Overview:
Love is the best known and least understood of God’s attributes. Few doubt that God is love. Yet, many believe that God’s love, as demonstrated in His patience, mercy, and forgiveness, nullifies His righteousness, justice, and holiness. This popular notion of God, as if He were a benign, aging grandfather, sitting passively in heaven—affable, lenient, permissive, and devoid of any real displeasure over sin because He loves us—cheapens God’s love. It doesn’t uphold the value of His love. In truth, looking into God’s heart to discover His love is to discover His other attributes as well.
Message Summary:
Message Key Facts:
- The Most Important Thing About Us: Swindoll opens with a profound 12-word maxim: "What we think about God is the most important thing about us." He argues that a low view of God leads to shallow worship, while a high, biblical view leads to deep satisfaction [7–8].
- Love vs. Light: Swindoll contrasts 1 John 4:8 ("God is love") with 1 John 1:5 ("God is light"). He explains that God’s love is not a license for "anything goes"; it is balanced by His absolute lack of darkness or impurity [14–16].
- The Proof of Discipline: Using Hebrews 12, Swindoll explains that discipline is a mark of inclusion, not rejection. If you are never disciplined by God, you are an "illegitimate child." He illustrates this with a personal story of disciplining his daughter, Colleen, noting that a father corrects because he loves the child too much to let them destroy themselves [20–24].
- The "Why" of God's Love: Swindoll points to Deuteronomy 7:7–8 to answer why God loves us. It is not because of our numbers or merit, but simply "because the Lord loved you." It is a sovereign choice based on His character, not ours [27–28].
- The Professor's Confession: Swindoll recounts a moving story of a brilliant seminary professor who, after Swindoll hugged him and expressed his love, wrote a note saying, "Never in my adult life have I ever had another man to tell me he loved me." This highlights the deep human hunger for affirmation [32–33].
- The "Dashboard Note" Illustration: Swindoll shares a personal anecdote about leaving a sticky note reading "I love you" on his wife’s dashboard. Weeks later, he found it still there, illustrating that the knowledge of being loved is something we cling to, just as we cling to God’s "everlasting love" [37–39].
- The Autopsy of a Sinner: Swindoll uses Romans 3 to perform a spiritual "autopsy" on humanity—throats like open graves, deceitful tongues, and no fear of God. He contrasts this depravity with Romans 5:8, showing that God loves us while we are in that state, not after we clean ourselves up [44–46].
- The Prodigal's Reception: In retelling the story from Luke 15, Swindoll emphasizes that the father did not wait for the son to finish his rehearsed speech of apology. Instead, he interrupted with grace, calling for a robe and a ring, showing that God’s love focuses on restoration rather than groveling [50–51].
Message References:
- 1 John 4:7–8: "Beloved, let us love one another... for God is love."
- 1 John 1:5: "God is light, and in Him there is no darkness at all."
- John 3:14–16: The comparison of the serpent in the wilderness to the Son of Man being lifted up so the world might be saved.
- Hebrews 12:6–11: "For those whom the Lord loves He disciplines, and He scourges every son whom He receives."
- Deuteronomy 7:6–8: The declaration that God chose Israel not because they were numerous, but because He loved them and kept His oath.
- Jeremiah 31:3: "I have loved you with an everlasting love; Therefore I have drawn you with lovingkindness."
- Romans 3:10–18: The description of human depravity ("There is none righteous, not even one").
- Romans 5:8: "But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."
- Luke 15 (Retold): The parable of the Prodigal Son, illustrating the Father's welcome.