“For better or worse” . . . “in sickness and health” . . . “’til death do us part” . . . “I DO.” The marriage vows are easy when life is beautiful. It certainly was for the young, vibrant model and her loving, loyal husband preparing to practice law after the bar exam.
However, passing the bar was simple compared to the tests life presented this young couple.
On a quiet afternoon, Katherine suffered a massive brain stem stroke due to a rare congenital defect. After a 16-hour surgery to remove more than half her cerebellum, vital intracranial nerves were sacrificed that could’ve left her paralyzed or in a vegetative state.
And this was just the first of many health challenges they would face over the next 10 years.
Statistically, 98 percent of couples divorce when faced with unbearable odds. However, Jay and Katherine are the kind of people who don’t give up.
If you’re wanting to give up on life, a mate, a job, or any circumstance that appears impossible, you must hear this message of hope. Jay and Katherine continue to live out their marriage vows in ways only God could have orchestrated.
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Choosing to see God’s goodness amid our devastating trials can seem impossible. But hope exists for everyone willing to embrace what God has allowed. The life we live may not be the one we planned, but it IS the life God knew before the beginning of time.
YOU are a vessel, a living message that this world is only temporary and will one day be made new into our eternal home.
Until then, we are called to a greater purpose beyond what we can do on our own. Will you lean in to Jesus Christ and ask Him this question, “For what purpose?” He has not left you to suffer alone; there is purpose in your suffering.
Altering our perspective can be life changing and life giving. What can you do today to turn your trials into transforming works that display God’s faithfulness and goodness?
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About Jay and Katherine Wolf
Katherine Arnold and Jay Wolf met at Samford University (not Stanford, though you can think that if you want) in Birmingham, Alabama, where they fell in love and decided they wanted to make their life together. On a gorgeous fall day, they were married in Athens, Georgia. Though 22 years old and not fully grasping the reality of what they were promising, they offered each other perhaps the sweetest words any human can offer another . . . for worse, for poorer, in sickness, ’til death.
Their sights were set on adventures in California, with dreams of the entertainment industry and law school at Pepperdine University. Early years in LA were full of making a life in one of the world’s most vibrant cities. There they found a depth of Christian community and an ownership of their faith they had never experienced before through their church, Bel Air Presbyterian. In the final year of law school and years ahead of their schedule for having a baby—but right on time—James Thompson Wolf was born.
Just six months and five days later, Katherine collapsed in her kitchen with a stroke while baby James slept in the other room and during a 45-minute window while Jay “just happened” to be home before one of his final law school classes.
She was rushed to UCLA Medical Center where one of the world’s best neurosurgeons, Dr. Nestor Gonzalez, “just happened” to be on call. It was the largest AVM he had ever seen, in the worst location. She was not expected to live, but despite the grim prognosis and the lawyer husband, he took the case. Katherine lived! And then the real story began.
You can read the rest in their book Hope Heals or maybe see it on the big screen one day as Sony Pictures recently optioned the rights to make it into a movie!
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