers to step up as decisive, loving leaders rather than acting as passive or absentee figures in their children’s lives.

Key Facts

  • Laboring in Vain: The early years of marriage are often tumultuous, and couples mistakenly believe that working harder and longer will solve their problems; however, without the Lord building the house, this effort is completely in vain.
  • God’s Assigned Property: The Hebrew concept of children as a “gift” implies that they are God’s personal property temporarily assigned to parents, meaning there are no mistakes in the child-parent combinations God creates.
  • Raising a Cathedral: Parenting is not merely about feeding mouths or surviving the teenage years; it requires the intentional, daily craftsmanship of shaping a life, much like a stonemason raising a great cathedral.
  • The Danger of Passivity: Many families disintegrate because fathers become preoccupied with their work or entirely absent, leaving mothers to shoulder the horrendous task of raising children alone.

Scripture References

  • Psalm 127:1–5
  • Psalm 128:1–6

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Oct 31 2024

The Fruit of the Spirit

Jesus promised a gift to His followers that would stay with them always: the Holy Spirit! The Spirit brings life. The Spirit sets us free. The Spirit dwells in us. The Spirit empowers us.

So what does a life transformed by the Spirit look like? The apostle Paul painted the picture for us in his letter to the churches in Galatia: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

Join Pastor Chuck Swindoll in this exploration of each “fruit of the Spirit,” and walk in newness of life!


Every believer experiences a “raging battle” within—a constant struggle between the old nature and the new life in Christ. In this 9-part study of Galatians 5, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores how we can win this internal war by yielding to the Holy Spirit. This series provides a deep dive into the ninefold fruit of the Spirit, showing that a life empowered by God is characterized by a supernatural quality of character that the world cannot duplicate.


Message 1. Winning the Raging Battle within Us (Galatians 5:16–21)

  • Overview: Addresses the “tug-of-war” between the flesh and the Spirit. Chuck explains that the key to victory is not trying harder in our own strength, but “walking by the Spirit” to overcome the desires of the flesh.
  • Key Fact: Victory is a moment-by-moment choice to yield our will to the Spirit’s control.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:16 – “But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh.”

Message 2. What the World Needs Now (Galatians 5:22a)

  • Overview: Explores Love—the first and most foundational fruit. This is not a sentimental feeling, but a self-sacrificial commitment to the well-being of others, modeled by Christ.
  • Key Fact: Biblical love is the “glue” that makes all other spiritual fruit possible.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “But the fruit of the Spirit is love…”

Message 3. Joy! Joy! Joy! (Galatians 5:22b)

  • Overview: Focuses on Joy—a deep-seated sense of well-being that remains steady even when circumstances are difficult.
  • Key Fact: Joy is distinct from happiness; happiness depends on “happenings,” but joy depends on the unchanging character of God.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…joy…”

Message 4. Don’t Miss the Entrance to Peace! (Galatians 5:22c)

  • Overview: Addresses Peace—the internal tranquility that comes from being reconciled with God and trusting in His sovereignty.
  • Key Fact: Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the presence of God in the midst of it.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…peace…”

Message 5. Your Companion in God’s Waiting Room (Galatians 5:22d)

  • Overview: Explores Patience (Long-suffering)—the ability to endure difficult people and circumstances without losing one’s temper or hope.
  • Key Fact: Patience is the “waiting room” of faith; it is developed when we trust God’s timing over our own.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…patience…”

Message 6. Courteous Twins in a Corrupt Culture (Galatians 5:22e)

  • Overview: A study of Kindness and Goodness. These “twins” involve a gentle disposition (kindness) expressed through helpful, moral actions (goodness).
  • Key Fact: In a culture of “outrage,” kindness and goodness are the most powerful ways for a believer to stand out.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…kindness, goodness…”

Message 7. The Bond between Close Friends (Galatians 5:22f)

  • Overview: Focuses on Faithfulness—the quality of being reliable, trustworthy, and steady in one’s commitments to God and others.
  • Key Fact: Faithfulness is the “bond” that sustains long-term relationships and ministry impact.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:22 – “…faithfulness…”

Message 8. Extending Grace Ever So Gently (Galatians 5:23a)

  • Overview: Addresses Gentleness (Meekness). Contrary to cultural definitions, gentleness is not weakness; it is “power under control,” used to restore and comfort others.
  • Key Fact: Gentleness is the spirit in which we should approach those who have fallen or are struggling.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:23 – “gentleness…”

Message 9. When Tapping the Brakes Is Crucial (Galatians 5:23b)

  • Overview: The series concludes with Self-Control—the internal strength provided by the Spirit to master our appetites, emotions, and tongue.
  • Key Fact: Self-control is the “brakes” of the Christian life, preventing our old nature from running off the road.
  • Scripture: Galatians 5:23 – “…self-control; against such things there is no law.”

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Jun 30 2023

Clinging to Hope

All of us are in desperate need of strength to endure and hope to carry on. Life is difficult and demanding. It’s often filled with pain, heartaches, setbacks, and detours.

In Clinging to Hope, Pastor Chuck Swindoll reassures us that we can endure disappointments and even those unexpected calamities. How? By taking our stand on the strong foundation of God’s Word.

When trials and tribulations rumble in like a fleet of bulldozers to demolish our lives, we can emerge from the rubble with a strong resolve to recover and rebuild. Not just to survive, but to thrive!

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Life is often filled with pain, heartaches, and unexpected detours. In this 12-part series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll provides the biblical tools needed to endure and even thrive in the midst of adversity. By anchoring ourselves to the strong foundation of God’s Word, we can face “bulldozing” trials with a resolve to recover and rebuild. This series explores how suffering, when handled well, becomes the very thing that fosters spiritual maturity and deepens our reliance on God’s grace.

Message 1: When Troubles Come and Stay

Message Overview: Some trials are not temporary visitors but long-term residents. This message addresses the unique challenge of “staying” troubles—chronic illnesses, difficult relationships, or ongoing financial strain—and how to maintain a perspective of hope when relief seems far away.

Key Facts:

  • Nature of Trials: Troubles are often uninvited, unexpected, and can be prolonged.
  • The Response: Shifting from asking “Why?” to asking “How can I honor God in this?”
  • Divine Presence: God is as present in the long-term struggle as He is in the sudden miracle.

Scripture References: Psalm 34:17–19; 1 Peter 4:12–13

Message 2: When Suffering Leaves Its Mark

Message Overview: Suffering often leaves “scars”—emotional, physical, or spiritual. This message explores how to process the permanent changes that adversity brings, finding beauty and purpose in the marks of our struggles rather than hiding them in shame.

Key Facts:

  • The Reality of Scars: Life’s battles often leave lasting impacts that change our trajectory.
  • Redemption: God uses our “woundedness” to make us more compassionate and effective ministers to others.
  • Focus: Looking at Christ’s scars as the ultimate proof that God understands our pain.

Scripture References: Galatians 6:17; John 20:24–29

Message 3: When God Heals Body and Soul

Message Overview: This message looks at the multifaceted nature of healing. While we often pray for physical restoration, the Spirit frequently works on the “deeper healing” of the soul, addressing bitterness, guilt, and spiritual brokenness.

Key Facts:

  • Holistic Healing: God is interested in the whole person—mind, body, and spirit.
  • Sovereignty in Healing: Recognizing that God heals in His own way and timing, sometimes physically and sometimes through the gift of sufficient grace.
  • Spiritual Health: A healthy soul can endure a failing body.

Scripture References: Psalm 103:1–5; 3 John 1:2

Message 4: When Unexpected Tests Rattle Our World

Message Overview: Life can change in an instant. This message focuses on the “pop quizzes” of life—sudden crises that test the foundation of our faith—and how to lean on the unchanging nature of God when everything else is shaking.

Key Facts:

  • The Element of Surprise: Tests often come when we feel most secure.
  • The Foundation: A life built on the Word of God is the only one that remains standing after the storm.
  • Stability: Finding our “center of gravity” in the promises of Scripture.

Scripture References: Matthew 7:24–27; James 1:2–4

Message 5: When Calamity Crashes In

Message Overview: Calamity is more than just a trial; it is a overwhelming disaster. This message provides a biblical roadmap for surviving the initial “crash” of tragedy, focusing on immediate reliance on God’s mercy and the support of the Christian community.

Key Facts:

  • Immediate Response: In moments of calamity, we must “run to the Tower” (God’s Name).
  • The Role of Lament: It is biblical and healthy to cry out to God in honest grief.
  • God as Refuge: He is a very present help in times of trouble.

Scripture References: Psalm 46:1–3; Proverbs 18:10

Message 6: When God Gives Grace to Endure

Message Overview: Endurance is not just “gritting your teeth”; it is a supernatural gift. This message explores how God provides the specific strength needed to stay under the weight of a heavy trial without breaking.

Key Facts:

  • Definition of Endurance: Remaining under pressure with a God-honoring attitude.
  • Source of Strength: Grace is not just for salvation; it is for daily sustaining.
  • The Result: Endurance produces character, and character produces hope.

Scripture References: Romans 5:3–5; 2 Corinthians 12:9

Message 7: When the Giants of Life Attack

Message Overview: Using the metaphor of Goliath, this message addresses the intimidating obstacles that seem impossible to overcome. It encourages believers to face their “giants” not with human bravado, but with the confidence that the battle belongs to the Lord.

Key Facts:

  • Intimidation Tactics: Giants seek to paralyze us with fear and doubt.
  • Divine Perspective: Compared to our problems, the giants are huge; compared to God, they are small.
  • The Weaponry: Faith, prayer, and the Word are more effective than any worldly armor.

Scripture References: 1 Samuel 17:45–47; Ephesians 6:10–18

Message 8: When Thorns Rip Our Pride

Message Overview: Sometimes God allows “thorns”—painful, nagging limitations—to keep us humble and dependent. This message teaches how to accept these irritants as tools of divine refinement rather than just nuisances to be removed.

Key Facts:

  • Purpose of the Thorn: To prevent spiritual pride and foster total dependence on God.
  • The Answer to Prayer: Sometimes God says “no” to the removal of the thorn but “yes” to more grace.
  • Power in Weakness: When we are weak, then we are truly strong in Christ.

Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 12:7–10

Message 9: When God’s Discipline Strikes

Message Overview: Discipline is a proof of God’s love, not His rejection. This message distinguishes between punishment and training, showing how a believer can respond to God’s correcting hand with a heart of hope and repentance.

Key Facts:

  • The Motive: God disciplines those He loves as a father does his child.
  • The Goal: To share in His holiness and produce a harvest of righteousness.
  • The Response: Do not despise the discipline or lose heart when rebuked.

Scripture References: Hebrews 12:5–11; Psalm 119:67, 71

Message 10: When Doors Slam Shut

Message Overview: Closed doors can be as frustrating as they are confusing. This message explores how to handle rejection and redirected plans, trusting that God’s “no” is often a redirection to a better “yes” in the future.

Key Facts:

  • Sovereign Redirection: God closes doors to protect us or to lead us to a better path.
  • The Danger of Forcing Doors: Attempting to manipulate circumstances leads to frustration and failure.
  • Trusting the Key-Holder: Jesus holds the keys; what He shuts, no one can open.

Scripture References: Revelation 3:7–8; Acts 16:6–10

Message 11: When Solitude Drives Us Deeper

Message Overview: Adversity often brings seasons of isolation. This message looks at the value of “wilderness experiences,” showing how solitude can become a sanctuary where we hear God’s voice more clearly than in the noise of prosperity.

Key Facts:

  • The Desert School: Many of God’s greatest servants were prepared in solitude (Moses, Elijah, Paul).
  • Depth over Surface: Solitude strips away distractions and forces us to deal with our inner selves.
  • The Intimacy: Finding that God is “enough” when everything else is stripped away.

Scripture References: Matthew 4:1–11; Galatians 1:15–18

Message 12: When Adversity Leads to Humility

Message Overview: The final message in the series focuses on the ultimate fruit of a hopeful heart: humility. True hope doesn’t demand its own way; it humbles itself under the mighty hand of God, trusting that He will exalt us in due time.

Key Facts:

  • The Posture: Humility is the proper response to God’s sovereignty in suffering.
  • The Promise: God gives grace to the humble but opposes the proud.
  • Final Hope: Casting all our anxieties on Him because He cares for us.

Scripture References: 1 Peter 5:6–7; James 4:6, 10

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Apr 30 2023

David: A Man of Passion and Destiny

Shepherd, musician, warrior, poet, patriarch, king . . . talk about a wide-ranging life! But perhaps David’s most telling and astonishing description came from none other than God who said David was a man after His own heart.

Pastor Chuck Swindoll takes a deep look in this 24-part series at the faith journey of King David . . . a journey that proves equally fascinating and instructive for all who walk on the same path of faith today.

David’s life was one of incredible range, spanning from the lonely hills of Bethlehem to the royal palace in Jerusalem. He was a musician who soothed a king, a warrior who toppled a giant, and a poet who articulated the deepest cries of the human soul. Yet, David was also a man of deep passions and significant failures. In this 24-part series, Chuck Swindoll explores the faith journey of the man God chose to lead His people. We see how God takes a “nobody” and refines him through obscurity, cave-dwelling, and even his own moral collapses to fulfill a divine destiny. David’s story proves that God is not looking for perfection, but for a heart that is fully turned toward Him.

Message 1: God’s Heart, God’s Man, God’s Ways

  • Summary: This opening message explores God’s selection of David over King Saul. While the world prizes external stature, God looks at the heart. We learn that God’s ways are surprising, often choosing the obscure to accomplish His greatest work.
  • Key Facts: God values character over credentials; spirituality, humility, and integrity are the traits God seeks.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 16:1–13; 2 Chronicles 16:9; Psalm 78:70–72.

Message 2: A Nobody, Nobody Noticed

  • Summary: Focuses on David’s hidden years in the fields of Bethlehem. Even though his own family overlooked him, God was using solitude and monotony to build the inner strength necessary for his future crown.
  • Key Facts: Success in significant roles begins with faithfulness in small, uncelebrated tasks.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 16:1–13; Psalm 139:1–6.

Message 3: Soft Music for a Hard Heart

  • Summary: David’s skill as a musician brings him into the court of King Saul. This message explores the therapeutic value of music and how David served a predecessor who was becoming increasingly unstable.
  • Key Facts: David used his talents to serve, even in difficult environments, showing a servant’s heart.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 16:14–23.

Message 4: David and the Dwarf

  • Summary: Goliath was a giant to the army, but a “dwarf” to David because David viewed him through the lens of God’s greatness. This message highlights the source of giant-killing confidence: the name of the Lord.
  • Key Facts: Giants lose their power when we stop focusing on our limitations and start focusing on God’s omnipotence.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 17:1–54; Psalm 27:1–3.

Message 5: Aftermath of a Giant-Killing

  • Summary: Great victories are often followed by great tests. Following the defeat of Goliath, David enters a season of sudden fame and the beginning of his deep, godly friendship with Jonathan.
  • Key Facts: Success is a greater test of character than failure; godly friendships are essential for surviving the “darkness” of success.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 17:55–18:9.

Message 6: Every Crutch Removed

  • Summary: As Saul’s jealousy turns lethal, David is forced to flee. One by one, God removes David’s “crutches”—his job, his wife, and his mentor—forcing him into total dependence on the Lord.
  • Key Facts: God sometimes brings us to nothing to reroute our lives; being stripped of substitutes for God is painful but necessary for growth.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 18–21.

Message 7: For Cave Dwellers Only

  • Summary: Hiding in the Cave of Adullam, David finds himself leading a band of broken men. This message explores how God does His deepest work in the dark, restricted places of our lives.
  • Key Facts: The “cave” experience is designed to turn our declarations of independence into declarations of dependence on God.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 22:1–2; Psalms 34, 57, 142.

Message 8: Life’s Most Subtle Temptation

  • Summary: In the caves of En Gedi, David has the chance to kill Saul but refuses. He identifies the “subtle temptation” as taking personal revenge rather than waiting on God’s timing.
  • Key Facts: Vengeance belongs to God; true character is shown when we refuse to “fight in the flesh” even when an enemy is vulnerable.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 24; Romans 12:17–19.

Message 9: What to Feed an Angry Man

  • Summary: David loses his temper when a foolish man named Nabal insults him. Wise Abigail intervenes, teaching David (and us) how to handle conflict with restraint and wisdom.
  • Key Facts: Anger can be “temporary insanity”; waiting on God is often the most effective way to resolve impossible conflicts.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 25.

Message 10: Cloudy Days . . . Dark Nights

  • Summary: Discouraged by the constant pursuit, David lapses into a “dark night” of faith and moves into enemy Philistine territory. This message warns against making horizontal decisions based on fear rather than vertical trust.
  • Key Facts: Even believers can operate in the “flesh” when they lose their vertical focus; displacement and deception are signs of a wandering heart.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 27:1–30:6.

Message 11: Two Deaths . . . A Study in Contrast

  • Summary: Saul’s tragic suicide on Mount Gilboa is contrasted with the sacrificial death of Jesus Christ. It marks the end of a reign of failure and the beginning of a new era for Israel.
  • Key Facts: Saul “played the fool” by neglecting God; his death illustrates that a life without God ends in isolation and despair.
  • Scripture: 1 Samuel 31; 1 Samuel 26:21.

Message 12: New King, New Throne, Same Lord

  • Summary: David is finally anointed King over all Israel. This message examines the responsibilities of promotion and how David sought to maintain his devotion to God while holding the highest office.
  • Key Facts: Promotion from a fugitive to a king requires a heart that remains anchored in the same Lord who was with the shepherd.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 5; Selected Scriptures.

Message 13: David and the Ark

  • Summary: David attempts to bring the Ark of the Covenant to Jerusalem but does a “right thing in a wrong way,” leading to Uzzah’s death. He eventually learns that God cares about the details of obedience.
  • Key Facts: Pragmatism and expediency do not excuse us from following God’s specific precepts; true worship brings freedom, while pride brings bondage.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 6; 1 Chronicles 15.

Message 14: When God Says No

  • Summary: David desires to build a temple for God, but God denies the request, choosing Solomon for the task instead. This message teaches how to handle redirection without bitterness.
  • Key Facts: A “No” from God is not a rejection; it is often a redirection to a better plan or for a different generation.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 7; 1 Chronicles 17; 2 Chronicles 6:7–9.

Message 15: Grace in a Barren Place

  • Summary: David seeks out Mephibosheth, the crippled grandson of Saul, to show him kindness. This is hailed as the greatest illustration of grace in the Old Testament.
  • Key Facts: Grace is positive acceptance in spite of the person; it seeks out the unworthy and seats them at the King’s table.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 9; 2 Samuel 4:4.

Message 16: The Case of the Open Window Shade

  • Summary: At the height of his power, David falls into sin with Bathsheba. This message examines the “slippery slope” of compromise that starts with idleness and leads to moral collapse.
  • Key Facts: Success can lead to spiritual blind spots; idleness is often the breeding ground for temptation.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 11.

Message 17: Confrontation!

  • Summary: For a year, David hides his sin until Nathan the prophet confronts him. This message highlights the beauty of repentance and the courage required to speak truth to power.
  • Key Facts: God loves us too much to let us stay in our sin; repentance involves a total change of mind and direction.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 12:1–14; Psalm 51.

Message 18: Trouble at Home

  • Summary: Though forgiven, David must face the consequences of his sin within his own family. The “sword” enters his house through the rebellion of his children.
  • Key Facts: Forgiveness heals the relationship with God but does not always remove the earthly fallout of our choices.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 12–18; Galatians 6:7.

Message 19: Riding Out the Storm

  • Summary: David navigates the death of his child and the breakdown of his household. This message offers a model for recovery: pray intensely, face reality, and claim biblical truth.
  • Key Facts: “Riding out the storm” is a humbling but temporary experience; God’s grace provides the strength to keep moving forward.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 12:15–25; Hosea 8:7.

Message 20: Friends in Need

  • Summary: During Absalom’s rebellion, David is forced into exile and relies on the loyalty of unexpected friends. It highlights the value of those who stand by us in our lowest moments.
  • Key Facts: God provides “friends in need” to help carry the burden of consequence and offer emotional refuge.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 15–17; Selected Psalms.

Message 21: Being Big Enough to Forgive

  • Summary: David encounters Shimei, who curses him, yet David refuses to retaliate. This message explores the discipline of total forgiveness and breaking the cycle of revenge.
  • Key Facts: Unforgiveness leads to a “downward plunge” into resentment and hatred; big people are the ones who release debts.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 16:5–13; 2 Samuel 19:15–23.

Message 22: A Song of Triumph

  • Summary: Near the end of his life, David pens a magnificent song of praise. Despite his failures and sorrows, he focuses on God as his rock, fortress, and deliverer.
  • Key Facts: Spiritual strength is often most visible when physical strength is removed; God is our only true security.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 22; Psalm 18.

Message 23: When the Godly Are Foolish

  • Summary: In a late-life lapse of judgment, David numbers the people out of pride. The resulting plague teaches the dangers of unaccountability and the cost of “stat-driven” security.
  • Key Facts: Christians never mature beyond the need for the Holy Spirit; an unaccountable life is a dangerous life.
  • Scripture: 2 Samuel 24; 1 Chronicles 21.

Message 24: The End of an Era

  • Summary: The series concludes with David passing the torch to Solomon. David’s legacy is defined not by perfection, but by a persistent pursuit of God’s heart until the very end.
  • Key Facts: Finishing well isn’t about a perfect track record; it’s about serving God’s purpose in your own generation.
  • Scripture: 1 Chronicles 28–29; Acts 13:36.

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Dec 31 2022

Walking with Integrity in Times of Adversity

One essential ingredient . . . which is especially overlooked in our day but is required all day each day for those who want to live a godly life in Jesus Christ . . . is a heart integrity.

In this brand-new series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll examines 12 inspiring examples of integrity in the lives of biblical characters. Each one offers special insight to help us uphold this essential ingredient while navigating times of adversity.

Discover the integrity of enduring obedience, moral purity, a bold vision, true humility, finishing well, and much more.

Integrity is an essential ingredient for a godly life, yet it is often ignored or compromised in our modern world. In this series, Chuck Swindoll explores twelve inspiring examples of men and women from Scripture who refused to sacrifice their honor, even when facing significant adversity. From the quiet strength of enduring obedience to the boldness of moral purity and courageous confrontation, these messages provide a blueprint for upholding a heart of integrity. Discover how to navigate life’s most difficult seasons without losing the character that defines a faithful follower of Christ.

Message 1: The Essential Ingredient for a Godly Life

Message Overview: In this introductory message, the focus is on God’s search for a leader whose heart is aligned with His. While humans look at outward appearance, God prioritizes the internal quality of integrity. David’s “essential ingredient” was a heart completely devoted to God, even while performing the mundane tasks of a shepherd.

Key Facts:

  • The Setting: God rejects Saul as king and sends Samuel to Bethlehem.
  • The Principle: Integrity is what you are when no one is looking.
  • The Outcome: David is anointed king in private long before he wears the crown in public.

Scripture References: 1 Samuel 16:1–13

Message 2: The Integrity of Enduring Obedience

Message Overview: David demonstrates that integrity often requires serving in difficult or “lesser” roles before assuming leadership. Despite being the anointed king, David humbles himself to serve as Saul’s musician, proving his obedience to God’s timing rather than his own ambition.

Key Facts:

  • Contrast: Saul is plagued by an evil spirit; David is filled with the Holy Spirit.
  • Character Trait: Obedience is measured by how we treat those currently in authority over us.
  • Key Lesson: Promotion comes from God, not through self-manipulation.

Scripture References: 1 Samuel 16:14–23

Message 3: The Integrity of Moral Purity

Message Overview: While often viewed as a story of physical bravery, the battle with Goliath is a testament to David’s moral and spiritual integrity. He refuses the king’s armor, choosing to rely on the proven power of God. His purity of motive—vindicating God’s name—is what leads to victory.

Key Facts:

  • The Conflict: Goliath defies the armies of the living God for forty days.
  • The Tool: Five smooth stones and a sling, representing faith over conventional weapons.
  • Core Truth: Integrity provides the courage to face giants that terrify others.

Scripture References: 1 Samuel 17:1–58

Message 4: The Integrity of a Wise Wife

Message Overview: Abigail is introduced as a woman of profound character married to a “fool” (Nabal). Her integrity shines through her proactive intervention to prevent David from committing a rash act of vengeance. She demonstrates how wisdom can override adversity in a difficult marriage.

Key Facts:

  • Character Study: Abigail is described as intelligent and beautiful; Nabal as surly and mean.
  • The Action: Abigail prepares a peace offering without her husband’s knowledge to save her household.
  • The Role: A wise wife can be a “restraining grace” for others.

Scripture References: 1 Samuel 25:1–35

Message 5: The Integrity of a Loyal Husband

Message Overview: This message examines the complexities of David’s relationships and the biblical standard for loyalty. It contrasts the political maneuvering of the day with the spiritual necessity of a husband’s devotion and leadership within his home.

Key Facts:

  • The Struggle: David’s early years were marked by multiple wives and political marriages.
  • The Requirement: True integrity in a husband involves spiritual protection and emotional loyalty.
  • Focus: Navigating family friction with a commitment to God’s design.

Scripture References: 2 Samuel 3:12–16; 6:16–23

Message 6: The Integrity of a Courageous Confrontation

Message Overview: Integrity is not just about avoiding sin, but how one handles the confrontation of sin. This message looks at Nathan the prophet’s courage in rebuking King David and David’s subsequent brokenness and repentance.

Key Facts:

  • The Parable: Nathan uses the story of the ewe lamb to mirror David’s sin with Bathsheba.
  • The Turning Point: David’s confession: “I have sinned against the Lord.”
  • The Lesson: Real integrity owns up to failure immediately and completely.

Scripture References: 2 Samuel 12:1–15

Message 7: The Integrity of a Bold Vision

Message Overview: David expresses a desire to build a house for God, but God tells him “no.” David’s integrity is seen in his response to this redirection. He accepts God’s better plan—an eternal covenant—showing that bold vision must always be surrendered to God’s sovereignty.

Key Facts:

  • The Davidic Covenant: God promises David a kingdom that will last forever (pointing to Christ).
  • The Prayer: David responds with a prayer of profound humility and gratitude.
  • Vision Principle: Integrity means being more in love with the Giver than the dream.

Scripture References: 2 Samuel 7:1–29

Message 8: The Integrity of Waiting . . . Not Worrying

Message Overview: David had multiple opportunities to kill Saul and take the throne by force, but he waited on God. This message explores the “integrity of the wait,” teaching believers how to trust God’s timing when being treated unfairly.

Key Facts:

  • The Cave: David cuts a corner of Saul’s robe but refuses to “stretch out his hand” against the Lord’s anointed.
  • The Discipline: Waiting is not passive; it is an active exercise of faith.
  • Key Phrase: “Trust in the Lord and do good.”

Scripture References: Psalm 37; 1 Samuel 24:1–22

Message 9: The Integrity of True Humility

Message Overview: When David’s son Absalom rebels, David leaves Jerusalem in humility rather than fighting for his rights. He even accepts the curses of Shimei, trusting that if God intends to restore him, He will.

Key Facts:

  • The Crisis: Absalom steals the hearts of the men of Israel.
  • The Response: David refuses to use the Ark of the Covenant as a “good luck charm.”
  • The Definition: Humility is recognizing that God is the final judge of our circumstances.

Scripture References: 2 Samuel 15:1–37; 16:5–14

Message 10: The Integrity of Righteous Resistance

Message Overview: Integrity sometimes requires saying “no” to those in power. Using the principles seen in David’s life and other biblical examples, this message outlines how to resist evil without becoming evil yourself.

Key Facts:

  • The Standard: Resistance must be based on biblical conviction, not personal preference.
  • The Manner: Righteous resistance is done with respect and a willingness to accept the consequences.
  • Outcome: God is glorified when His people stand firm under pressure.

Scripture References: Daniel 3:1–30; 1 Samuel 24:1–22

Message 11: The Integrity of Pressing On

Message Overview: At Ziklag, David faces total loss—his city is burned and his family taken. His own men speak of stoning him. David’s integrity is found in how he “strengthened himself in the Lord” and pressed on to recover all that was lost.

Key Facts:

  • The Low Point: David and his men wept until they had no more power to weep.
  • The Turnaround: David asked for the ephod to seek God’s direction.
  • The Victory: Persistence rooted in God leads to restoration.

Scripture References: 1 Samuel 30:1–20

Message 12: The Integrity of Finishing Well

Message Overview: In his final days, David prepares his son Solomon for the future. He doesn’t fade away in bitterness but spends his last strength ensuring the next generation is equipped to love God. Finishing well is the ultimate proof of a life of integrity.

Key Facts:

  • The Legacy: David provides the plans and resources for the Temple he would never see.
  • The Charge: “Be strong and courageous, and do the work.”
  • Conclusion: A life of integrity is a long obedience in the same direction.

Scripture References: 1 Chronicles 28:1–21; 29:1–22

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Jun 30 2021

Epochal Events Nobody Expected

Have you ever faced a trial that was so surprising, unprecedented, and intense that you had no idea how God would take you through . . . but He did? Such severe trials don’t happen every day, thankfully. But they are exceedingly significant, epochal, we might say, because they reveal God’s power in ways we otherwise would not have seen.

In this series, Chuck Swindoll examines epochal events in the lives of Abraham, Joseph, David, and Elijah. Each event included an extreme test that stretched the person’s faith and then culminated in an epochal moment—a saving act of God designed to inspire us to trust Him during our own seemingly impossible circumstances.

Message 1: An Aging Father and His Son

  • Overview: This message explores the ultimate test of faith faced by Abraham when God commanded him to sacrifice his long-awaited heir, Isaac. It examines the tension between God’s promises and His commands, highlighting Abraham’s unwavering obedience and God’s timely intervention.
  • Key Facts:
    • Abraham waited 25 years for the birth of Isaac.
    • The event took place on Mount Moriah.
    • The “epochal” moment occurred when God provided a ram as a substitute, foreshadowing the sacrifice of Christ.
  • Scripture Reference: Genesis 22:1–14

Message 2: An Abused Man and His Brothers

  • Overview: Chuck Swindoll delves into the life of Joseph, focusing on the traumatic betrayal by his brothers and his subsequent years of suffering and imprisonment in Egypt. The message highlights how God uses unexpected and painful events to position His servants for a greater purpose.
  • Key Facts:
    • Joseph was sold into slavery by his own siblings and later falsely accused by Potiphar’s wife.
    • Despite years of obscurity, Joseph rose to become second-in-command of Egypt.
    • The series emphasizes that what man intended for evil, God intended for good to save many lives.
  • Scripture Reference: Genesis 37; Genesis 50:15–21

Message 3: A Brave Teenager and a Giant

  • Overview: This summary covers the iconic confrontation between the young shepherd David and the Philistine champion, Goliath. It focuses on the internal faith that allowed a teenager to face a physical threat that terrified an entire army, proving that the battle belongs to the Lord.
  • Key Facts:
    • Goliath stood over nine feet tall and defied the armies of Israel for 40 days.
    • David refused King Saul’s armor, choosing instead five smooth stones and his sling.
    • This epochal victory shifted the trajectory of David’s life from a shepherd boy to a national hero and future king.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 Samuel 17:1–51

Message 4: A Sad Prophet and a Bad Queen

  • Overview: This message looks at the intense spiritual and emotional exhaustion of the prophet Elijah. Following his great victory at Mount Carmel, Elijah fled in fear from the threats of Queen Jezebel, falling into a deep state of depression and isolation.
  • Key Facts:
    • Queen Jezebel vowed to kill Elijah, prompting him to flee to the wilderness of Beersheba.
    • Elijah experienced “burnout” and requested that he might die.
    • God met Elijah not in the wind, earthquake, or fire, but in a “gentle whisper,” providing him with rest, food, and a new commission.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 Kings 19:1–18

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Aug 31 2018

Things to Stop and Start

Many of us spend our days saying, “I don’t have enough time!” Meanwhile, our cluttered closet stays cluttered, the thought of our estranged family member still stirs up resentment in our heart, and our time with God remains on the back burner.

Is it really true that we don’t have enough time? Or do we just need help prioritizing what truly matters?

Join Chuck Swindoll for this vital message series and learn:

  • Why to say no to procrastination, blaming, drifting, and other negative traits
  • How to say yes to following through, forgiving, digging into our faith, and more

Let’s start making the most of the time God has given us.


We often complain about not having enough time, yet we allow our lives to be cluttered with habits and attitudes that drain our spiritual energy. In this series, Chuck Swindoll challenges us to take an honest inventory of our lives. Following the biblical principle of “putting off” the old and “putting on” the new, we examine the practical shifts necessary for spiritual maturity. From stopping the blame game to starting a life of vulnerability, these messages offer a roadmap for making the most of the time God has given us.


Message 1: Stop Drifting Along and Start Digging In

Sermon Summary Getting older happens automatically, but growing up spiritually requires intentionality. Too many believers find themselves years into their faith but still shallow in their understanding of God’s Word. This message explores how to stop the passive drift of “easy” Christianity and start the disciplined work of digging deep into the scriptures.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Intentional Growth: Why spiritual maturity is never accidental.
  • The Danger of Shallow Faith: Moving beyond basic knowledge to a life-changing understanding of God.

Primary Scripture References

  • Hebrews 5:11–6:1: The call to move past the elementary teachings and go on to maturity.
  • 2 Peter 3:18: The command to grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord.

Message 2: Stop Procrastinating and Start Following Through

Sermon Summary Procrastination is often a mask for fear or a lack of discipline. It leaves us with a life full of “half-finished” projects and unkept promises to God. Chuck provides biblical motivation for honoring our commitments and the spiritual benefits of consistent follow-through.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Cost of Delay: How putting things off hinders our witness and spiritual effectiveness.
  • Faithful Stewardship: Treating our time and tasks as a sacred trust from God.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Ecclesiastes 5:4–5: The importance of fulfilling the vows we make to God.

Message 3: Stop Shaming and Start Honoring

Sermon Summary Shame is a destructive tool that isolates and devalues people. In contrast, the biblical call is to honor one another. This message looks at how we can stop using shame as a weapon—whether against ourselves or others—and start reflecting the dignity that God places on every human being.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Grace Alternative: Moving from a culture of condemnation to one of restoration.
  • Building Up vs. Tearing Down: The power of our words to reflect God’s heart.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Romans 12:10: The command to “outdo one another in showing honor.”

Message 4: Stop Blaming and Start Forgiving

Sermon Summary Blame is the enemy of growth because it refuses to take responsibility. By shifting the focus to others’ faults, we remain stuck in bitterness. Chuck explores how to break the cycle of blame by embracing the radical, freeing power of forgiveness—both for ourselves and those who have wronged us.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Ownership: The necessity of taking responsibility for our own reactions and choices.
  • The Freedom of Forgiveness: Why letting go of the “debt” is the only path to healing.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Colossians 3:13: Bearing with one another and forgiving as the Lord forgave us.

Message 5: Stop Worrying and Start Trusting

Sermon Summary Worry is a heavy burden that God never intended us to carry. It assumes that God is not in control or not concerned. This message contrasts the paralysis of anxiety with the peace that comes from actively trusting in the character and promises of our Heavenly Father.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Anxiety vs. Assurance: Shifting focus from our problems to God’s power.
  • Daily Dependence: The practice of “casting cares” on the One who cares for us.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • 1 Peter 5:7: Casting all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you.

Message 6: Stop Resisting and Start Submitting

Sermon Summary Our natural inclination is to fight for our own way, often resisting God’s leading and authority. Chuck examines the beauty and strength found in submission—recognizing that when we stop resisting God’s plan, we find the very protection and guidance we’ve been seeking.

Key Facts & Themes

  • The Strength of Surrender: Why submission is a sign of spiritual power, not weakness.
  • Trusting Authority: Finding peace in God’s sovereign direction for our lives.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • James 4:7: “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

Message 7: Stop Acting Perfect and Start Being Vulnerable

Sermon Summary Many Christians feel the pressure to “have it all together,” which leads to hypocrisy and isolation. This message encourages us to drop the mask of perfection. When we are honest about our struggles and weaknesses, we create space for God’s power to work and for genuine community to flourish.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Authenticity: The spiritual relief of being real about our needs.
  • Grace in Weakness: How vulnerability invites God’s strength into our lives.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • 2 Corinthians 12:9: God’s power is made perfect in our weakness.

Message 8: Stop Lying and Start Acknowledging

Sermon Summary Deception, even in “small” ways, erodes character and destroys trust. Chuck addresses the importance of total honesty, starting with acknowledging the truth about our own hearts before God. This message is a call to live a life of integrity where our outside matches our inside.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Integrity: The foundational role of truth in the life of a believer.
  • The Power of Confession: The healing that comes from bringing truth into the light.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Proverbs 28:13: “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.”

Message 9: Stop Criticizing Earth and Start Contemplating Heaven

Sermon Summary It is easy to become cynical and hyper-critical of the world around us. In this series finale, Chuck encourages us to lift our gaze. By focusing on the reality and beauty of our eternal home, we find the perspective and hope needed to live faithfully and joyfully in the present.

Key Facts & Themes

  • Eternal Perspective: How the hope of Heaven changes our priorities on Earth.
  • Joyful Endurance: Moving from a critical spirit to a heart filled with anticipation.

Primary Scripture Reference

  • Colossians 3:1–2: Setting our minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.

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Apr 30 2018

Wise Counsel for Troubled Times

Charting a course through the stormy, uncertain seas of our lives can be difficult. It’s impossible without a reliable compass, an accurate set of maps, and some sturdy examples of faith and courage.

In this series, Chuck Swindoll introduces you to many of these courageous and stronghearted individuals. With each message, Chuck invites you to look closely into their lives and discover how to carefully apply to your life what they learned about overcoming challenges. As you fasten yourself to the mainstay of God’s Word, you, too, will stay upright through whatever storms come your way.

Message 1: Sustaining Enthusiasm

Sermon Overview The longer a believer spends engaged in church activities and spiritual routines, the more they are stalked by a dangerous, invisible thief: overexposure. Charles R. Swindoll warns that becoming overly familiar with spiritual truth can lead to boredom, monotony, and a cynical loss of awe for God. Using the ancient Israelites in 1 Corinthians 10 as a warning, he shows how an entire generation experienced daily miracles like manna and the parting of the sea, yet died in the wilderness because they became jaded and craved evil things. Turning to Joshua 1, Swindoll outlines God’s four directives for sustaining enthusiasm: be strong and courageous within, carefully obey all instructions without deviating, continually study and meditate on the Word, and remember that God is always with you.

Key Facts

  • The Danger of Overexposure: Without intentional effort, believers and ministry leaders can easily lose their excitement for the glory of God, reducing the Bible to a mere manual and ministry to a joyless obligation.
  • A Tragic Warning: The Israelites were all guided by the cloud, baptized into Moses, and fed spiritual food, yet God was not pleased with most of them because they lost their enthusiasm and turned to idolatry and grumbling.
  • Nothing Great Without Enthusiasm: Quoting Ralph Waldo Emerson, Swindoll emphasizes that enthusiasm is essential for achieving anything great; believers must give their all and leave the final results to God.

Scripture References

  • Joshua 1:1–9
  • 1 Corinthians 10:1–11

Message 2: Overcoming Failure

Sermon Overview Two of the most difficult words a person can say are “I failed”. Whether in a marriage, an academic course, a business, or ministry, failure brings immense shame and self-disappointment. Swindoll looks at the agonizing failure of the Apostle Peter, who boldly boasted he would die for Jesus, only to deny even knowing Him three times just hours later under the pressure of a hostile courtyard. When the rooster crowed and Jesus looked at him, Peter left weeping bitterly, completely crushed by his actions. However, Swindoll provides profound hope by tracing Peter’s restoration at the Sea of Galilee, proving that failure need not disable a believer forever.

Key Facts

  • Satan’s Sifting: Satan relentlessly plans for a believer’s failure, actively looking to “sift” them like wheat by targeting their unique weaknesses.
  • The Danger of Smugness: Believers must never arrogantly say “never” to sin; pride goes before destruction, and everyone is only one stumble away from a fall.
  • Signs of Recovery: True recovery from failure involves a sudden jolt of awareness, a heartbreaking rush of anguish and tears, a quiet acknowledgment of God’s full forgiveness, and a sensitive realization of renewed purpose.

Scripture References

  • Luke 22:31–34, 54–62
  • Mark 16:5–7
  • John 21:1–17
  • 1 Corinthians 10:6–12

Message 3: Never Quitting

Sermon Overview Living in a post-Christian culture requires enormous determination, because society will constantly urge believers to back off, compromise, and fall in line. In his final letter from a dark Roman dungeon, the Apostle Paul issues a passionate charge to his young protégé, Timothy, to never quit. Paul accurately describes the “last days” as savage and menacing times filled with people who love themselves and reject the truth. In response, Paul commands Timothy to stand firm and faithfully preach the Word of God, correcting and rebuking without apology. Swindoll emphasizes that faithful biblical exposition is the necessary “strong medicine” for a sick society, warning against churches that substitute truth for “warm and fuzzy” entertainment.

Key Facts

  • Savage Times: The Greek word for “difficult” times in 2 Timothy 3:1 was used to describe fierce, wild animals and raging storms, perfectly depicting the menacing, depraved culture believers face today.
  • The Pastoral Job Description: Pastors are strictly commanded to preach the word, be prepared in all seasons, correct, rebuke, and encourage their congregations with immense patience.
  • No Retirement from Life: Though society encourages people to “retire” and withdraw in their later years, believers are called to stay engaged and run the race fully until the very end.

Scripture References

  • 2 Timothy 3:1–5, 10–14
  • 2 Timothy 4:1–5
  • 2 Corinthians 11:23–28

Message 4: Thinking Biblically

Sermon Overview The Christian life is not a playground; it is a battleground where the primary fight is over the control of the mind. Swindoll explains that if the enemy can seize how a person thinks, he can dictate how they live. Using Romans 12, the message challenges believers to stop copying the behaviors, customs, and politically correct molds of the modern world. Instead, Christians must allow God’s Word to radically transform their thinking. To illustrate this, Swindoll highlights the heroic life of King Josiah. Despite inheriting a dark, idolatrous nation, Josiah sought the Lord as a teenager, purged the nation of idols, and led a massive spiritual reformation the moment he heard the newly discovered Book of the Law read aloud.

Key Facts

  • The World’s Mold: The “world” (or age) consists of the floating mass of opinions, speculations, and immoral atmospheres that constantly attempt to squeeze believers into conformity.
  • A Tender Heart: Unlike his wicked father and grandfather, Josiah cultivated a tender heart; when he finally heard the Scriptures at age 26, he tore his clothes in despair over the nation’s failure and immediately instituted change.
  • How to Proceed: Learning to think biblically requires maintaining an open Bible daily, cultivating a tender heart that invites truth to impact daily decisions, and possessing a willingness to actually change and break ungodly traditions.

Scripture References

  • Romans 12:1–2
  • 2 Corinthians 10:3–5
  • 2 Chronicles 34:1–33
  • 2 Kings 22:1

Message 5: Demonstrating Wisdom

Sermon Overview Rash reactions driven by anger and emotion never lead to anything good, often leaving a trail of regret and destruction. Swindoll unpacks a tense, dramatic narrative from 1 Samuel 25 involving David, a wealthy fool named Nabal, and Nabal’s sensible wife, Abigail. When Nabal selfishly insults David’s men, David loses his temper and straps on his sword, intending to slaughter Nabal’s entire household. Disaster is averted only by the swift, tactical wisdom of Abigail, who intercepts David with a generous peace offering and a brilliant, calming speech. Her wisdom stops David from ruining his future legacy with an act of murderous revenge.

Key Facts

  • The Folly of Insensitivity: Nabal, whose name literally means “fool,” represents the insensitive, ill-tempered spouse whose selfish actions bring unnecessary danger and heartache to their entire family.
  • Wisdom in Action: Rather than arguing with her foolish husband, Abigail wasted no time; she gathered provisions, rode out to meet an angry David, and humbly took the blame to de-escalate the crisis.
  • Intrinsic Motivation: Abigail wisely appealed to David’s long-term calling, reminding him that God would soon make him king and he did not want the permanent stain of needless bloodshed on his conscience.

Scripture References

  • 1 Samuel 25:1–42
  • Proverbs 16:7

Message 6: Taking Responsibility

Sermon Overview One of the most damaging concepts in modern Christianity is the false division between “secular” and “sacred” work. Swindoll dismantles this dichotomy by looking at the versatile life of Nehemiah. God is the creator and owner of all things, meaning every legitimate occupation is a sacred, God-given calling. Nehemiah faithfully wore three distinct hats for God’s glory: a servant’s hat as the trusted cupbearer to the Persian King, a hard hat as the construction supervisor who miraculously rebuilt Jerusalem’s walls in 52 days, and a politician’s hat as the governor who reformed the city’s corruption. Believers are challenged to be “all there” and live their specific occupational callings to the hilt.

Key Facts

  • The Role of the Cupbearer: Nehemiah began as an officer who tasted the king’s wine to prevent assassination, a position of massive influence, trust, and intimacy with the most powerful ruler in the world.
  • No Secular Jobs: Whether a person is a banker, pilot, teacher, or homemaker, they are a representative of the Lord Jesus Christ; their daily work is a spiritual assignment meant to be done willingly for God.
  • Intrinsic Motivation: Nehemiah was not driven by money, personal glory, or public applause; he was driven by the deep internal conviction that the gracious hand of God was upon him to accomplish the task.

Scripture References

  • Nehemiah 1:1–4
  • Nehemiah 2:1–18
  • Nehemiah 6:15
  • Nehemiah 8:9
  • Colossians 3:17, 23

Message 7: Standing Alone

Sermon Overview It is incredibly easy to feel insignificant in a crowded, busy world, but God’s historical plans consistently hinge on the power of one individual. Exploring the dramatic story of Queen Esther, Swindoll highlights the ultimate test of character: standing alone when no one else can do what you are positioned to do. When a Hitler-like official named Haman passes an irrevocable decree to slaughter every Jew in Persia, Esther is safely hidden in the royal palace. However, her cousin Mordecai challenges her to realize she may have been made queen for “such a time as this”. Risking her own execution, Esther bravely steps out of the safe harbor of theory to break the law and plead for her people’s survival.

Key Facts

  • A Book Without God’s Name: Esther is the only book in the Bible where God’s name is completely absent, yet His sovereign, invisible hand of providence is clearly seen orchestrating every detail.
  • “Such a Time as This”: Mordecai warned Esther that her palace walls would not save her, urging her to recognize that her entire life trajectory was likely designed by God for this exact heroic moment.
  • The Courage to Act: Esther requested three days of fasting from her people before delivering her famous resolution: “I will go in to see the king. If I must die, I must die”.

Scripture References

  • Esther 3:8–13
  • Esther 4:1–17

Message 8: Respecting Authority

Sermon Overview In a modern era dominated by an arrogant spirit of entitlement, society constantly urges people to question and rebel against authority. Swindoll delivers strong, counter-cultural advice: believers are called to humbly respect authority, even when those in charge are unfair. Looking at the life of David, the message traces his years as a fugitive fleeing from the insanely jealous, murderous King Saul. Even when David found Saul completely vulnerable in a cave at En-gedi, David refused to draw his sword, stating he would never harm the Lord’s anointed. David’s profound restraint illustrates that believers must refuse to fight in the flesh and leave all vengeance to the righteous anger of God.

Key Facts

  • The Burden of Jealousy: Though David was a loyal, successful teenage military commander, King Saul was so intimidated by David’s popularity that he became obsessed with murdering him.
  • Sparing the Enemy: Urged by his men to kill Saul in the cave, David only cut off a piece of Saul’s robe, and his conscience immediately bothered him for even showing that minor disrespect to the king.
  • Vengeance Belongs to God: The biblical mandate is to never take personal revenge; believers are commanded to leave room for God’s justice and to overcome evil by doing good to their enemies.

Scripture References

  • 1 Samuel 24:1–22
  • Romans 12:19–21
  • Romans 13:1–5
  • Proverbs 16:7

Message 9: Cultivating Humility

Sermon Overview True humility is a desperately rare commodity in a world driven by ego, resume-building, and self-promotion. Swindoll identifies John the Baptist as the ultimate biblical model of an authentic, humble leader. Though John was a sensation who drew massive crowds to the Judean wilderness, he never manipulated his authority or sought the spotlight. When people asked if he was the Messiah, he bluntly said “no,” identifying himself merely as a voice preparing the way for Christ. As Jesus’s ministry grew and John’s disciples began leaving him, John rejoiced like a best man at a wedding, establishing the ultimate life motto for every believer: “He must increase, I must decrease”.

Key Facts

  • Acting “Medium”: Humility is not denying your gifts or walking around acting worthless (false humility); it is simply not calling attention to yourself, a concept Swindoll summarizes as choosing to “act medium”.
  • A Contented Witness: John performed no miracles and wore bizarre clothing, yet he perfectly fulfilled his calling to be the “lamp” pointing people to the true “Light” of the world.
  • The Cure for Envy: Envy thrives in the church and corporate world, but true humility finds genuine joy in the success and promotion of others, happily stepping into the shadows so God gets the glory.

Scripture References

  • John 1:6–8, 19–37
  • John 3:25–30
  • Matthew 11:11

Message 10: Studying Hard

Sermon Overview Ignorance of the Bible breeds superstition, fear, and instability; conversely, digging deeply into the Scriptures produces immense joy, peace, and spiritual strength. Following 70 years of exile in Babylon, the Jewish people returned to Jerusalem severely disconnected from their spiritual heritage. Swindoll focuses on Ezra, a scribe and priest who devoted his life to carefully studying, obeying, and teaching the Word of God. In Nehemiah 8, Ezra stands on a wooden platform at the Water Gate and reads the scroll from morning until noon. Because Ezra and the Levites clearly explained the meaning of the text, the people finally understood God’s truth, resulting in a magnificent celebration and national revival.

Key Facts

  • Three Return Companies: The Jews returned from Babylon in three waves: Zerubbabel returned to rebuild the temple, Ezra returned to reestablish the worship and the Law, and Nehemiah returned to rebuild the city wall.
  • Ezra’s Determination: Ezra’s profound success was rooted in a conscious, disciplined decision to study the Scriptures, apply them to his own life, and accurately teach them to a generation that had forgotten them.
  • The Blueprint for Exposition: True biblical preaching involves reading the literal text of the Bible, clearly explaining its meaning, and helping the congregation understand how to practically apply it to their lives.

Scripture References

  • Ezra 7:1–10
  • Nehemiah 8:1–14
  • 2 Chronicles 36:14–20

Message 11: Modeling Integrity

Sermon Overview Integrity is an essential character quality defined as wholeness, soundness, and being entirely the same in private as you are in public. Swindoll looks at the life of Daniel, an eighty-year-old statesman who maintained a flawless record of integrity through several corrupt Babylonian and Persian regimes. When King Darius planned to promote Daniel to oversee the entire empire, jealous officials tried to find dirt on him but found absolutely nothing. Consequently, they manipulated the king into signing an irrevocable law making prayer illegal. Unfazed, Daniel went home and prayed to God just as he always had, fully accepting the terrifying consequence of the lions’ den.

Key Facts

  • Authenticity, Not Perfection: Being a person of integrity does not mean a person never sins; rather, it means they are completely authentic, quick to admit wrong, and live without the dualistic hypocrisy of a double life.
  • Consistency Under Pressure: Daniel did not panic or suddenly start praying because of the new law; his integrity was proven by his steady, unbroken habit of praying and giving thanks to God three times a day “as usual”.
  • The Rewards of Character: Living a life of integrity brings the continued relief of a clear conscience, personal intimacy with God, and the priceless inheritance of a lingering legacy for your children.

Scripture References

  • Daniel 6:1–28
  • Proverbs 10:9
  • Proverbs 20:6–7

Message 12: Extending Grace

Sermon Overview We have all been unfairly wounded, and the natural human instinct is to nurse bitterness and plot revenge. However, Swindoll teaches that the grinding feelings of resentment are only resolved by extending grace. To illustrate this, he examines the life of Joseph, who endured 13 years of horrific victimization: he was hated by his brothers, thrown into a pit, sold into slavery, falsely accused of rape, and forgotten in an Egyptian dungeon. Decades later, as the powerful Prime Minister of Egypt, Joseph possessed absolute authority over the brothers who ruined his youth. Instead of executing them, Joseph wept, forgave them, and provided for them, recognizing that God had sovereignly orchestrated the entire ordeal.

Key Facts

  • Grace in Action: Grace means doing what is best and right when you have been done wrong, and responding with a forgiving attitude even if the guilty party never genuinely repents.
  • Refusing to Play God: When Joseph’s brothers cowered in fear, Joseph extended grace by asking, “Am I God?” He recognized that taking vengeance and punishing others is a role reserved strictly for the Lord.
  • The Divine Perspective: Joseph was freed from bitterness because he grasped the overarching sovereignty of God, telling his brothers, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good”.

Scripture References

  • Genesis 37:2
  • Genesis 39:1–23
  • Genesis 50:14–21
  • Romans 8:28

Message 13: Encouraging Others

Sermon Overview Encouraging others is not merely a nice idea; according to the New Testament, it is a strict, vital command for every believer. Swindoll introduces a man named Joseph from Cyprus, who was so exceptional at lifting others up that the apostles officially nicknamed him Barnabas, meaning “Son of Encouragement”. Barnabas’s life provides a practical blueprint for how believers can inject courage into a hurting world. He modeled financial generosity by selling his land to provide for persecuted Christians, and he bravely risked his reputation to endorse the newly converted (and highly feared) Saul of Tarsus. Ultimately, Barnabas demonstrated the profound grace of giving a “second chance” when he stubbornly refused to give up on the young defector, John Mark.

Key Facts

  • The Power of Endorsement: When the apostles in Jerusalem rightfully feared Saul because of his violent past, Barnabas spontaneously stepped forward, took Saul by the arm, and vouched for the authenticity of his conversion.
  • Unselfish Teamwork: When a revival broke out in Antioch, Barnabas did not hoard the spotlight; he traveled 100 miles to Tarsus to find Saul, bringing him back so they could share the ministry load together.
  • Second Chance Encouragement: Paul and Barnabas had a massive, sharp disagreement over John Mark, who had previously deserted them. While Paul refused to travel with a quitter, Barnabas’s commitment to encouraging the fallen ultimately salvaged Mark’s ministry.

Scripture References

  • Acts 4:32–37
  • Acts 9:19–28
  • Acts 11:19–26
  • Acts 15:36–41
  • Hebrews 10:23–25
  • Job 4:3–4

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Sep 30 2017

Growing Up in God’s Family

God’s Word describes the body of believers as “brothers and sisters” and “co-heirs” with Jesus, and when Jesus taught His disciples to pray, He began by saying, “Our Father.” Why?

We’re a family in Christ. And like any family, God’s family is filled with people in all stages of spiritual development: newborn believers, those still adolescent in their walk, and the spiritually mature.

Join Chuck Swindoll as he takes an in-depth look at the stages of growth that characterize the Christian walk.

Spiritual maturity is not an automatic result of time; it is a process of intentional growth. In this series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores the “ages and stages” of the Christian life. By comparing spiritual development to human physical growth—from infancy to adulthood—Chuck provides a roadmap for identifying immaturity and pursuing the “solid food” of a deep, seasoned relationship with Christ.

Message 1: Analysis of a Crop Failure

  • Overview: Why do some Christians stop growing? Using the Parable of the Soils, Chuck analyzes the internal and external “choke points” that prevent the Word of God from producing a harvest in a believer’s life.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual “crop failure” is rarely a seed problem; it is almost always a soil problem involving the distractions of the world or a lack of depth in the heart.
  • Scripture Reference: Matthew 13:1–23

Message 2: Growing Up in God’s Family

  • Overview: An introduction to the family dynamics of the Kingdom. Chuck establishes that every believer enters God’s family as a “newborn” and outlines the biblical expectation for consistent maturation.
  • Key Fact: Just as physical growth is the natural result of health, spiritual growth is the natural result of a healthy connection to the Head of the Church, Jesus Christ.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 2:12–14

Message 3: Ages and Stages of Growing Up

  • Overview: Chuck explores the distinct phases of spiritual life mentioned by the Apostle John: little children, young men, and fathers.
  • Key Fact: Each stage of spiritual growth has its own unique strengths (such as the energy of “young men”) and its own unique vulnerabilities.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 2:12–14

Message 4: Birth and Infancy: Survival Basics

  • Overview: Every believer starts at the same place: spiritual infancy. This message focuses on the “survival basics” of the new life in Christ, primarily the craving for the “pure milk of the word.”
  • Key Fact: Spiritual infants are characterized by a total dependence on others for “feeding” and a high need for protection and basic nurture.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 Peter 2:1–3

Message 5: Look . . . I’m Walking!

  • Overview: The transition from being a passive recipient of the Word to an active doer. Chuck discusses the first steps of spiritual obedience and the “wobbles” that often accompany early growth.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual “walking” begins when a believer moves from merely hearing the Truth to applying it in daily, practical decisions.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 5:11–14

Message 6: The Delights of Childhood

  • Overview: Childhood is a season of wonder and simple trust. Chuck encourages believers to maintain a “childlike” faith—characterized by curiosity and dependence—without becoming “childish.”
  • Key Fact: Jesus taught that the Kingdom of God belongs to those who approach Him with the humility and openness of a child.
  • Scripture Reference: Mark 10:13–16

Message 7: Adult Talk about “Childish Things”

  • Overview: There is a point where a believer must “put away childish things.” Chuck identifies the behaviors that are appropriate for a child but indicate a lack of growth in an adult believer.
  • Key Fact: “Childishness” in the church is often manifested through divisiveness, jealousy, and a focus on self-interest rather than the needs of the Body.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 Corinthians 13:11; 1 Corinthians 3:1–3

Message 8: Three Proofs of Growth

  • Overview: How do you measure spiritual maturity? Chuck provides three objective benchmarks: a growing knowledge of Christ, an increasing discernment of truth, and a deepening stability in character.
  • Key Fact: Maturity is not measured by how much you know, but by how much your knowledge has transformed your character.
  • Scripture Reference: 2 Peter 3:18; Ephesians 4:13–15

Message 9: Adolescents in Adult Bodies

  • Overview: A challenging message regarding spiritual “arrested development.” Chuck describes the frustration of being chronologically old in the faith but spiritually immature.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual adolescence is marked by a “know-it-all” attitude combined with a lack of consistent, sacrificial responsibility.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 5:12; 1 Corinthians 3:1–4

Message 10: When Peter Pan Comes to Church

  • Overview: Drawing on the literary figure who refused to grow up, Chuck addresses the “Peter Pan syndrome” in the church—believers who want the benefits of the family without the responsibilities of adulthood.
  • Key Fact: A healthy church requires “fathers and mothers” in the faith who are willing to mentor the next generation rather than remaining perpetual consumers.
  • Scripture Reference: Philippians 3:12–16

Message 11: What’s Right about Adolescence?

  • Overview: While adolescence can be a time of turmoil, it also brings passion and strength. Chuck explores how the zeal of “young men” in the faith is vital for spiritual warfare and church health.
  • Key Fact: Spiritual adolescents often possess the “word of God abiding in them” and the strength to overcome the evil one in ways that more passive believers do not.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 2:14

Message 12: Reasons We Resist Becoming Mature

  • Overview: Why do we stay small? Chuck identifies the common hurdles to growth: the comfort of the familiar, a fear of what God might ask of us, and a lack of spiritual discipline.
  • Key Fact: Resistance to growth is often a subtle form of self-protection that keeps us from the “abundant life” Christ promised.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 6:1–3; Galatians 5:1

Message 13: The Church: Who Needs It?

  • Overview: Growth doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Chuck makes a compelling case for the necessity of the local church as the “greenhouse” where spiritual maturity is cultivated through fellowship and accountability.
  • Key Fact: Isolation is the enemy of maturity; we are commanded to “provoke one another to love and good works” through regular gathering.
  • Scripture Reference: Hebrews 10:24–25

Message 14: A Story for Adults to Remember

  • Overview: Using a narrative approach, Chuck shares a powerful “story of growth” that illustrates the shift from self-centeredness to God-centeredness.
  • Key Fact: Biblical stories and parables serve as “mirrors” that allow us to see our own spiritual standing more clearly than abstract lists.
  • Scripture Reference: Luke 15:11–32

Message 15: A Song for Adults to Sing

  • Overview: A message on the role of worship and gratitude in the life of a mature believer. Chuck explores how our “song” changes as we grow deeper in the Lord.
  • Key Fact: The mature believer’s worship is rooted in the “theology of the soul” rather than just the emotions of the moment.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 40:1–3; Colossians 3:16

Message 16: Growing Up in God’s Family

  • Overview: The series finale. Chuck synthesizes the lessons learned into a final call to pursue Christ with everything we have, moving toward the goal of “fullness in Christ.”
  • Key Fact: The ultimate goal of growing up in God’s family is to reflect the character of the Elder Brother, Jesus Christ, to a watching world.
  • Scripture Reference: Ephesians 4:11–16

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Nov 30 2015

Biblical Parenting

Parenting is a privilege . . . and yet, it sometimes feels like a struggle. Whether persevering through an infant's late-night cries or grappling with a teenager's bad attitude, all parents need help. This series will throw a lifeline to moms and dads as Chuck Swindoll teaches biblical and practical principles for godly parenting.

In this practical and heart-to-heart series, Pastor Chuck Swindoll explores the high calling of raising children. Moving beyond rigid rules, Chuck focuses on the “spirit” of the home, emphasizing the importance of understanding each child’s unique, God-given “bent,” breaking generational cycles of unhealthy behavior, and fostering an environment of grace and delight.

Message 1: Discovering Your Child and Yourself

  • Overview: Parenting begins with self-awareness. This message explores how a parent’s own temperament and history impact their children, and the importance of “studying” each child to understand their unique personality.
  • Key Fact: Effective parenting requires a “discovery” mindset—treating each child as a unique puzzle to be solved rather than a project to be managed.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 139:13–16

Message 2: The Bents in Your Baby

  • Overview: A deep dive into the most famous parenting verse in the Bible. Chuck explains that “the way he should go” refers to a child’s natural inclinations and God-given design.
  • Key Fact: Training a child according to their “bent” means aligning our discipline and encouragement with their natural strengths rather than trying to force them into a mold.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 22:6

Message 3: Straightening Granddad’s Bent

  • Overview: This message addresses the reality of generational patterns. Chuck discusses how to identify and “straighten” the negative habits or sins that have been passed down through family lines.
  • Key Fact: Breaking a family cycle requires an intentional, biblical intervention to prevent the “sins of the fathers” from affecting the next generation.
  • Scripture Reference: Exodus 34:6–7

Message 4: Unpacking Our ”Ancestral Baggage”

  • Overview: Every parent brings “luggage” from their own upbringing into their new home. Chuck provides a roadmap for unpacking and discarding the emotional and spiritual baggage that hinders healthy parenting.
  • Key Fact: The first step toward parenting freedom is identifying which of your reactions are rooted in your past rather than your child’s current behavior.
  • Scripture Reference: Ezekiel 18:14–17

Message 5: Shaping the Will with Wisdom

  • Overview: Chuck explores the delicate balance between discipline and spirit. This message focuses on how to shape a child’s will through consistent, wise discipline without crushing their spirit.
  • Key Fact: Biblical discipline is a proactive investment in a child’s future character, not a reactive vent for a parent’s frustration.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 19:18; Proverbs 13:24

Message 6: Delighting in Your Children

  • Overview: Parenting should not be a drudgery. Chuck encourages parents to recapture the joy of family life by learning to truly “delight” in the gift of their children.
  • Key Fact: A child’s sense of security is deeply tied to the visible delight and approval they see in their parents’ eyes.
  • Scripture Reference: Psalm 127:3–5

Message 7: Delightful Memories Your Children Won’t Forget

  • Overview: This message emphasizes the importance of legacy. Chuck discusses how to intentionally build “memorials of delight” through traditions, laughter, and shared experiences.
  • Key Fact: Traditions and positive memories serve as emotional “anchors” that keep children grounded in their faith and family identity as they grow.
  • Scripture Reference: Deuteronomy 6:6–9

Message 8: When the Fun Stops for Parents

  • Overview: An encouraging word for parents facing the “tough stuff”—seasons of rebellion, exhaustion, or disappointment where the joy of parenting seems to have vanished.
  • Key Fact: Perseverance in parenting is a spiritual discipline; God provides special grace for the seasons when parenting feels more like a battle than a blessing.
  • Scripture Reference: Galatians 6:9; Lamentations 3:22–23

Message 9: Resolving Those Parent-Child Conflicts

  • Overview: Conflict is inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be destructive. Chuck outlines a biblical process for resolving tension and restoring harmony between parents and children.
  • Key Fact: Reconciliation is more important than “winning” an argument; humble parents who can admit they are wrong model the Gospel for their children.
  • Scripture Reference: Ephesians 6:1–4

Message 10: Accepting Reproof from Those Who Love Us

  • Overview: A message on the humility of a parent. Chuck discusses the value of being open to correction and feedback from spouses, mentors, and even our own children.
  • Key Fact: A teachable parent is much more likely to raise a teachable child; modeling humility is the most effective way to teach it.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 15:31–32

Message 11: Suggestions for Parenting Grown-Up Kids

  • Overview: As children reach adulthood, the parenting role must shift from “coach” to “consultant.” Chuck provides wisdom for navigating this complex and often difficult transition.
  • Key Fact: Influence with adult children is based on relationship and respect, not on the authority or control that characterized the childhood years.
  • Scripture Reference: Proverbs 17:6

Message 12: What to Do When You’ve Blown It

  • Overview: The series concludes with a message of hope for parents who feel they have failed. Chuck explains that it is never too late to seek forgiveness and begin a process of restoration.
  • Key Fact: God is the God of the “second chance,” and His grace is sufficient to cover our parenting mistakes and heal family rifts.
  • Scripture Reference: 1 John 1:9; Joel 2:25–26

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